important thing when pursuing women/reproduction

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we have to try. we cant just wait as the years pass, coping with the problem that we are not reproducing. we should be ascending of course, but whether u ascended or yet to ascend, doesnt matter u have to pursue women. we have to try. but dont get ur hopes up. if u get hopes up, u will feel horrible when they are crushed. and it will be harder to try. until u stop trying at all.
 
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Water but mirin

Failure is only staying down

“Cope” ok im coping then, but id rather cope and do something about it then hide and rot and be a coward.

Then which of us is really the coper?
 
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Water but mirin

Failure is only staying down

“Cope” ok im coping then, but id rather cope and do something about it then hide and rot and be a coward.

Then which of us is really the coper?
the key point in my thread is dont get hopes up. i got hopes up as a young cel, crushed over and over, then i developed trauma and struggle to leave my room.
 
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i am now considered attractive, and im also very tall 6’4 , but from a experience of being crushed over and over, i cant put my looks to use, its over
 
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i am now considered attractive, and im also very tall 6’4 , but from a experience of being crushed over and over, i cant put my looks to use, its over
if people with less experience read my thread they can avoid this. its still not over its just harder for u cuz u have to overcome this mental barrier that u learned (feedback creates learning, u cant choose what u learn unless u modulate the feedback, being crushed is insane negative feedback, but if u consciously plan not to get hopes up the negative feedback will be weaker)
 
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if people with less experience read my thread they can avoid this. its still not over its just harder for u cuz u have to overcome this mental barrier that u learned (feedback creates learning, u cant choose what u learn unless u modulate the feedback, being crushed is insane negative feedback, but if u consciously plan not to get hopes up the negative feedback will be weaker)
i couldve, i was at a hotel, 3 girls gave me LOI, but me, with my pathetic mindset, and horrible feeling that im going to get fucked rejected to oblivion (EVEN WHEN THEY WOULDNT STOP LOOKING) didnt do anything, and honestly sometimes when girls look at me alot, i just trick myself into believing that they look at me bc they think im hideous
 
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i couldve, i was at a hotel, 3 girls gave me LOI, but me, with my pathetic mindset, and horrible feeling that im going to get fucked rejected to oblivion (EVEN WHEN THEY WOULDNT STOP LOOKING) didnt do anything, and honestly sometimes when girls look at me alot, i just trick myself into believing that they look at me bc they think im hideous
i am 5'7 so its actually over for me :feelsrope:
 
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idk what that means but its over. at least my face is decent
its a phrase scoody used to say when he knew he was fucked
 
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i couldve, i was at a hotel, 3 girls gave me LOI, but me, with my pathetic mindset, and horrible feeling that im going to get fucked rejected to oblivion (EVEN WHEN THEY WOULDNT STOP LOOKING) didnt do anything, and honestly sometimes when girls look at me alot, i just trick myself into believing that they look at me bc they think im hideous
the best thing you could do for fixing your mental barrier is getting of this forum believe it or not.
 
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i am now considered attractive, and im also very tall 6’4 , but from a experience of being crushed over and over, i cant put my looks to use, its over

autism at 6'4 is insane dude get out of your head
 
former incels would unironically be the best parents

they are blackpilled and would prevent their child from being incel
 
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the best thing you could do for fixing your mental barrier is getting of this forum believe it or not.
brother ive been like this before i joined org, since like 7th grade
 
former incels would unironically be the best parents

they are blackpilled and would prevent their child from being incel
parents can help their kids succeed in the ways they have succeeded and parents can help their kids not make the mistakes that they have learned from
 
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therapy doesnt work for abused dogs
is this a insult or something i cant tell, but being called a abused dog doesn’t seem so nice
 
is this a insult or something i cant tell, but being called a abused dog doesn’t seem so nice
its not an insult, i just dont care to talk all polite and proper
 
i am now considered attractive, and im also very tall 6’4 , but from a experience of being crushed over and over, i cant put my looks to use, its over
Once one becomes bitter there's no going back-- bitterness is the point of no return.
 
