I’m Such a Loser

[NumbThePain]

I still stutter as a grown ass man. Holy shit, I’m such an autistic failure and loser. A fate worse than death. I wish I could speak like how my thoughts flow, or the way I write.

@Ghost Philosophy @emeraldglass @TechnoBoss @Gargantuan @Randomized Shame @tuberculosisinmybal

 

[mohito]

Water

 

[acm]

I think u r cool numb

just please free @NumbTheNiggеr

 

[asdvek]

I was starting to slowly stutter at a young age too but my dad shouted loud at me and scared the shit out of me and fixed it before it developed to be worse

 

[2s2f]

Its fine brochacho

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

I still stutter as a grown ass man. Holy shit, I’m such an autistic failure and loser. A fate worse than death. I wish I could speak like how my thoughts flow, or the way I write.

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@Ghost Philosophy @emeraldglass @TechnoBoss @Gargantuan @Randomized Shame @tuberculosisinmybal

unironically maybe try ordering selank, it helped me a lot with my talking skill cuz i was not overthinking while speaking at the same time

and don't talk like that about yourself

 

[@Adam]

I still stutter as a grown ass man. Holy shit, I’m such an autistic failure and loser. A fate worse than death. I wish I could speak like how my thoughts flow, or the way I write.

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@Ghost Philosophy @emeraldglass @TechnoBoss @Gargantuan @Randomized Shame @tuberculosisinmybal

 

[CortisolSpike67]

I still stutter as a grown ass man. Holy shit, I’m such an autistic failure and loser. A fate worse than death. I wish I could speak like how my thoughts flow, or the way I write.

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@Ghost Philosophy @emeraldglass @TechnoBoss @Gargantuan @Randomized Shame @tuberculosisinmybal

 

[NumbThePain]

I think u r cool numb

just please free @NumbTheNiggеr

Hey thanks son

I'm very subhuman and non-nt

 

[TechnoBoss]

You’re not a loser bhai. Speech is complicated and there’s a lot of things that affect it. Have you considered going to one of those speech language pathologists? They can correct it.

It might be a case of your brain working too fast for you to be able to speak it fluently.

 

[NumbThePain]

unironically maybe try ordering selank, it helped me a lot with my talking skill cuz i was not overthinking while speaking at the same time

and don't talk like that about yourself

What benefits does it have bhai? Mirin that it helped you. I kinda have the same, I'm overthinking in light speed. Funny enough I barely have this when I just wake up or when I'm with my friends

 

[Deleted member 280441]

I still stutter as a grown ass man. Holy shit, I’m such an autistic failure and loser. A fate worse than death. I wish I could speak like how my thoughts flow, or the way I write.

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@Ghost Philosophy @emeraldglass @TechnoBoss @Gargantuan @Randomized Shame @tuberculosisinmybal

Nigga tagged the holy faggot empire

 

[trump]

Nigga tagged the holy faggot empire

youre mean

 

[carpe diem]

I still stutter as a grown ass man. Holy shit, I’m such an autistic failure and loser. A fate worse than death. I wish I could speak like how my thoughts flow, or the way I write.

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@Ghost Philosophy @emeraldglass @TechnoBoss @Gargantuan @Randomized Shame @tuberculosisinmybal

Blud your not a loser

 

[NumbThePain]

You’re not a loser bhai. Speech is complicated and there’s a lot of things that affect it. Have you considered going to one of those speech language pathologists? They can correct it.

It might be a case of your brain working too fast for you to be able to speak it fluently.

Thanks bhai. I think I will go to one this year

You brutally speech mog me. It's very rare when I can speak at a fluent pace like you

 

[carpe diem]

I still stutter as a grown ass man. Holy shit, I’m such an autistic failure and loser. A fate worse than death. I wish I could speak like how my thoughts flow, or the way I write.

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@Ghost Philosophy @emeraldglass @TechnoBoss @Gargantuan @Randomized Shame @tuberculosisinmybal

Speech doesn’t=being a loser, everyone has their weaknesses no matter how stupid or small, losers are deemed by their actions not things like speech

 

[acm]

Hey thanks son

I'm very subhuman and non-nt

I don't think you should beat yourself up over something like stuttering. as much as I despise , I really think you're not giving yourself enough credit, and are blowing your small flaws out of proportion.

