im sorry to my parents

[Incelforeever]

i was looking at old pictures of me, and reflecting on how that person went throu life and became me now

its all very unfourtnate, the child my parents created is a loser, a failure, a genetic dead end, an insecure shy high inhibition bum

Who should i blame guys? my genetics? my upbringing? myself?!?! should i blame myself for being so retarded and different? could i have ever been normal if i tried hard enough? well its all too late now

 

[chudburga]

look forwards.

not backwards.

 

[Incelforeever]

look forward not backwards

all i see is darker darkness

 

[luuk]

i was looking at old pictures of me, and reflecting on how that person went throu life and became me now

its all very unfourtnate, the child my parents created is a loser, a failure, a genetic dead end, an insecure shy high inhibition bum

Who should i blame guys? my genetics? my upbringing? myself?!?! should i blame myself for being so retarded and different? could i have ever been normal if i tried hard enough? well its all too late now
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Blame nobody
You are what you are because of the combination of your genetics and the environment you had no control over
Ones ability to work hard, to persevere is genetically and environmentally determined too
Make peace with your circumstances and decide your next move, lamenting wont help you

 

[chudburga]

all i see is darker darkness

tell it to fuck off. positive affirmations actually go a long way when it comes to this kinda stuff.

 

[Heretic]

Stop stressing

 

[Incelforeever]

Blame nobody
You are what you are because of the combination of your genetics and the environment you had no control over
Ones ability to work hard, to persevere is genetically and environmentally determined too
Make peace with your circumstances and decide your next move, lamenting wont help you

my next move is getting drunk

 

[Deleted member 240873]

i was looking at old pictures of me, and reflecting on how that person went throu life and became me now

its all very unfourtnate, the child my parents created is a loser, a failure, a genetic dead end, an insecure shy high inhibition bum

Who should i blame guys? my genetics? my upbringing? myself?!?! should i blame myself for being so retarded and different? could i have ever been normal if i tried hard enough? well its all too late now
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Me too bhai

 

[Incelforeever]

tell it to fuck off. positive affirmations actually go a long way when it comes to this kinda stuff.

cant fool me with positive affirmations

 

[luuk]

tell it to fuck off. positive affirmations actually go a long way when it comes to this kinda stuff.

Positive affirmations are one of those things that sound incredibly stupid but are actually incredibly psychologically beneficial and grounded in research
Made a big thread that touches on this, you become the story you tell yourself

 

[luuk]

i was looking at old pictures of me, and reflecting on how that person went throu life and became me now

its all very unfourtnate, the child my parents created is a loser, a failure, a genetic dead end, an insecure shy high inhibition bum

Who should i blame guys? my genetics? my upbringing? myself?!?! should i blame myself for being so retarded and different? could i have ever been normal if i tried hard enough? well its all too late now
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Not going to compare my experiences to yours but I do feel a similar way when I see pictures of me as a child

I was so small, frail and innocent and I was a very sensitive and weak child for much of my life, makes me sad to look at that kid and how the world treated him. I ended up growing up to be pretty callous and disconnected and I sometimes wonder what younger me would’ve thought of me today

 

[Outlander]

Don't blame yourself at all. The factors that made you like this (social treatment, genetics) were out of your control

 

[Incelforeever]

Don't blame yourself at all. The factors that made you like this (social treatment, genetics) were out of your control

people would say its my fault, that im a weakling.

 

[User28823]

 

[turkcelfatcel]

i was looking at old pictures of me, and reflecting on how that person went throu life and became me now

its all very unfourtnate, the child my parents created is a loser, a failure, a genetic dead end, an insecure shy high inhibition bum

Who should i blame guys? my genetics? my upbringing? myself?!?! should i blame myself for being so retarded and different? could i have ever been normal if i tried hard enough? well its all too late now
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im sorry mom for your shit genetics

what kind of logic is this bro

 

[Incelforeever]

Not going to compare my experiences to yours but I do feel a similar way when I see pictures of me as a child

I was so small, frail and innocent and I was a very sensitive and weak child for much of my life, makes me sad to look at that kid and how the world treated him. I ended up growing up to be pretty callous and disconnected and I sometimes wonder what younger me would’ve thought of me today

Are u happy with urself now?

