I’m 30F. Never experienced intimacy/dating and I’m about to lose my mind.

[AlexAP]

I’m 30, and I’ve never been in a relationship, never even held hands with someone. I feel like I’m doing all the right things—putting myself out there by going to events, classes, and social gatherings. I even travel and meet amazing people including men—but nothing seems to click.

Meanwhile, I hear stories about how people easily find romantic or even sexual connections, and it’s starting to get to me. I don’t think I’m undatable or anything, but I genuinely don’t understand how people make this look so effortless.

I’m about to start therapy because this is weighing on me, but I’m scared I’ll just hear “it’s normal” or “nothing’s wrong with you,” which doesn’t help me feel less stuck. I just want to feel connected to someone, but it feels impossible, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong.

If you’ve been in a similar situation or have any advice, I’d really appreciate hearing it.

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[not__cel]

Dyke?

 

[AlexAP]

Dyke?

No, she's straight

 

[not__cel]

No, she's straight

Autistic?

 

[notalive]

I’m khhv and 26 years old. I’ll be you in a few years. How is it just getting to you?

I’m already mentally wrecked and accepted that I will likely never ascend no matter how many hardmaxxes I do. I am trying bimax tho soon

 

[AlexAP]

Autistic?

She says she comes from a very religious upbringing and has anxiety issues around men.

 

[notalive]

I’m khhv and 26 years old. I’ll be you in a few years. How is it just getting to you?

I’m already mentally wrecked and accepted that I will likely never ascend no matter how many hardmaxxes I do. I am trying bimax tho soon

Oh this is a Reddit post?

 

[AlexAP]

Oh this is a Reddit post?

Yeah, Reddit post

 

[notalive]

Yeah, Reddit post

fix the link, it isn’t showing up for me