 

[Nekocel]

You’re not a loser I think you’re cool

 

[ChadL1te]

Do you have a legit speech diagnosis or you just fumble a lot when talking ?

 

[Luquier]

Is it social suicide to stutter

 

[Glorious King]

@ReadBooksEveryday DID U BULLY HIM AGAIN?

 

[LTNUser]

@ReadBooksEveryday DID U BULLY HIM AGAIN?

I'm surprised that he still uses this forum
Thought he was going to pack his bags and disappear after he lost FUOTY quarter finals

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

What benefits does it have bhai? Mirin that it helped you. I kinda have the same, I'm overthinking in light speed. Funny enough I barely have this when I just wake up or when I'm with my friends

It makes you kinda "low inhib", you don't stress and overthink anymore, before when I went out alone I felt watched all the time and I couldn't talk to strangers at all or when I talked with friends I couldn't really talk in sentences properly cuz I stuttered always a lot, which is fixxed now since I took Selank. It also kinda helps with focus apparently (I didn't have that benefit) and it has like other benefits like better immune system etc. but I don't take it for that

If you want I can tell you where I got mine, it is like 35€ or sum, and it's a nose spray so u don't need to inject anything

 

[Histy]

I still stutter as a grown ass man. Holy shit, I’m such an autistic failure and loser. A fate worse than death. I wish I could speak like how my thoughts flow, or the way I write.

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@Ghost Philosophy @emeraldglass @TechnoBoss @Gargantuan @Randomized Shame @tuberculosisinmybal

No bro, you are the coolest ever
Love you

 

[Histy]

I still stutter as a grown ass man. Holy shit, I’m such an autistic failure and loser. A fate worse than death. I wish I could speak like how my thoughts flow, or the way I write.

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@Ghost Philosophy @emeraldglass @TechnoBoss @Gargantuan @Randomized Shame @tuberculosisinmybal

It is never over , just try your best to get out and socialize with strangers .
It will take a time to be good at .

Tbh I find you a good man , even tho idk a lot about you or your life.

Love you

 

[Histy]

It makes you kinda "low inhib", you don't stress and overthink anymore, before when I went out alone I felt watched all the time and I couldn't talk to strangers at all or when I talked with friends I couldn't really talk in sentences properly cuz I stuttered always a lot, which is fixxed now since I took Selank. It also kinda helps with focus apparently (I didn't have that benefit) and it has like other benefits like better immune system etc. but I don't take it for that

If you want I can tell you where I got mine, it is like 35€ or sum, and it's a nose spray so u don't need to inject anything

Oh
Hi tuber

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

Oh
Hi tuber

hi bhai

 

[Deleted member 257282]

I still stutter as a grown ass man. Holy shit, I’m such an autistic failure and loser. A fate worse than death. I wish I could speak like how my thoughts flow, or the way I write.

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@Ghost Philosophy @emeraldglass @TechnoBoss @Gargantuan @Randomized Shame @tuberculosisinmybal

You should reply to my messages

 

[Gargantuan]

You're doing just fine, brother

You’re not a loser, for starters. That’s just your mind spiralling and creating a narrative, but it's not reality. The brain always runs these thoughts when it’s frustrated, but that doesn't make the story true. It's easy to get seduced by thoughts like these but they're poison.

I don’t stutter myself, but I overthink a lot, and I’ve noticed the same basic mechanism underneath it all. I’m really good at thinking, my brain fires fast, and whenever I try to speak while my head is still racing, my speech gets worse. I start to rush, tighten up, trying to get everything out at once, and of course, it falls apart since my mouth literally can’t keep up with my thoughts. But no one can, it's normal.

What helps a lot is realising that speech is supposed to be slower than thoughts, it's natural because you’re not supposed to express everything you think. When you take a step back and slow down, and drop the pressure to ‘perform’ (we all have this subconsciously), things will get better.
And the fact that your thoughts flow effortlessly actually helps you here since it means you’re already sharp so it's not even about ability, bur rather about timing and pressure.