 

[Incelforeever]

im sorry mom for your shit genetics

what kind of logic is this bro

i dont think its right to blame them

 

[PSLbbc]

Blame god

 

[luuk]

Are u happy with urself now?

Not really
I haven’t failed in life or anything, I had a bad year last year but it sort of woke me up and I’m doing better now, I’m at a good university studying a rigorous and lucrative subject and I’m at the point with my looks that I’m starting to actually like the way I look and get a decent amount of attention. But I’m still single and have been for a while, I feel like I’m not living up to my potential at all and I worry a lot about my future

I also feel like my mind is irreparably fucked and like I’m lowk losing it. A combination of abused dog syndrome from my childhood + disordered brain chemistry + who knows what else but its getting worse. Like even 2 years ago vs today I was waaaay healthier mentally. Its not even something “simple” like depression my mind is just becoming so erratic and disordered, I’ve become very impulsive and volatile and paranoid at times. I’m looking into an adhd diagnosis rn, should probably get therapy or something

 

[Staddber]

i was looking at old pictures of me, and reflecting on how that person went throu life and became me now

its all very unfourtnate, the child my parents created is a loser, a failure, a genetic dead end, an insecure shy high inhibition bum

Who should i blame guys? my genetics? my upbringing? myself?!?! should i blame myself for being so retarded and different? could i have ever been normal if i tried hard enough? well its all too late now
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No one’s to blame.
Accept your circumstances and make the best out of it.
Don’t stress, Make peace with yourself.
I was like this for a few years.

 

[Outlander]

people would say its my fault, that im a weakling.

Don't listen to them. Blaming you for your problems is like blaming a car that never had it's oil changed in 30k miles for breaking down. It's simple cause and effect, and in this case the cause (poor genetics and or societal treatment) will directly cause you to do more poorly in life due to having so many unmet needs and undue struggles.

I hear this nonsense all the time too where people act like I ended up a 20+ incel struggling for no reason, while not even considering what suffering and deprivation led to this outcome. Being deprived of so much is not even comprehensible to the average person so they don't understand

 

[Incelforeever]

Not really
I haven’t failed in life or anything, I had a bad year last year but it sort of woke me up and I’m doing better now, I’m at a good university studying a rigorous and lucrative subject and I’m at the point with my looks that I’m starting to actually like the way I look and get a decent amount of attention. But I’m still single and have been for a while, I feel like I’m not living up to my potential at all and I worry a lot about my future

I also feel like my mind is irreparably fucked and like I’m lowk losing it. A combination of abused dog syndrome from my childhood + disordered brain chemistry + who knows what else but its getting worse. Like even 2 years ago vs today I was waaaay healthier mentally. Its not even something “simple” like depression my mind is just becoming so erratic and disordered, I’ve become very impulsive and volatile and paranoid at times. I’m looking into an adhd diagnosis rn, should probably get therapy or something

well, overall glad for u. sad about he mind thing, maybe its ur frontal cortex going through the growing pains reaching the age of 25

 

[Incelforeever]

No one’s to blame.
Accept your circumstances and make the best out of it.
Don’t stress, Make peace with yourself.
I was like this for a few years.

Im gonna get drunk tomorrow at least i got that going for me

 

[luuk]

well, overall glad for u. sad about he mind thing, maybe its ur frontal cortex going through the growing pains reaching the age of 25

Idk man I feel like this is a pretty unique issue, but I appreciate it
My only real plan of action is to get on adhd meds and hope it cures me or something, if not I feel like I’ll end up dead by 40

 

[Staddber]

Im gonna get drunk tomorrow at least i got that going for me

enjoy

 

[Incelforeever]

Don't listen to them. Blaming you for your problems is like blaming a car that never had it's oil changed in 30k miles for breaking down. It's simple cause and effect, and in this case the cause (poor genetics and or societal treatment) will directly cause you to do more poorly in life due to having so many unmet needs and undue struggles.

