im the best proof that looks and girls will not make you happy long term

[cucklek]

ive been called ugly all my puberty. my brother, my friends, random people in my class. everyone made fun of my looks. i deserved it tbh, had greasy hair and skin, ugly clothes, 54kg at 176cm height (skeleton tier), 0 social skills, over 8000 hours game time in cod etc.

now at 17-18 i started to change, i hit the gym, people started complimenting me, i formed a relationship with a girl that im engaged to now 8 years later, i got approached by foids, i had girls offering me sex, wanting to sleep over or suck me off in the forest.

now u'd think this shit makes me happy cuz all my life i got called ugly and wanted a girl to love me so bad. now im engaged and get more love by my gf than ever before. she calls me hot regularly and says i mog her and does everything for me.

but reality is i still seek female validation daily, i go out just to get iois or see girls. its not like im not satisfied with my gf, i just cant get enough. girls CANT make u happy long term. keep in mind my gf is GL, was virgin when we met and has 0 contact to any males and doesnt party so the perfect girl in my eyes.

you need to fill that hole with smth else like a sport or starting your own business or smth. if u missed out on teen love, ur fucked for life

 

[cucklek]

didnt read

 

[Zenis]

ive been called ugly all my puberty. my brother, my friends, random people in my class. everyone made fun of my looks. i deserved it tbh, had greasy hair and skin, ugly clothes, 54kg at 176cm height (skeleton tier), 0 social skills, over 8000 hours game time in cod etc.

now at 17-18 i started to change, i hit the gym, people started complimenting me, i formed a relationship with a girl that im engaged to now 8 years later, i got approached by foids, i had girls offering me sex, wanting to sleep over or suck me off in the forest.

now u'd think this shit makes me happy cuz all my life i got called ugly and wanted a girl to love me so bad. now im engaged and get more love by my gf than ever before. she calls me hot regularly and says i mog her and does everything for me.

but reality is i still seek female validation daily, i go out just to get iois or see girls. its not like im not satisfied with my gf, i just cant get enough. girls CANT make u happy long term. keep in mind my gf is GL, was virgin when we met and has 0 contact to any males and doesnt party so the perfect girl in my eyes.

you need to fill that hole with smth else like a sport or starting your own business or smth. if u missed out on teen love, ur fucked for life

Good fairy tale op

Good read though

 

[Germania]

ive been called ugly all my puberty. my brother, my friends, random people in my class. everyone made fun of my looks. i deserved it tbh, had greasy hair and skin, ugly clothes, 54kg at 176cm height (skeleton tier), 0 social skills, over 8000 hours game time in cod etc.

now at 17-18 i started to change, i hit the gym, people started complimenting me, i formed a relationship with a girl that im engaged to now 8 years later, i got approached by foids, i had girls offering me sex, wanting to sleep over or suck me off in the forest.

now u'd think this shit makes me happy cuz all my life i got called ugly and wanted a girl to love me so bad. now im engaged and get more love by my gf than ever before. she calls me hot regularly and says i mog her and does everything for me.

but reality is i still seek female validation daily, i go out just to get iois or see girls. its not like im not satisfied with my gf, i just cant get enough. girls CANT make u happy long term. keep in mind my gf is GL, was virgin when we met and has 0 contact to any males and doesnt party so the perfect girl in my eyes.

you need to fill that hole with smth else like a sport or starting your own business or smth. if u missed out on teen love, ur fucked for life

First comment in a long time.

No offense, I'm similar, inside you are still the insecure boy. We cover the insecurity by external confirmation and it works, but not for a long time. New wood is always needed, otherwise the fire will go out. I have no idea whether this can be changed or whether it has been so deeply burned into our psyche through childhood and puberty.

 

[beniman]

ive been called ugly all my puberty. my brother, my friends, random people in my class. everyone made fun of my looks. i deserved it tbh, had greasy hair and skin, ugly clothes, 54kg at 176cm height (skeleton tier), 0 social skills, over 8000 hours game time in cod etc.

now at 17-18 i started to change, i hit the gym, people started complimenting me, i formed a relationship with a girl that im engaged to now 8 years later, i got approached by foids, i had girls offering me sex, wanting to sleep over or suck me off in the forest.

now u'd think this shit makes me happy cuz all my life i got called ugly and wanted a girl to love me so bad. now im engaged and get more love by my gf than ever before. she calls me hot regularly and says i mog her and does everything for me.

but reality is i still seek female validation daily, i go out just to get iois or see girls. its not like im not satisfied with my gf, i just cant get enough. girls CANT make u happy long term. keep in mind my gf is GL, was virgin when we met and has 0 contact to any males and doesnt party so the perfect girl in my eyes.

you need to fill that hole with smth else like a sport or starting your own business or smth. if u missed out on teen love, ur fucked for life

No pics no care

 

[cucklek]

First comment in a long time.

No offense, I'm similar, inside you are still the insecure boy. We cover the insecurity by external confirmation and it works, but not for a long time. New wood is always needed, otherwise the fire will go out. I have no idea whether this can be changed or whether it has been so deeply burned into our psyche through childhood and puberty.

yea ive seen your transformation, probably very similar stories. i think we're fucked for life when it comes to females, no cure.