All you're dealing with is a nervous system habit, which can be overcome, and doesn't define you

 

[NumbThePain]

It makes you kinda "low inhib", you don't stress and overthink anymore, before when I went out alone I felt watched all the time and I couldn't talk to strangers at all or when I talked with friends I couldn't really talk in sentences properly cuz I stuttered always a lot, which is fixxed now since I took Selank. It also kinda helps with focus apparently (I didn't have that benefit) and it has like other benefits like better immune system etc. but I don't take it for that

If you want I can tell you where I got mine, it is like 35€ or sum, and it's a nose spray so u don't need to inject anything

Thanks for the heads up. That sounds perfect to me, plus the nose spray is easy intake. You can send me a PM about it

 

[Fridx]

your brain is too fast for your mouth
Indication of high iq

 

[TemporaryName]

Thanks bhai. I think I will go to one this year

You brutally speech mog me. It's very rare when I can speak at a fluent pace like you

Techno genuinely sounds like he gets women pregnant by voice alone @TechnoBoss

 

[NumbThePain]

You're doing just fine, brother

You’re not a loser, for starters. That’s just your mind spiralling and creating a narrative, but it's not reality. The brain always runs these thoughts when it’s frustrated, but that doesn't make the story true. It's easy to get seduced by thoughts like these but they're poison.

I don’t stutter myself, but I overthink a lot, and I’ve noticed the same basic mechanism underneath it all. I’m really good at thinking, my brain fires fast, and whenever I try to speak while my head is still racing, my speech gets worse. I start to rush, tighten up, trying to get everything out at once, and of course, it falls apart since my mouth literally can’t keep up with my thoughts. But no one can, it's normal.

What helps a lot is realising that speech is supposed to be slower than thoughts, it's natural because you’re not supposed to express everything you think. When you take a step back and slow down, and drop the pressure to ‘perform’ (we all have this subconsciously), things will get better.
And the fact that your thoughts flow effortlessly actually helps you here since it means you’re already sharp so it's not even about ability, bur rather about timing and pressure.

All you're dealing with is a nervous system habit, which can be overcome, and doesn't define you

Thanks brother. That's a relief to hear from you.

That totally makes sense. Do you mumble when it happens, or not really? It also makes sense about natural expression. When I write I just have more time to think and what to reply compared to real life where it has to be in a second 95% of the time.

 

[Fridx]

Maar het maakt niet uit man pa ik ging zon keertje een meisje de snap vragen ik stotterde zo van ma-ma-mag ik je snap en ze gaf het alsnog

 

[TemporaryName]

You're doing just fine, brother

You’re not a loser, for starters. That’s just your mind spiralling and creating a narrative, but it's not reality. The brain always runs these thoughts when it’s frustrated, but that doesn't make the story true. It's easy to get seduced by thoughts like these but they're poison.

I don’t stutter myself, but I overthink a lot, and I’ve noticed the same basic mechanism underneath it all. I’m really good at thinking, my brain fires fast, and whenever I try to speak while my head is still racing, my speech gets worse. I start to rush, tighten up, trying to get everything out at once, and of course, it falls apart since my mouth literally can’t keep up with my thoughts. But no one can, it's normal.

What helps a lot is realising that speech is supposed to be slower than thoughts, it's natural because you’re not supposed to express everything you think. When you take a step back and slow down, and drop the pressure to ‘perform’ (we all have this subconsciously), things will get better.
And the fact that your thoughts flow effortlessly actually helps you here since it means you’re already sharp so it's not even about ability, bur rather about timing and pressure.

All you're dealing with is a nervous system habit, which can be overcome, and doesn't define you

This kind of thing also gets even harder with ADHD.

I also find myself struggling with wanting to get my thoughts out too fast. Especially when i'm trying to explain something. There's so much i want to say but i don't like speaking, so with that combination it creates a paradox and my mind gets completely lost..

My brother has always had problems with stuttering, he's around 10 now and struggled with it since baby steps, because he was raised in a stressful enviorment, it really breaks my heart to hear it. I also used to stutter myself, so i completely get numbs issue. It's not something that goes away on it's own tho, you need to practice speaking atleast a bit.

To this day i'm afraid of talking on phones, VC's or sending voice messages, i much rather texting because that's what comfortable and fast. But what helped me with stuttering, mainly, was singing (yes i know, sounds weird) - My favorite musical artists involve people like Frank Sinatra, Elvis Presley, etc. which are all great native speakers. I sang along to their songs a lot, imitated the way they speak and sing, it helped me with pronouncing words and being confident with my tongue.

