Im afraid of thinking I'm slightly attractive whilst being ugly

[itisoverformeh101]

There are studies that prove that WE believe we are more attractive than we really are and that's a good thing for the mentality but a bad thing for our environment
I believe that I am not a hideous looking incel but average or slightly slightly above average
I sometimes get IOIS but 99% of the time I am lonely, have no friends, only talk to my small family in my house and I barely talk to them
I hope Im not someone that overestimates themselves this will be a fear of mine despite me not ever attempting to make eye contact with IOIS

 

[Bugmaxxed]

If I believe im more attractive than I really am than holy shit

 

[Topkra]

You have been on this forum for 2 years. You probably know if you are attractive or not

 

[Bugmaxxed]

You have been on this forum for 2 years. You probably know if you are attractive or not

Holy math

 

[Topkra]

Holy math

It's enough time anyways

 

[PrettyLights]

muh ioi. muh choosing signal

 

[luuk]

There are studies that prove that WE believe we are more attractive than we really are and that's a good thing for the mentality but a bad thing for our environment
I believe that I am not a hideous looking incel but average or slightly slightly above average
I sometimes get IOIS but 99% of the time I am lonely, have no friends, only talk to my small family in my house and I barely talk to them
I hope Im not someone that overestimates themselves this will be a fear of mine despite me not ever attempting to make eye contact with IOIS

Stop looking into it
Work to improve your looks but don’t obsess over insecurities in the name of muh realism

I made a thread on this, you are MUCH better off believing you are attractive than having a realistic self assessment

 

[Bugmaxxed]

It's enough time anyways

15/24

 

[itisoverformeh101]

If I believe im more attractive than I really am than holy shit

this is why I don't overstep myself and make eye contact bacjk with those IOIS because at the same time I don't even know if they look at me cause they think I'm attractive or judging me

 

[shandingo]

There are studies that prove that WE believe we are more attractive than we really are and that's a good thing for the mentality but a bad thing for our environment
I believe that I am not a hideous looking incel but average or slightly slightly above average
I sometimes get IOIS but 99% of the time I am lonely, have no friends, only talk to my small family in my house and I barely talk to them
I hope Im not someone that overestimates themselves this will be a fear of mine despite me not ever attempting to make eye contact with IOIS

1. How many girls go on dates with you on Tinder ?
2. How many girls have been attracted to you IRL (not IOI copes I mean you 100% knew she likes you).

If the answers are 0 then you are ugly and low SMV.

The only 2 ways to determine your SMV , everything else is cope.

 

[itisoverformeh101]

You have been on this forum for 2 years. You probably know if you are attractive or not

dude dysmorphia is real and ik for a fact I look better than 2 years ago but I am not sure if I am actually attractive in society standards or just to myself and actually not attractive to anybody

 

[Topkra]

dude dysmorphia is real and ik for a fact I look better than 2 years ago but I am not sure if I am actually attractive in society standards or just to myself and actually not attractive to anybody

Better to just assume you are and keep your confidence high

 

[itisoverformeh101]

Stop looking into it
Work to improve your looks but don’t obsess over insecurities in the name of muh realism

I made a thread on this, you are MUCH better off believing you are attractive than having a realistic self assessment

imma read your threat and see but tbh nah I want to make sure I am attractive before I even attempt to pursue girls

 

[itisoverformeh101]

Better to just assume you are and keep your confidence high

all about confidence huh but imma just keep leanmaxxing see if I actually am somewhat attractive or not

 

[luuk]

I want to make sure I am attractive before I even attempt to pursue girls

Absolutely do not do this, this is the most retarded and ridiculous mindset you can have and is genuinely the reason half of this site gets no bitches. Clear this ridiculous mentality from your head

 

[itisoverformeh101]

1. How many girls go on dates with you on Tinder ?
2. How many girls have been attracted to you IRL (not IOI copes I mean you 100% knew she likes you).

If the answers are 0 then you are ugly and low SMV.

The only 2 ways to determine your SMV , everything else is cope.

I'm 18 never used tinder so cant really asnwer
but I have had an ex of four years and bodymaxxed mtb and have known that for sure that 3 girls have liked me in 2 years of being at school lollll

 

[itisoverformeh101]

Absolutely do not do this, this is the most retarded and ridiculous mindset you can have and is genuinely the reason half of this site gets no bitches. Clear this ridiculous mentality from your head

thanks for the advice but then what do I need to Maxx out I actually am probably the loneliest person in school

 

[italianltn]

know your ugly and move with confidence. think like an ltn move like a cl.

 

[itisoverformeh101]

know your ugly and move with confidence. think like an ltn move like a cl.

then get called egotistical or some shit but tbh some girls would def dig it

 

[Faxed]

Its extremely brutal to look back on lmao, even now i still cope and convince myself I can become attractive occasionally

 

[italianltn]

then get called egotistical or some shit but tbh some girls would def dig it

what other options are there lmfao, if your ugly either you rot or you do your best with what you've got. success rate will be pretty brutal but better then rotting imo

 

[luuk]

thanks for the advice but then what do I need to Maxx out I actually am probably the loneliest person in school

Socialmaxx
You need to have friends and a social circle and to be regularly meeting people to actually slay, circle is law

 

[itisoverformeh101]

Socialmaxx
You need to have friends and a social circle and to be regularly meeting people to actually slay, circle is law

over for me then lololol

 

[Vireon]

There are studies that prove that WE believe we are more attractive than we really are and that's a good thing for the mentality but a bad thing for our environment
I believe that I am not a hideous looking incel but average or slightly slightly above average
I sometimes get IOIS but 99% of the time I am lonely, have no friends, only talk to my small family in my house and I barely talk to them
I hope Im not someone that overestimates themselves this will be a fear of mine despite me not ever attempting to make eye contact with IOIS

I wish there was a repost button, to add to the ropefuel whenever i'm in public I start frauding and thinking im all that and when I see the pictures back I look like a subhuman who came out of Shrek's asshole