I’m stuck in a 2023 V- Card dilemma (need advice)

[Dr. Mog]

Legend has it that your virginity resets every month. For once let’s all cope making it 12x less brutal by saying it resets every year.

It’s already over 2 weeks of 2023 now 50 more to go and I (honestly) desperately wanna fuck this year to this girl who is asking for it but lives far away. Just touching ourselves on video calls won’t cut it.

But the problem is our relationship isn’t neat. Due to trust issues, it’s getting ruined and leading to a downfall (almost did now) but I know I can just light traid max for two minutes and get it back on track within no time. And then, continue to lead on the relationship that when I get enough time and money, I’d just take a solo trip there and fuck her brains out and she was desperate for it too.

But…
This relationship comes at the cost of my mental health and this is now a deal breaker.

Because over here, talking about my life now…I have lost track at the IOI count at uni since I do get stares until I catch them staring from which then on, they’d act as if they didn’t notice JFL at these beckies. There is no college pump and dump culture here and unlike some unis at UK or USA like @FailedNormieManlet mentioned. People here first get to know each other. Spend time together and then go on dates and then later comes all the things you do at bed.

Bottom line: engaging in sexual intercourse here is gonna take a lot of time and effort and may not be feasible.

Spoiler: For incels

“But…but…Chad can do it and get sex within 40mins ONLYY….”

Trust me, my closest friend here is the chadest mogger of all and has the highest approach count but they all come as “friends” and no he isn’t getting his pants pulled down now and then and getting his dick sucked all the time or something. Come back to reality for one sec you delusional rotting Morons

The only thing that is just holding me off from not fully cutting her off is (honestly) getting to fuck so that I wouldn’t regret this year of my life. That’s it.

I am left with two options….

1) I’ll have to maintain the relationship healthy (which I can if I wanted to) at the cost of my mental health and time so that I can travel there once and fuck her and dump later.

2) Have self respect, keep your mental health at peace, save time and dump her now itself even if it comes at the cost of not losing your V card for 2023 (which I might regret in the future)

(Answer the poll please)

Thanks for making it to the end. Any valid answers and suggestions will be appreciated and updooted.

 

[Dr. Mog]

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[Chinacurry]

I've left a toxic af relationship, and am slowly b3coming virgin again.

I can tell u there is no r8ght answer to this question...

 

[LiteralCaucasian]

I thought you left .org, wtf

 

[Dr. Mog]

I thought you left .org, wtf

Had to come back for some advice from @LiteralCaucasian

Spoiler

btw my screen time is less than 6mins a day on .org now compared of hours of rotting earlier. So yeah, I kinda left the forum but not completely.

 

[Deleted member 16515]

don't think with your penis yakhi. make a rational decision.

 

[LiteralCaucasian]

btw my screen time is less than 6mins a day on .org now compared of hours of rotting earlier. So yeah, I kinda left the forum but not completely.

Happy for you.

 

[Pendejo]

Which country?

 

[Dr. Mog]

don't think with your penis yakhi. make a rational decision.

Nigga you voted to leave the relationship. I blocked her on every app and now she rebounded on me and now I’m ghosted on every app after I unblocked her and saw I was blocked too ffs brutal

blocked on phone calls too. I’m shattered fr

@FailedNormieManlet gimme some motivation brah and tell me she wasn’t good anyway. You know her

 

[Deleted member 16515]

Nigga you voted to leave the relationship. I blocked her on every app and now she rebounded on me and now I’m ghosted on every app after I unblocked her and saw I was blocked too ffs brutal

blocked on phone calls too. I’m shattered fr

@FailedNormieManlet gimme some motivation brah and tell me she wasn’t good anyway. You know her

she's not the one.
find a new girl at uni and fuck her asap, imo this is better than spending a bunch of time and money to travel to fuck this cringe girl.

in future, jerk off before making any decisions that involve women or sex so you don't think with your penis

 

[SixPack]

Pump and move on

Best revenge for her toxicity

 

[Deleted member 4362]

Dn rd

 

[Dr. Mog]

she's not the one

Thanks for reminding. She def isn’t. But did you fully read what I said bro? Even my close friend here who is a mogger and chadest isn’t pump and dumping. This isn’t the place. A lot of them are nerds and conservatives and others saving it for marriage. Few ones open to dating wouldn’t just fuck like that and even the chaddest of the Chad may not get any pussy here due to less dating culture and it’s ironically common JFL trust me

But that girl is up for it. I need to fake max and for some pussy and be proud I drained in a hole this year at least like this Greycel has mentioned below

Pump and move on

Best revenge for her toxicity

Dn rd

Don’t read. Over for your autism anyway

 

[ReadBooksEveryday]

Traveling to fuck her will fuel her ego and likely won’t end as you think. That’s my hypothesis

 

[Artbreeder Is Law]

Cum and run should be law nowadays tbh.

 

[vaninskybird]

imma be real, i would keep the relationship just to fuck
i know there are some guys that are sick of pussy saying "it's not worth it bro, sex is not as good as you think ", but try getting through 25 years of life without a girl taking a dick in her mouth and saying how much she loves it (without paying)

what i'm trying to say is i would rather have bad experiences than no experiences at all
even if it's a bad experience it still has perks:
- you can confidently say u got pussy if somebody calls you out
- you can truly choose to focus on yourself (it's not gonna be cope when you say you don't want a gf, cus you had one, unlike the coping mgtow incels)
- hoes will know you're not a loser
- when a hoe complains about her last bf, you can say you understand her, cus you've been through same shit (easy pump and dump)
maby some other stuff that i can't think at the moment

the bottom line is this

i would rather have bad experiences than no experiences at all

 

[Gengar]

Look at these bastards claiming "virginity resets", JFL. Either way, as a proud woman hater, I would say pound her and leave her. Hurt her the best you can because she'd hurt an ugly guy even way worse.