I'm so fucked, I need help seriously

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I got too attached to this girl, she made me so happy and matched my energy, but it seems like we are falling off even though I still love her a lot but she seems more dry, probably lost feelings and is scared to tell me cuz I will be sad even though she still sends "i love you" messages but I feel like it's not the same as before.

I have other girls to go on dates with but I wanted this girl, I need to stop chasing her so much and see if she comes to me to see if the things she says are actually true

How can I start losing feelings for her and be more distant to see if she actually misses me ?
Please this is serious and it's fucking me over.
 
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Shrooms
 
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Srs bro pls
You will have to bite the bullet and break it off. drugs, alcohol and fucking other girls will get your mind off it eventually
 
You will have to bite the bullet and break it off. drugs, alcohol and fucking other girls will get your mind off it eventually
I'm not like that tho, what other things can I do to lose feelings????
 
kill yourself
 
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I'm not like that tho, what other things can I do to lose feelings????
Think about every flaw she has and realize that she is not a perfect angel
 
Just talk to her and let it end on its own. If you spend all day thinking about her you’ll end up romanticizing your relationship and obsessing about it which will make it hard to get over in the future.

Just remember that she’s not special, and if she’s acting distant or like a bitch she doesn’t deserve a relationship with you
 
Think about every flaw she has and realize that she is not a perfect angel
I'm not a perfect angel either. I don't even deserve her
 
Im Incel what am I supposed to say, get over it, life goes on lol, not the end of the world
 
Just talk to her and let it end on its own. If you spend all day thinking about her you’ll end up romanticizing your relationship and obsessing about it which will make it hard to get over in the future.

Just remember that she’s not special, and if she’s acting distant or like a bitch she doesn’t deserve a relationship with you
I do a lot of times and she keeps saying the same things over and over but I feel like they're fake man.
I really need to stop chasing her for real now, I stop talking to her for a few hours and start feeling sad af and not motivated for anything, it's like im depressed holy fuck.
 
I do a lot of times and she keeps saying the same things over and over but I feel like they're fake man.
I really need to stop chasing her for real now, I stop talking to her for a few hours and start feeling sad af and not motivated for anything, it's like im depressed holy fuck.
If it ends, it ends. Dont try and force something to continue if it's not working. You should talk to them and say you are concerned about the relationship and see how she feels about it. Maybe she feels the same way. You don't know, but if it does end then know that the pain never goes away but it gets less with time. It fucking sucks
 
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Just be a psychopath
 
Play video games or watch movies to distract yourself. Or sleep a lot.
 
Start taking longer to reply to her see if she gets mad
 
Cut this whore’s head off and shove it up her mother’s asshole.
 
Stop overthinking relationships. Love/lust is short lasting. What you feel is ownership over her, you want to secure her in a relationship, for you to breed her and have kids. She probably only likes your personality or had short term lust towards you. If you want to own her you have to have lots of money and value. If not, continue to get better, or accept that you will find a new girl in the future that will come, or you will meet her irl too.
 

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