In reality, there's many ways to replicate that 'practice' but everyone does it differently.

You could try making videos on topics you're intrested about (with no need of publishing them of course), playing games with your friends, talking with your family. It's all about the small steps @NumbThePain

 

[Histy]

This kind of thing also gets even harder with ADHD.

I also find myself struggling with wanting to get my thoughts out too fast. Especially when i'm trying to explain something. There's so much i want to say but i don't like speaking, so with that combination it creates a paradox and my mind gets completely lost..

My brother has always had problems with stuttering, he's around 10 now and struggled with it since baby steps, because he was raised in a stressful enviorment, it really breaks my heart to hear it. I also used to stutter myself, so i completely get numbs issue. It's not something that goes away on it's own tho, you need to practice speaking atleast a bit.

To this day i'm afraid of talking on phones, VC's or sending voice messages, i much rather texting because that's what comfortable and fast. But what helped me with stuttering, mainly, was singing (yes i know, sounds weird) - My favorite musical artists involve people like Frank Sinatra, Elvis Presley, etc. which are all great native speakers. I sang along to their songs a lot, imitated the way they speak and sing, it helped me with pronouncing words and being confident with my tongue.

In reality, there's many ways to replicate that 'practice' but everyone does it differently.

You could try making videos on topics you're intrested about (with no need of publishing them of course), playing games with your friends, talking with your family. It's all about the small steps @NumbThePain

Every word is useful ngl
Mirin

 

[Gargantuan]

Thanks brother. That's a relief to hear from you.

That totally makes sense. Do you mumble when it happens, or not really? It also makes sense about natural expression. When I write I just have more time to think and what to reply compared to real life where it has to be in a second 95% of the time.

Yeah, I’ve mumbled too, though not as much as I used to.

And tbh, another really important factor here are definitions and conditioning, since you mentioned needing to respond within a second irl most of the time.
I actually think that it is really important to question these beliefs, because that is what they are, beliefs, and not laws. We've all been conditioned to feel like any pause means incompetence, awkwardness, or whatever that is negative, which trains the nervous system to panic and start spiralling out of control, leading to mubling, stuttering, etc.

But when you actually look at it more objectively, what really happens if you pause for a second or two? Nothing happens.
People pause all the time and most don’t even register it. The pressure is almost entirely internal, we are our own worst critics, after all.

I still catch myself doing it from time to time, I think that the urge to reply instantly is just a trained response, a fear of being judged, fear of losing status etc. But when you let yourself pause and collect your thoughts for a few more seconds, you actually come across calmer and more grounded, not weaker.

Silence is also a part of speech, but we tend to never consider this aspect consciously.
I believe it's therefore mostly about unlearning the belief that you have to perform on demand.

 

[Seven]

you can always be better

 

[AryanSchizo]

Stutters mogs

 

[Gargantuan]

This kind of thing also gets even harder with ADHD.

I also find myself struggling with wanting to get my thoughts out too fast. Especially when i'm trying to explain something. There's so much i want to say but i don't like speaking, so with that combination it creates a paradox and my mind gets completely lost..

My brother has always had problems with stuttering, he's around 10 now and struggled with it since baby steps, because he was raised in a stressful enviorment, it really breaks my heart to hear it. I also used to stutter myself, so i completely get numbs issue. It's not something that goes away on it's own tho, you need to practice speaking atleast a bit.

To this day i'm afraid of talking on phones, VC's or sending voice messages, i much rather texting because that's what comfortable and fast. But what helped me with stuttering, mainly, was singing (yes i know, sounds weird) - My favorite musical artists involve people like Frank Sinatra, Elvis Presley, etc. which are all great native speakers. I sang along to their songs a lot, imitated the way they speak and sing, it helped me with pronouncing words and being confident with my tongue.

In reality, there's many ways to replicate that 'practice' but everyone does it differently.

You could try making videos on topics you're intrested about (with no need of publishing them of course), playing games with your friends, talking with your family. It's all about the small steps @NumbThePain

I’ve suspected myself of some ADHD-ish tendencies too, never diagnosed, but the pattern is familiar. Most introspective, ND-leaning people are insanely good at thinking, that’s what they practice all day (I'm no different). Speaking, not so much, though.

