I’m not dominant

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anyone else relate? Like during sex making out or even in general I’ve never had a desire to control or dominate which a lot of women like and it’s annoying. Even my first kiss I ended up on the bottom with her laying on top of me. Girls have even said I give “bottom energy”

:feelswah::feelswah::feelswah:
 
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Lost me around here bud.


Which is a shame since the rest is kinda relatable
Dont you literally want a dom mommy to whisper life affirming messages in ur ear while she strokes u off
 
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Dont you literally want a dom mommy to whisper life affirming messages in ur ear while she strokes u off
My forum reputation IS FUCKED.

Yeah bro I may have said something along those lines before
 
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My forum reputation IS FUCKED.

Yeah bro I may have said something along those lines before
No judgement here, I mean I don’t even think I’m super submissive just not dominant
 
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No judgement here, I mean I don’t even think I’m super submissive just not dominant
I don't think you'd judge me tbf its just that I really gotta change my username and remove the "sigma" part (if not for the typo)


Being into femdom is not normal. At least its not cucking or humiliation ig. Or scat. You could always go one step down
 
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@cromagnon @ey88
 
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It’s just your mind set

It’s your world every body else is just living in it
 
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It’s just your mind set

It’s your world every body else is just living in it
Good point but it’s like I don’t get turned on from being dominant I could maybe bring myself to do it mentally I guess but I doubt it would hit the same for her
 
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Good point but it’s like I don’t get turned on from being dominant I could maybe bring myself to do it mentally I guess but I doubt it would hit the same for her
It’s just not how you are. Why force yourself to be someone you’re not?
 
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It’s just not how you are. Why force yourself to be someone you’re not?
I won’t probably but I don’t like the thought of just accepting whatever even though that’s generally my mentality
 
Inject T asap :feelskek:
 
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messi will fuck every girl in 1000km of your radius and every girl will say a 5'7 GOAT of football with autism gave them a better expericne
 
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messi will fuck every girl in 1000km of your radius and every girl will say a 5'7 GOAT of football with autism gave them a better expericne
@wsada teach this fella a lesson
 
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messi will fuck every girl in 1000km of your radius and every girl will say a 5'7 GOAT of football with autism gave them a better expericne
@wsada teach this fella a lesson
1000002364
 
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Low T, totally fixable
 
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It really doesn't turn you on to be dominant with her in bed or does it just not come naturally to you?
 
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lmfao
 
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average type of niggers that get to have sex
meanwhile im a potential murderer bull but touchless
 
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honestly it doesn't seem that deep,

sex and love making is supposed to be fun, so you should just intuitively do what feels good/natural to you instead of worrying about meeting certain expectations

and if that means that you prefer being dominated over being dominant than so be it

I don't see an issue,

unless your partners are unsatisfied that's another story
 
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It really doesn't turn you on to be dominant with her in bed or does it just not come naturally to you?
It’s not really a turn on
honestly it doesn't seem that deep,

sex and love making is supposed to be fun, so you should just intuitively do what feels good/natural to you instead of worrying about meeting certain expectations

and if that means that you prefer being dominated over being dominant than so be it

I don't see an issue,

unless your partners are unsatisfied that's another story
well its more that most women prefer men to be dominant in bed, and I don’t really have an issue trying to do it but it will feel more performative for me. Not the biggest deal ever but kind of annoying
 
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Pretty brutal for low energy sub guys
 
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My forum reputation IS FUCKED.

Yeah bro I may have said something along those lines before
Just in case you ever post something serious and I'm first to reply.

I'll keep this for later use.
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