Im going to start cold approaching

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idk I feel so ugly but I NEED a girlfriend fr. I need someone to love me. Unless I get brutally rejected and clowned I feel like its not even that deep. Just go and ask for their number. I wont even feel pressured about being a catfish since they see me irl right there, so if they give the number it means they are attracted to me.

I just gotta get a fresh cut, smell good and clear my skin. Will start approaching before christmas most likely. I can approach like 10 girls a day so thats like 70 in a week. Obviously im not gonna go for the tens.

Im already gonna start working on possible starters and making sure I dont stutter or shake from nervousness etc.
 
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If anyone here has cold approached pls tell me ur tips
 
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idk I feel so ugly but I NEED a girlfriend fr. I need someone to love me. Unless I get brutally rejected and clowned I feel like its not even that deep. Just go and ask for their number. I wont even feel pressured about being a catfish since they see me irl right there, so if they give the number it means they are attracted to me.

I just gotta get a fresh cut, smell good and clear my skin. Will start approaching before christmas most likely. I can approach like 10 girls a day so thats like 70 in a week. Obviously im not gonna go for the tens.

Im already gonna start working on possible starters and making sure I dont stutter or shake from nervousness etc.
be alone
being alone is cool:Comfy:
 
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it happens at school usually
Ive have never gotten approached at school. But tbh even the most handsome guy I know got approached like twice in high school. In my country cold approaches never happen, but I see women from here making tiktoks they wished someone approached them. So I think I have chance of getting someone cute and loving
 
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Ive have never gotten approached at school. But tbh even the most handsome guy I know got approached like twice in high school. In my country cold approaches never happen, but I see women from here making tiktoks they wished someone approached them. So I think I have chance of getting someone cute and loving
its the same here, i guess im just an anomaly
yeah i think its a good idea to cold approach women, they always expect the man to do it. tell me about your results once you start doing it
 
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yeah i think its a good idea to cold approach women, they always expect the man to do it. tell me about your results once you start doing it
I will. btw I live in the nordics if u wanna know.
 
idk I feel so ugly but I NEED a girlfriend fr. I need someone to love me. Unless I get brutally rejected and clowned I feel like its not even that deep. Just go and ask for their number. I wont even feel pressured about being a catfish since they see me irl right there, so if they give the number it means they are attracted to me.

I just gotta get a fresh cut, smell good and clear my skin. Will start approaching before christmas most likely. I can approach like 10 girls a day so thats like 70 in a week. Obviously im not gonna go for the tens.

Im already gonna start working on possible starters and making sure I dont stutter or shake from nervousness etc.
Don't worry about shaking and stuttering. You need to get to where you're comfortable asking her number while letting a huge fart rip out and maintaining eye contact.
 
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Don't worry about shaking and stuttering. You need to get to where you're comfortable asking her number while letting a huge fart rip out and maintaining eye contact.
exactly, i see these meta glasses approaches on tiktok and they are so smooth and confident if feel like even if they were low mtns they could get a actually decent looking gf. But i feel like the first approaches are always gonna be very stressful, i just have to push through it.

My father approached my mother also and thats how they met. It helps me to think that if a girl approached me and was very nervous etc I wouldnt make fun of her or think that it was weird. I feel like we judge ourselves too harshly. I just need to get throught that initial bump and actually approach someone.
 
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exactly, i see these meta glasses approaches on tiktok and they are so smooth and confident if feel like even if they were low mtns they could get a actually decent looking gf. But i feel like the first approaches are always gonna be very stressful, i just have to push through it.

My father approached my mother also and thats how they met. It helps me to think that if a girl approached me and was very nervous etc I wouldnt make fun of her or think that it was weird. I feel like we judge ourselves too harshly. I just need to get throught that initial bump and actually approach someone.
Work is the best place to find a good long term relationship, I find. Change jobs frequently.
 
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Work is the best place to find a good long term relationship, I find. Change jobs frequently.
I am still in school, what im gonna do is go to different colleges to approach
 
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I am still in school, what im gonna do is go to different colleges to approach
College is the worst place to find a girlfriend. You're gonna be upset.
 
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College is the worst place to find a girlfriend. You're gonna be upset.
Yeah true, but its a low risk high reward environment. And I dont have to worry about their age
 
Yeah true, but its a low risk high reward environment. And I dont have to worry about their age
You say you're looking for a girlfriend not casual sex.
 
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Okayyy:lul: I mean where else should I go to find a gf? I dont want some 19yo thats already dropped out of school
Go volunteer or something. That's the best place. Girls don't need school, fool.
 
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1. before you start approaching, have something you will say to a girl you want to approach

2. do a 3-2-1 countown. your approach anxiety and brain will talk yourself out of it past that

3. volume volume volume
 
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