I’ve had that exact experience where something feels crystal clear and epic in my head, and then when I explain it out loud to a friend or something, it's nowhere near as good as I imagined it to be. And it’s not because the idea was bad, it’s because I only rehearsed it internally in my head.
Thoughts without external expression usually don't automatically translate into good speech, which is something I learned along the way.

Funny enough, I’ve gone the opposite direction with texting vs calling. I used to hate calling, but now I actually prefer it.
Texting actually gives me more anxiety now because it invites overthinking, editing, and just doubting myself in general.
Calling forces you to just be there and let it come out imperfectly, and I’ve reached a point where I’d rather deal with that than sit in my head, which I've really grown to hate.

And I agree that in general, following what you’re genuinely into and expressing that is probably the cleanest way to retrain speech.

 

[emeraldglass]

I still stutter as a grown ass man. Holy shit, I’m such an autistic failure and loser. A fate worse than death. I wish I could speak like how my thoughts flow, or the way I write.

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@Ghost Philosophy @emeraldglass @TechnoBoss @Gargantuan @Randomized Shame @tuberculosisinmybal

No problem, bhai. A lot of people stutter, and in most cases it’s fixable, the key is figuring out the cause. If it’s due to overthinking or fear of speaking, try slowing down. There’s no need to rush your words. Speaking more slowly makes you less likely to stutter or make mistakes because it gives your mind time to regulate between sentences. It also gives your voice more resonance and authority compared to rushed speech.

If it’s not psychological, then visiting a speech therapist (logopedist) would be a good idea, they can really help you work through it.

 

[alurmo]

suck my mog u useless nolife fag

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

I still stutter as a grown ass man. Holy shit, I’m such an autistic failure and loser. A fate worse than death. I wish I could speak like how my thoughts flow, or the way I write.

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@Ghost Philosophy @emeraldglass @TechnoBoss @Gargantuan @Randomized Shame @tuberculosisinmybal

Happens to me as well, I don’t think it makes you a loser. In my case, it happens because I have a bunch of different thoughts going on in my head, so I tend to stumble over words.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

You’re not a loser bhai. Speech is complicated and there’s a lot of things that affect it. Have you considered going to one of those speech language pathologists? They can correct it.

It might be a case of your brain working too fast for you to be able to speak it fluently.

Imagine he gets an Indian speech language pathologist and he starts talking in an Indian accent.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

youre mean

His username says BWC but his post gives me SWC energy.

 

[NumbThePain]

Yeah, I’ve mumbled too, though not as much as I used to.

And tbh, another really important factor here are definitions and conditioning, since you mentioned needing to respond within a second irl most of the time.
I actually think that it is really important to question these beliefs, because that is what they are, beliefs, and not laws. We've all been conditioned to feel like any pause means incompetence, awkwardness, or whatever that is negative, which trains the nervous system to panic and start spiralling out of control, leading to mubling, stuttering, etc.

But when you actually look at it more objectively, what really happens if you pause for a second or two? Nothing happens.
People pause all the time and most don’t even register it. The pressure is almost entirely internal, we are our own worst critics, after all.

I still catch myself doing it from time to time, I think that the urge to reply instantly is just a trained response, a fear of being judged, fear of losing status etc. But when you let yourself pause and collect your thoughts for a few more seconds, you actually come across calmer and more grounded, not weaker.

Silence is also a part of speech, but we tend to never consider this aspect consciously.
I believe it's therefore mostly about unlearning the belief that you have to perform on demand.

Mirin hard. You come over to me as a very intelligent and mature person.

I think it's better to collect your thoughts and pause than reacting fast indeed. I have ADHD as well, so I have multiple things going on my head which is probably also the reason for this.

 

[Orka]

I still stutter as a grown ass man. Holy shit, I’m such an autistic failure and loser. A fate worse than death. I wish I could speak like how my thoughts flow, or the way I write.

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@Ghost Philosophy @emeraldglass @TechnoBoss @Gargantuan @Randomized Shame @tuberculosisinmybal

Selank (as tuber said) or some other nootropic might help, along with speech therapy

I used to slur my words a lot and sound overall retarded, I still do, but reading out loud, among other methods helped a lot

You're a cool guy online, I'm sure that translates into you being a cool guy irl

Love you man