i’m gonna let her do anything she wants atp

[swt]

and i’m ashamed that i’ve tried to control her in the past, it was dumb of me

when you control someone to protect your own feelings youll just be in love with the idea of who you want them to be

when you let their raw actions speak for themselves with no control youll know who they really are, and if they’re worth your time

people need to start valuing other’s raw nature over respect and boundaries

 

[swt]

theres no point in controlling

you either find out who they are and decide whether to love them or not, or you will fall in love with the idea of them because you made them suppress their real nature

 

[barambo]

and i’m ashamed that i’ve tried to control her in the past, it was dumb of me

when you control someone to protect your own feelings youll just be in love with the idea of who you want them to be

when you let their raw actions speak for themselves with no control youll know who they really are, and if they’re worth your time

people need to start valuing other’s raw nature over respect and boundaries

good conclusion. keep it up

 

[browncurrycel]

and i’m ashamed that i’ve tried to control her in the past, it was dumb of me

when you control someone to protect your own feelings youll just be in love with the idea of who you want them to be

when you let their raw actions speak for themselves with no control youll know who they really are, and if they’re worth your time

people need to start valuing other’s raw nature over respect and boundaries

So true.

This is why I hate the red pill bs of you shouldn't let her wear xyz

Like no dude, she finds that insecure. Let her be as she is and find somebody better while still piping the whore down

 

[asdvek]

 

[gymcel64]

I had never thought that way, I also always tried controlling.
This is eye opening. Finally something intelligent on this forum.
This is a great thought, thank you.

 

[swt]

I had never thought that way, I also always tried controlling.
This is eye opening. Finally something intelligent on this forum.
This is a great thought, thank you.

i used to be controlling myself back then, and they would listen, id feel like a god

only to realize what i really was doing was protecting my own insecurities and just making them hide their true desires from me.

im glad this impacted you, brother

 

[gymcel64]

i used to be controlling myself back then, and they would listen, id feel like a god

only to realize what i really was doing was protecting my own insecurities and just making them hide their true desires from me.

im glad this impacted you, brother

What you're saying is true, I thought I was some cunt red pill Chad when in reality I was just insecure, but that doesn't mean you let her do everything tho, there are still some limits.

 

[swt]

What you're saying is true, I thought I was some cunt red pill Chad when in reality I was just insecure, but that doesn't mean you let her do everything tho, there are still some limits.

i will let her do anything, but if she uses that freedom for the bad then ill take the message that she's not the one for me, and from there ill move on to someone else. theres no reason to suppress anything, the truth is if she didnt want to do something she wouldnt do it, and if she did it its because she wanted to, if the things she does are disrespectful to you then she doesnt respect you naturally.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Raw natures me
The best approach is to stay celibate, and if the universe sends you someone perfect for you, you accept it

 

[gymcel64]

i will let her do anything, but if she uses that freedom for the bad then ill take the message that she's not the one for me, and from there ill move on to someone else. theres no reason to suppress anything, the truth is if she didnt want to do something she wouldnt do it, and if she did it its because she wanted to, if the things she does are disrespectful to you then she doesnt respect you naturally.

ok, I see.
You would immediately leave her, that's good, because if not that would lead to c*ckoldry which is, well I have no words.
I get it, but it's very hard to do.

 

[gymcel64]

Raw natures me
The best approach is to stay celibate, and if the universe sends you someone perfect for you, you accept it

the universe is just god for atheists

 

[swt]

Raw natures me
The best approach is to stay celibate, and if the universe sends you someone perfect for you, you accept it

i agree, thats why ive never chased women, my girlfriend approached me and luckily shes perfect

 

[optimisticzoomer]

the universe is just god for atheists

Call it what you will
God/gods/mother nature/universe/simulation