I hear this nonsense all the time too where people act like I ended up a 20+ incel struggling for no reason, while not even considering what suffering and deprivation led to this outcome. Being deprived of so much is not even comprehensible to the average person so they don't understand

the average person is not gonna understand. Im so ashemed of things about me that i never even open up to my mother about them.

 

[true_subhuman_here]

i was looking at old pictures of me, and reflecting on how that person went throu life and became me now

its all very unfourtnate, the child my parents created is a loser, a failure, a genetic dead end, an insecure shy high inhibition bum

Who should i blame guys? my genetics? my upbringing? myself?!?! should i blame myself for being so retarded and different? could i have ever been normal if i tried hard enough? well its all too late now
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[Incelforeever]

Idk man I feel like this is a pretty unique issue, but I appreciate it
My only real plan of action is to get on adhd meds and hope it cures me or something, if not I feel like I’ll end up dead by 40

yea i was kinda joking tho i heard ur brain doesnt fully devolpe until 25 or something like that

 

[Jeremy Meeks]

Not going to compare my experiences to yours but I do feel a similar way when I see pictures of me as a child

I was so small, frail and innocent and I was a very sensitive and weak child for much of my life, makes me sad to look at that kid and how the world treated him. I ended up growing up to be pretty callous and disconnected and I sometimes wonder what younger me would’ve thought of me today

Proud to say that I was never like this

 

[true_subhuman_here]

look forwards.

not backwards.

Im blind

 

[Incelforeever]

Proud to say that I was never like this

 

[luuk]

yea i was kinda joking tho i heard ur brain doesnt fully devolpe until 25 or something like that

One can hope
Out of interest what are your actual circumstances rn? How old are you, what do you do rn and whats your looks situation like

 

[Incelforeever]

One can hope
Out of interest what are your actual circumstances rn? How old are you, what do you do rn and whats your looks situation like

im 20, do nothing and im a ltn lookwise, but i got way bigger problems than looks.

I have been dealing with chronic illness or some sort of pain/discomfort for 3 years now, if someone can just cure that for me my life would be way better imo, at the least the way i feel would improve. Im not sure how much this issue deteriorate everything else for me

 

[bantheundead]

i was looking at old pictures of me, and reflecting on how that person went throu life and became me now

its all very unfourtnate, the child my parents created is a loser, a failure, a genetic dead end, an insecure shy high inhibition bum

Who should i blame guys? my genetics? my upbringing? myself?!?! should i blame myself for being so retarded and different? could i have ever been normal if i tried hard enough? well its all too late now
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blame ur parents for bringing you into existence

 

[luuk]

im 20, do nothing and im a ltn lookwise, but i got way bigger problems than looks.

I have been dealing with chronic illness or some sort of pain/discomfort for 3 years now, if someone can just cure that for me my life would be way better imo, at the least the way i feel would improve. Im not sure how much this issue deteriorate everything else for me

You can hardly blame yourself if your main issue is illness, you have no control over that
Hope you get some sort of relief

 

[Incelforeever]

You can hardly blame yourself if your main issue is illness, you have no control over that
Hope you get some sort of relief

even before that my life was horrible, that just fully finished my life

 

[luuk]

even before that my life was horrible, that just fully finished my life

When it rains it pours, feels like fortunate people have everything aligned perfectly and the unlucky get every debuff at once

 

[Incelforeever]

When it rains it pours, feels like fortunate people have everything aligned perfectly and the unlucky get every debuff at once

thanks

 

[Incelforeever]

@luuk i meant thank u really for the talk

 

[luuk]