No pics no care

of what u want pics?

 

[beniman]

yea ive seen your transformation, probably very similar stories. i think we're fucked for life when it comes to females, no cure.


of what u want pics?

Ur face

 

[324554802984230598]

yea ive seen your transformation, probably very similar stories. i think we're fucked for life when it comes to females, no cure.


of what u want pics?

send face pics

 

[cucklek]

Ur face

send face pics

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[ivan.kuk]

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what's your problem tldr? other than having a rostie gf

 

[RAITEIII]

What do you want in life?

You must always have a purpose forward. It's part of human nature lol. If that's lost you eventually end up in the situation you are.

possible solutions are having kids, the business. And yada yada...

 

[Germania]

yea ive seen your transformation, probably very similar stories. i think we're fucked for life when it comes to females, no cure.

Since you're talking about happiness, I'm also currently trying to figure out what that actually means.
In any case, it is not only being successful. That might be a hapiness peak for a few hours or a few days at most, but that's it. Many very successful people report this all the time. I also think that general happiness does not depend on specific successes, but on our everyday life, the reality of life that surrounds us throughout a normal day, the basics, the banal stuff.

A good definition is: Happiness is the difference between your reality of life and your own expectations of life. The bigger the difference, the less happy you are, even if you are actually at the top in all areas of life. So we have two options: Lower our expectations or massively increase the reality of our lifes in order to get closer to your expectations.

 

[Alt Number 3]

Stop larping as my bro buflek man.. your making me sad

 

[Debetro]

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Based. Have 4 kids.

 

[thereallegend]

It's because you don't have children with her and no real religion enforcing monogamous values.

 

[cryptt]

 

[WeiWei]

I mean, no shit? Srsly

 

[Ukraine1]

Let a black man fuck you in the ass

 

[dreamcake1mo]

Well thats because childhood trauma is something that will stay for you for the rest of your life.

It was never about looking good, but being treated properly. If people treated you like shit for the vast majority of their lives and all it took was something as superficial as a better face for them to change, they are still ass.

Your probably looking for something genuine. My best advice is to appreciate your youth and every day your alive because i highly doubt it will get better in a mental sense.

 

[lurking truecel]

I mean you will never reach the "end goal". And be ultimately fulfilled with life. Most lookmaxxers here do it to fill out one gap in there life. And yes ofc now that you have this relationship and you are good looking and comfortable there, then you need new things to thrive for. And yes without a hobby and something you like doing, life will suck pretty bad. I actually think people with the greatest purpose and most fulfilled life's are probably successful scientist or people who enjoy there work fully. But still having a gf and sex sometimes is one essential threshold. But it just one part of life. That is also why being incel sucks so much, because you are literally stuck on one of the first hurdles in life and without getting past that your life will be really bad.

 

[Tallooksmaxxer]

you need to fill that hole with smth else like a sport or starting your own business or smth. if u missed out on teen love, ur fucked for life

jfl i was about to make a thread about this

 

[lestoa]

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damn bro looking mog

mirin the frame

Read every single pixel of your thread, i agree - no looks for the hole in your heart.
In the inside i will always stay a little insecure boy, it doesnt matter if iam going to reach my dream looks level.
The way you grow up shapes your self-confidence and your later well-being in your adult life. If you got treated like shit in your teenage/kid years you will have 0 confident later. I mean how should you even have confidence if you got treated your whole teenage years like fucking shit.
You cant just become confident.

It was never about looking good, but being treated properly.

This is also extremely true.

 

[cucklek]

Stop larping as my bro buflek man.. your making me sad

its me bro

i had to make a new acc for personal reasons

 

[Chadeep]

Even if you become a Chad the Personality is still Incel. Guys like Amnesia are examples of that. It's over for everyone here who didn't have positive experiences when growing up.

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Unironically, confidence comes from inside

 

[Kelly Oubre Jr]

thats not because girls dont make you happy, its because you fell for cucked monogamy propaganda

 

[Suns9999]

i had girls offering me sex, wanting to sleep over or suck me off in the forest.

nigga how. no way they’re that overt about it

 

[cucklek]

nigga how. no way they’re that overt about it

it was after talking to them for a while over snap and meeting a couple of times with flirts

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

welcome back my negro

 

[Suns9999]

it was after talking to them for a while over snap and meeting a couple of times with flirts

oh okay that makes a lot more sense. i thought you were some crazy psl for that shit to happen upon first meet

 

[Suns9999]

i go out just to get iois

 

[cucklek]

oh okay that makes a lot more sense. i thought you were some crazy psl for that shit to happen upon first meet

nah man

im htn smv max

 

[blatonslatt]

ive been called ugly all my puberty. my brother, my friends, random people in my class. everyone made fun of my looks. i deserved it tbh, had greasy hair and skin, ugly clothes, 54kg at 176cm height (skeleton tier), 0 social skills, over 8000 hours game time in cod etc.

