ranierean
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I know it sounds rude/bad but I can’t date men I find unattractive, even if I enjoy their company and like their personality. I’m fine with talking and being around them but once it gets sexual I get disgusted and want to leave.
I am limiting my dating prospects because I rarely find anyone sexually attractive and would rather be alone than have sex with an unattractive person. I’m mad at myself because I have friends who date men they aren’t attracted to and they push past it and can enjoy their lives with them.
I can’t get past the “ick” factor. I’ve tried dating men I’m not attracted to but I usually cut it off after a couple of dates, it’s too much effort for not much reward. I don’t know if there’s anything I can do to change that.
I know it makes me a “bad” person morally but it’s not at all voluntary and I wish I could be attracted to unattractive people.
I am limiting my dating prospects because I rarely find anyone sexually attractive and would rather be alone than have sex with an unattractive person. I’m mad at myself because I have friends who date men they aren’t attracted to and they push past it and can enjoy their lives with them.
I can’t get past the “ick” factor. I’ve tried dating men I’m not attracted to but I usually cut it off after a couple of dates, it’s too much effort for not much reward. I don’t know if there’s anything I can do to change that.
I know it makes me a “bad” person morally but it’s not at all voluntary and I wish I could be attracted to unattractive people.