@luuk i meant thank u really for the talk

np, hope things get better for you
don’t blame yourselves for these things, or anyone else for that matter. its just cruel probability
make peace with what you can’t change and work to make your life as tolerable as you can if nothing else

 

[Prøphet]

Not going to compare my experiences to yours but I do feel a similar way when I see pictures of me as a child

I was so small, frail and innocent and I was a very sensitive and weak child for much of my life, makes me sad to look at that kid and how the world treated him. I ended up growing up to be pretty callous and disconnected and I sometimes wonder what younger me would’ve thought of me today

Damn same it’s actually crushing to see the look I used to have in my eyes compared to now

 

[Outlander]

the average person is not gonna understand. Im so ashemed of things about me that i never even open up to my mother about them.

Yeah and there's a good chance your mother will use it against you so that's for the better

 

[GoyLite]

deadass feel someone of the same way, I look at myself and then look at pictures of my mom and my dad when they were my age, hs/ college and genuinely feel like a chud, I dont really blame anyone but myself tho bc I was given great genes that they did great stuff with, my dad was an absolute fucking stud in hs and college, at least what I hear from what i hear from all his friends and my mom but am not doing shit with them, im a senior in hs and feel like an absolute failure, working on it tho ig

 

[Incelforeever]

deadass feel someone of the same way, I look at myself and then look at pictures of my mom and my dad when they were my age, hs/ college and genuinely feel like a chud, I dont really blame anyone but myself tho bc I was given great genes that they did great stuff with, my dad was an absolute fucking stud in hs and college, at least what I hear from what i hear from all his friends and my mom but am not doing shit with them, im a senior in hs and feel like an absolute failure, working on it tho ig

 

[le_paria_social]

i was looking at old pictures of me, and reflecting on how that person went throu life and became me now

its all very unfourtnate, the child my parents created is a loser, a failure, a genetic dead end, an insecure shy high inhibition bum

Who should i blame guys? my genetics? my upbringing? myself?!?! should i blame myself for being so retarded and different? could i have ever been normal if i tried hard enough? well its all too late now
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It's not your fault, at most it can be your parent's/environment's fault for a poor upbringing.

You should try to search for something you enjoy, whether it be someone's company, a hobby or even something stupid.
Nature doesn't have crazy expectations for you, people do.
Enjoy anything you can while it lasts, it will all be gone soon anyways.

 

[blur_el]

i was looking at old pictures of me, and reflecting on how that person went throu life and became me now

its all very unfourtnate, the child my parents created is a loser, a failure, a genetic dead end, an insecure shy high inhibition bum

Who should i blame guys? my genetics? my upbringing? myself?!?! should i blame myself for being so retarded and different? could i have ever been normal if i tried hard enough? well its all too late now
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bro what we have done in the past makes us the person we are today so dont feel ashamed and dont look back on you mistakes cause at the end of the day you cant change that

 

[Incelforeever]

bro what we have done in the past makes us the person we are today so dont feel ashamed and dont look back on you mistakes cause at the end of the day you cant change that

the person i am today is the worst person on the planet

 

[Luquier]

i was looking at old pictures of me, and reflecting on how that person went throu life and became me now

its all very unfourtnate, the child my parents created is a loser, a failure, a genetic dead end, an insecure shy high inhibition bum

Who should i blame guys? my genetics? my upbringing? myself?!?! should i blame myself for being so retarded and different? could i have ever been normal if i tried hard enough? well its all too late now
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Cuck why should you be sorry

 

[tomahawk]

all i see is darker darkness

Blind

 

[Decayism]

i was looking at old pictures of me, and reflecting on how that person went throu life and became me now

its all very unfourtnate, the child my parents created is a loser, a failure, a genetic dead end, an insecure shy high inhibition bum

Who should i blame guys? my genetics? my upbringing? myself?!?! should i blame myself for being so retarded and different? could i have ever been normal if i tried hard enough? well its all too late now
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Saar its okay we surf the waves in the near future