I'm depressed as fuck and my girlfriend is making it worse now

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So basically: I'm coming down very hard from ecstasy which I did last Saturday, on Tuesday I was in hell, yesterday was okay but today it's gotten to the point where I can't even function or talk to another human. Recently my gf is getting on my fucking nerves too cuz I'm always the one who initiates sex and it's very consistent for her to say "No baby now's not a good time" or " we already did it so much babe I'm hurting a bit" or "it can wait till tonight" etc etc. You know that shit. Don't get me wrong, we're still having daily sex, but I want more than that and the only reason we do is because I am very aggressive and I push for sex many times when we're together. If I wasn't doing all the hard work we wouln't be getting any, it's like she doesn't want to have sex (even though once we she seems very into it so I'm really fucking confused). Today she texted me "I'm bored wbu" and I said "we shouldn't see each other tonight" and so far nothing else.

idk guys I'm so sexually frustrated and low serotonin at the same time that I'm close to suicide/murder please help me not fuck up what should I do
 
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At least you have a girlfriend.
 
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Stopped reading at the 7th word
Fucking nagger, I hope you die
 
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Is your dick cut? Ded srs
 
eh
 
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Recently my gf is getting on my fucking nerves too cuz I'm always the one who initiates sex and it's very consistent for her to say "No baby now's not a good time" or " we already did it so much babe I'm hurting a bit" or "it can wait till tonight" etc etc. You know that shit. Don't get me wrong, we're still having daily sex, but I want more than that and the only reason we do is because I am very aggressive and I push for sex many times when we're together. If I wasn't doing all the hard work we wouln't be getting any, it's like she doesn't want to have sex (even though once we she seems very into it so I'm really fucking confused). Today she texted me "I'm bored wbu" and I said "we shouldn't see each other tonight" and so far nothing else.
The absolute state of all sub8 males
In a relationship
 
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saying "we shouldn't see each other tonight" is passive aggressive af bro. It's cliche but try communicating your feelings in a relaxed way.
 
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Yeah

Basically yeah
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but that is likely the very reason she is sore. Girls who go from having sex with a cut guy to one with an uncut dick say it is much more smooth and not as rough. Also probably the reason you are never sexually satisfied. I was like that as well until I did foreskin restoration and could actually experience a legit sexual release.
 
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saying "we shouldn't see each other tonight" is passive aggressive af bro. It's cliche but try communicating your feelings in a relaxed way.
My brain isn't working right so how should I word it?
 
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My brain isn't working right so how should I word it?
no reason to rush it brother. just ask for some "space" first and let your mind relax. do something else that brings you happiness. I don't know your gf at all so I can't predate the right words.

edit: I was in a similar instance in the past. Didn't ask for space and approached partner pissed off. Relationship ended and lesson learned.

Gl with all this
 
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no reason to rush it brother. just ask for some "space" first and let your mind relax. do something else that brings you happiness. I don't know your gf at all so I can't predate the right words.

edit: I was in a similar instance in the past. Didn't ask for space and approached partner pissed off. Relationship ended and lesson learned.

Gl with all this
I'm gonna text her in a bit "whatchu doing babe?" Then if she responds with something I'll just say I needed some space and alone time tonight. Good?
 
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I'm gonna text her in a bit "whatchu doing babe?" Then if she responds with something I'll just say I needed some space and alone time tonight. Good?
that's perfect. If she asked why you said you guys shouldn't have seen each other then continue to ask for the space and inform you'll explain later. It's all about your head and comfort for now.
 
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that's perfect. If she asked why you said you guys shouldn't have seen each other then continue to ask for the space and inform you'll explain later. It's all about your head and comfort for now.
Alright sweet bro I'll keep it down low for now cuz I'm not in the right place mentally
 
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If you have to make so much effort to just to convince her to have sex then something is definitely wrong, man. Let’s hope that she just isn’t in the mood for it and it isn’t anything else such as her now finding you sexually undesirable.
 
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If you have to make so much effort to just to convince her to have sex then something is definitely wrong, man. Let’s hope that she just isn’t in the mood for it and it isn’t anything else such as her now finding you sexually undesirable.
I think she finds me desirable cuz she basically lets me do anythin. Tbh it's not like I'm nagging for sex, but there's clearly a mismatch in how horny we both are.
 
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So basically: I'm coming down very hard from ecstasy which I did last Saturday, on Tuesday I was in hell, yesterday was okay but today it's gotten to the point where I can't even function or talk to another human. Recently my gf is getting on my fucking nerves too cuz I'm always the one who initiates sex and it's very consistent for her to say "No baby now's not a good time" or " we already did it so much babe I'm hurting a bit" or "it can wait till tonight" etc etc. You know that shit. Don't get me wrong, we're still having daily sex, but I want more than that and the only reason we do is because I am very aggressive and I push for sex many times when we're together. If I wasn't doing all the hard work we wouln't be getting any, it's like she doesn't want to have sex (even though once we she seems very into it so I'm really fucking confused). Today she texted me "I'm bored wbu" and I said "we shouldn't see each other tonight" and so far nothing else.

idk guys I'm so sexually frustrated and low serotonin at the same time that I'm close to suicide/murder please help me not fuck up what should I do
Is her pussy tight at least? I hate when I go inside pussy and theres no friction or shes gets too wet and then theres also no friction.
 