Once one becomes bitter there's no going back-- bitterness is the point of no return.
generally it goes that way. but only because people do whats convenient
 
Rather stay single than beg a LTB to give me a chance
 
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i am now considered attractive, and im also very tall 6’4 , but from a experience of being crushed over and over, i cant put my looks to use, its over
Same, traumatized by past experience, now even if girls like me, I still think I will get rejected if I try anything
 
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what benefits have u noticed from therapy?
tbh, i never spoke ab my dysmorphia, i only talked ab how i always felt socially rejected, and honestly i havent seen much progress in anything, i asked for a different therapist and im seeing that one on monday for another evaluation
 
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Same, traumatized by past experience, now even if girls like me, I still think I will get rejected if I try anything
yea u and i are one of the same
 
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tbh, i never spoke ab my dysmorphia, i only talked ab how i always felt socially rejected, and honestly i havent seen much progress in anything, i asked for a different therapist and im seeing that one on monday for another evaluation
i made more progress after quitting therapy. therapy is for foids not incels.
 
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i made more progress after quitting therapy. therapy is for foids not incels.
yea whats the point of me listening to them ramble ab ways to help myself or wtv, when ik damn well when i get home ill forget every atom they said, like dnr nigger
 
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yea whats the point of me listening to them ramble ab ways to help myself or wtv, when ik damn well when i get home ill forget every atom they said, like dnr nigger
so stop going like a cuck. just quit already.
 
tbh, i never spoke ab my dysmorphia, i only talked ab how i always felt socially rejected, and honestly i havent seen much progress in anything, i asked for a different therapist and im seeing that one on monday for another evaluation
They're only good for prescribing drugs imo


I was also reading an article where they asked people to rate responses from chat gpt and actual therapists, and chat gpt won

Some think chat gpt is better at therapy than actual therapists


Fuck it, tell chat gpt to pretend to be blackpilled therapist
 
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They're only good for prescribing drugs imo


I was also reading an article where they asked people to rate responses from chat gpt and actual therapists, and chat gpt won

Some think chat gpt is better at therapy than actual therapists


Fuck it, tell chat gpt to pretend to be blackpilled therapist
water but therapists have more placebo
 
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They're only good for prescribing drugs imo


I was also reading an article where they asked people to rate responses from chat gpt and actual therapists, and chat gpt won

Some think chat gpt is better at therapy than actual therapists


Fuck it, tell chat gpt to pretend to be blackpilled therapist
i did last night, i even asked chatgpt if it knew what blackpill was, it was getting all the points i needed to realize across, i was outstanded by how much i learned
 
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I have rejected, ghosted, ignored all the girls in my life who have ever shown obvious interest in me..

I always felt that I didn't want to burn bridges in case the relationship didn't work out (even though in the end anyway we totally disappeared from each other's lives involuntarily), that I wasn't mature/ready enough for a relationship at the time (for fear of losing my aura, the very thing that attracted them to me in the first place), or that I knew I still didn't have my shit together, and the relationship would have been doomed to fail sooner or later anyway (so not to waste their time, when they could find someone better)

It's 8 years since the last time I kissed a girl, held her hand or had sexual contact (ironic that in those 8 years, it was the period when I was supposed to have theoretically the most opportunities for new relationships, but I simply ignored or didn't seek them)

Instead, I focused on my studies, career, sports, my circle of friends (which unfortunately didn't include girls, but I don't think it made a difference) and personal hobbies (which don't involve girls)

This month on a random day, out of nowhere, my boss at work asked me “When are you getting married?” and my parents sometimes ask me when I'm getting a girlfriend.

It's just over at this point, nothing else to say..
 
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i did last night, i even asked chatgpt if it knew what blackpill was, it was getting all the points i needed to realize across, i was outstanded by how much i learned
Blackpilled chat gpt mogs tbh

It acknowledges everything you say and still tries to help you


Lol therapy is a scam when you have large language model jfl
 

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weird how it sounds like a person and tries to personalise itself
Blackpilled chat gpt mogs tbh

It acknowledges everything you say and still tries to help you


Lol therapy is a scam when you have large language model jfl
 
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