now at 17-18 i started to change, i hit the gym, people started complimenting me, i formed a relationship with a girl that im engaged to now 8 years later, i got approached by foids, i had girls offering me sex, wanting to sleep over or suck me off in the forest.

now u'd think this shit makes me happy cuz all my life i got called ugly and wanted a girl to love me so bad. now im engaged and get more love by my gf than ever before. she calls me hot regularly and says i mog her and does everything for me.

but reality is i still seek female validation daily, i go out just to get iois or see girls. its not like im not satisfied with my gf, i just cant get enough. girls CANT make u happy long term. keep in mind my gf is GL, was virgin when we met and has 0 contact to any males and doesnt party so the perfect girl in my eyes.

you need to fill that hole with smth else like a sport or starting your own business or smth. if u missed out on teen love, ur fucked for life

i weigh 52 kg at 188 cm

 

[Nick.Harte]

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Ahhh. Buflek is back

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

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[yeeyeeslayer]

if u missed out on teen love, ur fucked for life

that's not even true bro

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

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holy shit chad

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

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nigga mogged us back into the shadow realm with that one,

seriously motivated me to to make my ascension more seriously and stop slacking

 

[Germania]

Like many things, character or personality is partly genetics. Of course, upbringing/environmental factors play a huge role, but the foundation is genetic. I just asked Chat GPT at what age our character is formed by environmental factors.
Character development can be roughly estimated in phases:

1. Early Childhood (0–6 years): ~30% – Core values and emotional stability are shaped by close caregivers.
2. Childhood & Adolescence (6–18 years): ~40% – Social influences and self-identity become more significant.
3. Young Adulthood (18–30 years): ~20% – Experiences in work, education, and relationships solidify character traits.
4. Adulthood (30+ years): ~10% – Character is largely stable but can still evolve through major life events
   
   The genetics part:
   
   
   
   

ChatGPT says:

Personality and character are shaped by both genetics and environment. On average, genetics account for about 40–60% of personality traits, while the remaining 40–60% come from environmental factors like upbringing, culture, and personal experiences.

Let's say 50/50, which means that If I calculated correctly, 85% of your personality is developed by the age of 18. You’re born with 50%, and 70% of the remaining half, making a total of 85%.

 

[Occultcel]

It’s a high that wears off and then you crave it again. It’s a bad addiction. Better to focus on a grander purpose that will actually sustain you through life and just have a Becky girlfriend tbh.

 

[yeeyeeslayer]

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David laid if he was an autistic 5'9 ginger

 

[Pikabro]

ive been called ugly all my puberty. my brother, my friends, random people in my class. everyone made fun of my looks. i deserved it tbh, had greasy hair and skin, ugly clothes, 54kg at 176cm height (skeleton tier), 0 social skills, over 8000 hours game time in cod etc.

now at 17-18 i started to change, i hit the gym, people started complimenting me, i formed a relationship with a girl that im engaged to now 8 years later, i got approached by foids, i had girls offering me sex, wanting to sleep over or suck me off in the forest.

now u'd think this shit makes me happy cuz all my life i got called ugly and wanted a girl to love me so bad. now im engaged and get more love by my gf than ever before. she calls me hot regularly and says i mog her and does everything for me.

but reality is i still seek female validation daily, i go out just to get iois or see girls. its not like im not satisfied with my gf, i just cant get enough. girls CANT make u happy long term. keep in mind my gf is GL, was virgin when we met and has 0 contact to any males and doesnt party so the perfect girl in my eyes.

you need to fill that hole with smth else like a sport or starting your own business or smth. if u missed out on teen love, ur fucked for life

Why are u larping as buflek

EDIT: ohhhh makes sense

 

[sportsmogger]

i weigh 52 kg at 188 cm

wtf??

i thought i was skinny at 57kg 184cm

 

[blatonslatt]

wtf??

i thought i was skinny at 57kg 184cm

im underweight af dude literally my arms n legs r bone

 

[tahi]

ive been called ugly all my puberty. my brother, my friends, random people in my class. everyone made fun of my looks. i deserved it tbh, had greasy hair and skin, ugly clothes, 54kg at 176cm height (skeleton tier), 0 social skills, over 8000 hours game time in cod etc.

now at 17-18 i started to change, i hit the gym, people started complimenting me, i formed a relationship with a girl that im engaged to now 8 years later, i got approached by foids, i had girls offering me sex, wanting to sleep over or suck me off in the forest.

now u'd think this shit makes me happy cuz all my life i got called ugly and wanted a girl to love me so bad. now im engaged and get more love by my gf than ever before. she calls me hot regularly and says i mog her and does everything for me.

but reality is i still seek female validation daily, i go out just to get iois or see girls. its not like im not satisfied with my gf, i just cant get enough. girls CANT make u happy long term. keep in mind my gf is GL, was virgin when we met and has 0 contact to any males and doesnt party so the perfect girl in my eyes.

you need to fill that hole with smth else like a sport or starting your own business or smth. if u missed out on teen love, ur fucked for life

realest shit ive seen. me personally that sport is wrestling ive made so many friends and we are always competing with each other to be the best