Is her pussy tight at least? I hate when I go inside pussy and theres no friction or shes gets too wet and then theres also no friction.
It's tight yeah I like it a lot tbh
 
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you should have recovered from your X comedown by now
 
ER. I don't know bro. Wait till everything's back to normal to thinkstraightmaxx
 
Sorry to say but she's getting ready to leave you ..

"I think things have run their course"


She's probably got a Chad in waiting. They always do
 
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I think she finds me desirable cuz she basically lets me do anythin. Tbh it's not like I'm nagging for sex, but there's clearly a mismatch in how horny we both are.
SHES FEMALE

FEMALES DONT HAVE MALE SEX DRIVE

LOL AT THIS PATHETIC BULLSHIT

BOOHOO CRY ME A RIVER

SHUT UO WITH HUMBLE BRAG THREADS ITS FUCKING ANNOYING
 
SHES FEMALE

FEMALES DONT HAVE MALE SEX DRIVE

LOL AT THIS PATHETIC BULLSHIT

BOOHOO CRY ME A RIVER

SHUT UO WITH HUMBLE BRAG THREADS ITS FUCKING ANNOYING
So you think I should just try less? Cuz I'm legit 3x hornier than her, maybe taking steroids is making my sex drive too high also. And dude I'm not bragging ffs seriously
you should have recovered from your X comedown by now
I did it Saturday and I felt great Sunday and Monday. Then on Tuesday it's like my mind died and went into complete sad angry depressed mode
 
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saying "we shouldn't see each other tonight" is passive aggressive af bro. It's cliche but try communicating your feelings in a relaxed way.
It worked man, no issues.
 
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>has a gf
>complains
kys
 
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Jfl @ using drugs

btw my gf is the same, i always initiate sex and it pisses me off, she never put my dick inside her on her own but only once.
 
Ah didnt read
 
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kys
There has been this thing going around the internet for sometime. And that is the slang "Kill Yourself"

People say this so carelessly and don't think of how it could actually be affecting the person, how much they could be bullied each day and hear these words. This is a real life crisis and happens every single day and you know what that does? It tears families apart.

It is not a fun sight to see someone you care about lying lifeless on the floor when you come home. A brother, sister, mother, father, grandma, best friend, anyone really. Anyone you have a strong bond with.

I want you to put yourself in a situation where you come home and that is exactly what you see.. a lifeless body of one you loved or had a close relationship with, the natural reaction is to scream and cry and try to wake them up.. that heartbreak during the situation and it is traumatizing.

Do not ever say "KYS" to someone if you would break down at the sight of one who did it and who spent time with you. These people have families like all of us, stop telling someone to do such a thing... now I get it's one life out of however many people are on this planet but that's not the point. You're taking away one life and hurting multiple...

If you have no heart and don't care about people at all except yourself then fine. That's sad, but fine. So be it.
 
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Jfl @ using drugs

btw my gf is the same, i always initiate sex and it pisses me off, she never put my dick inside her on her own but only once.
Drugs are life
 
There has been this thing going around the internet for sometime. And that is the slang "Kill Yourself"

People say this so carelessly and don't think of how it could actually be affecting the person, how much they could be bullied each day and hear these words. This is a real life crisis and happens every single day and you know what that does? It tears families apart.

It is not a fun sight to see someone you care about lying lifeless on the floor when you come home. A brother, sister, mother, father, grandma, best friend, anyone really. Anyone you have a strong bond with.

I want you to put yourself in a situation where you come home and that is exactly what you see.. a lifeless body of one you loved or had a close relationship with, the natural reaction is to scream and cry and try to wake them up.. that heartbreak during the situation and it is traumatizing.

Do not ever say "KYS" to someone if you would break down at the sight of one who did it and who spent time with you. These people have families like all of us, stop telling someone to do such a thing... now I get it's one life out of however many people are on this planet but that's not the point. You're taking away one life and hurting multiple...

If you have no heart and don't care about people at all except yourself then fine. That's sad, but fine. So be it.
tldr
 
Didn't you say like week ago how your relationship makes you happy, how you like her and see her as your future wife?
 
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no reason to rush it brother. just ask for some "space" first and let your mind relax. do something else that brings you happiness. I don't know your gf at all so I can't predate the right words.

edit: I was in a similar instance in the past. Didn't ask for space and approached partner pissed off. Relationship ended and lesson learned.

Gl with all this
what happened bro? did you end it or her?
 

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