i'm 19 and i've never had a girlfriend

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i've never had a girlfriend, i feel like this is sharing too much cus i just want to give retarded advice and lurk the must reads, but i could use advice.

i've kissed 4 girls, like ever. all somewhat recently (past 8 months) all at bars, one at a house party. but i've never had a girlfriend, not even close. i've taken 3 girls out on dates, when i was 16/17 (19 now). but in all honesty, with how my life is going, i wont magically meet someone. and i understand the immediate thought process for anyone reading will be "subhuman", but im not. i cant meet anyone and don't feel like anyone on a dating app will feel any level of special.

this is probably late night retarded thoughts, but this isnt something i could casually talk with my friends about.

how can i meet someone without forcing myself to be around more women like a truecel
 
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dnr, just get a girl from the club pregnant and she's forced to deal with u for the rest of her life
 
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dnr, just get a girl from the club pregnant and she's forced to deal with u for the rest of her life
that is the worst possible response i could have got from this thread
 
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I’m in the same boat as you 😔
 
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I kissed 4 girls when I was 12
its over
 
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I kissed 4 girls when I was 12
its over
bro shit was retarded asf at my school i could have easily. i'm not trying to come off like im some chad, but out of choice, i often don't chase for it when i'm out at bars or parties with my friends, because i don't like doing it
 
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bro shit was retarded asf at my school i could have easily. i'm not trying to come off like im some chad, but out of choice, i often don't chase for it when i'm out at bars or parties with my friends, because i don't like doing it
look into 4 years and think again

grils are everything
 
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two things. you're only 19 and secondly you've proven you can pull girls before. unsure why you're stressing, maybe if you were 19 and never had any success sure however thats not the case. stop rotting and over obsessing over this, if you're capable of going on dates you're capable of being in a relationship.
 
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look into 4 years and think again

grils are everything
yeah stacys, wouldn't waste my time with whore foids that drink every weekend.
 
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i've never had a girlfriend, i feel like this is sharing too much cus i just want to give retarded advice and lurk the must reads, but i could use advice.

i've kissed 4 girls, like ever. all somewhat recently (past 8 months) all at bars, one at a house party. but i've never had a girlfriend, not even close. i've taken 3 girls out on dates, when i was 16/17 (19 now). but in all honesty, with how my life is going, i wont magically meet someone. and i understand the immediate thought process for anyone reading will be "subhuman", but im not. i cant meet anyone and don't feel like anyone on a dating app will feel any level of special.

this is probably late night retarded thoughts, but this isnt something i could casually talk with my friends about.

how can i meet someone without forcing myself to be around more women like a truecel
Get drunk and walk around hitting on girls you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take
 
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yeah stacys, wouldn't waste my time with whore foids that drink every weekend.
life would be complete if I LTR with a true Stacy at a young age and we run away
 
two things. you're only 19 and secondly you've proven you can pull girls before. unsure why you're stressing, maybe if you were 19 and never had any success sure however thats not the case. stop rotting and over obsessing over this, if you're capable of going on dates you're capable of being in a relationship.
it's mostly because of the group i'm friends with, makes me feel like im behind never having a relationship, that and everyone i went to school with always posting their relationships. Makes me feel insecure about it
 
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Get drunk and walk around hitting on girls you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take
my hb does this and got kicked out before for doing this to the same girl
 
my hb does this and got kicked out before for doing this to the same girl
Yea that’s a no no for people below htn you jus gotta move on quick and think Who cares?? IM DRUNK!! And move on
 
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it's mostly because of the group i'm friends with, makes me feel like im behind never having a relationship, that and everyone i went to school with always posting their relationships. Makes me feel insecure about it
most people aren't, there are pressures but you just gotta ignore them. if you want a relationship go and look for one, but don't feel pressure just because you aren't actively in one.
 
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Yea that’s a no no for people below htn you jus gotta move on quick and think Who cares?? IM DRUNK!! And move on
jfl i could never have the confidence no matter how drunk i am
 
most people aren't, there are pressures but you just gotta ignore them. if you want a relationship go and look for one, but don't feel pressure just because you aren't actively in one.
thank u
 
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at least youve had a kiss
 
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you gotta inhibmin, there should be some threads on that on here. also don't stress, you're already further than like 80% of people on this forum
 
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I hope you never get one friendo
 
dnr, just get a girl from the club pregnant and she's forced to deal with u for the rest of her life
You saw clav reject that latina for having a kid quite instantly on her screensaver
 
i've never had a girlfriend, i feel like this is sharing too much cus i just want to give retarded advice and lurk the must reads, but i could use advice.

i've kissed 4 girls, like ever. all somewhat recently (past 8 months) all at bars, one at a house party. but i've never had a girlfriend, not even close. i've taken 3 girls out on dates, when i was 16/17 (19 now). but in all honesty, with how my life is going, i wont magically meet someone. and i understand the immediate thought process for anyone reading will be "subhuman", but im not. i cant meet anyone and don't feel like anyone on a dating app will feel any level of special.

this is probably late night retarded thoughts, but this isnt something i could casually talk with my friends about.

how can i meet someone without forcing myself to be around more women like a truecel
dnr, meet a random girl and pretend to like her, crack, date for 8ish months, then get broken up with cause she hates you, and repeat
 
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then get one, if you are social you can work it out.
 
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