I’m going back to uni in September

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I’m actually finished if I don’t get on some type of drug for anxiety. Shit is literally destroying me
 
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Back to rotting in your room incel. Can't believe I spent 4 years imprisoned in my room while everyone was having fun. Now I've got a useless degree and a lifelong debt.
 
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Back to rotting in your room incel. Can't believe I spent 4 years imprisoned in my room while everyone was having fun. Now I've got a useless degree and a lifelong debt.
Nt looks or bust
 
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Do you even have to talk to people in uni? I thought you can just go there and then fuck off
 
Do you even have to talk to people in uni? I thought you can just go there and then fuck off
You will be haunted by the feeling of missing everything whole time
 
You will be haunted by the feeling of missing everything whole time
Maybe if you go to college just to have these experiences but if you just want a higher paying job then maybe not.
 
I'm starting in a month. It will be so brutal.
 
i start in 5 days
 
Do you even have to talk to people in uni? I thought you can just go there and then fuck off
Yes u have to talk to people. That’s pretty much life if u wanna make it though.
 
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Yes u have to talk to people. That’s pretty much life if u wanna make it though.
Fuck man I go there in a month I though I could just enter the lecture and then fuck off once its done
 
Fuck man I go there in a month I though I could just enter the lecture and then fuck off once its done
Well in lecture halls u don’t really but there will be scenarios where u have to
 
Well in lecture halls u don’t really but there will be scenarios where u have to
Okay yeah but you don't have to befriend them or anything you will just talk about the matter at hand and if its a nice conversation and you start talking about other shit even better.
 
What degree do you do
 
Not for an NT jock like you
No man I won't be able to cope with not knowing anyone and being expected to make friends. And jock jfl I'm a rake.
 
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Okay yeah but you don't have to befriend them or anything you will just talk about the matter at hand and if its a nice conversation and you start talking about other shit even better.
Do you have freshers week in Germany? That's what I'm worried about.
 
Do you have freshers week in Germany? That's what I'm worried about.
Why it’s just going to clubs which u already do and u don’t have to go anyway
 
Why it’s just going to clubs which u already do and u don’t have to go anyway
> Going to clubs with dozens of people I don't know.

That would be so bad I can't dance comfortably if I'm trying to make a first impression and worried what everyone thinks.

And the other option means being an incel. I'd honestly rather join the army than go to uni.
 
are you stressed ?
I tend to be low inhib but I have had a failed uni attempt where I dropped out of uni bcz the study was not for me and the people there were gay redditors. I looked at the group members in the different courses and most of them look fucking old. GG for me man. Yes I am stressed very much btw wbu?
 
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Do you have freshers week in Germany? That's what I'm worried about.
What? You will study here in Germany? No idea if we have that
 
I tend to be low inhib but I have had a failed uni attempt where I dropped out of uni bcz the study was not for me and the people there were gay redditors. I looked at the group members in the different courses and most of them look fucking old. GG for me man. Yes I am stressed very much btw wbu?
brutal still good luck
 
> Going to clubs with dozens of people I don't know.

That would be so bad I can't dance comfortably if I'm trying to make a first impression and worried what everyone thinks.

And the other option means being an incel. I'd honestly rather join the army than go to uni.
So drink and do drugs before u go
 
What? You will study here in Germany? No idea if we have that
No I mean it's something here that I'm concerned about. On the first week universities organise loads of activities for new students and promote pubs.
 
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I tend to be low inhib but I have had a failed uni attempt where I dropped out of uni bcz the study was not for me and the people there were gay redditors. I looked at the group members in the different courses and most of them look fucking old. GG for me man. Yes I am stressed very much btw wbu?
Was it a Stem course cause I go to one and I usually hate loser nerds, brutal...
 
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No I mean it's something here that I'm concerned about. On the first week universities organise loads of activities for new students and promote pubs.
If that were to happen I probably wouldn't participate unless someone actively invites me, brutal... Im like that, never engange socially, I have to be dragged with the group, I don't iniciate stuff on my own, one of the worst character traits of me. Thats why all the friends I still have are from middle-school...
 
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If that were to happen I probably wouldn't participate unless someone actively invites me, brutal... Im like that, never engange socially, I have to be dragged with the group, I don't iniciate stuff on my own, one of the worst character traits of me. Thats why all the friends I still have are from middle-school...
I'm NT when I'm out with my friends but the concept of going out alone for the purpose of meeting new people is terrifying. The recent thread by @AspiringMogger scared me sm.
 
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I'm NT when I'm out with my friends but the concept of going out alone for the purpose of meeting new people is terrifying. The recent thread by @AspiringMogger scared me sm.
Yeah, im the same way. I can only be comfortable with people I know around but getting to know people is literally my worst fear. Im don't even have anxiety in other dynamics, like getting to know my co-workers or talking to strangers. But talking to strangers with the goal of befriending them is so brutal to me if no one I know is around...
 
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everyone will be on something at clubs
Best case scenario I meet an absolute G and become friends with him instantly. I don't want to be high when that happens.

When I first hit it off with my ex girlfriend we were both really drunk. It became a problem because the next day it was so awkward when we were sober and I could only talk to her when we were drunk. I hate that.
 
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