Impossible to Make Friends in your 20's

Shahnameh

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People are too easily offended nowadays and are incapable of having a discussion. It's easy to simply ostracise a person you disagree with and everyone else will follow suit. There's no personal interaction so there's no real building of chemistry. There's no rapport, no acceptance of who you are or portray yourself as and everyone is unforgiving of your humor if doesn't land. And no one seems to truly care at all.

It's also impossible to invite people to play a video game together and find new ways to bond.

Try to Join a hobby group or sport? Right this way!

Except when you go there to actually....discuss the sport, or the anime, or the hobby, literally every single one of them without exception boils down to the same thing over and over: A handful of regulars hanging out and ignoring everyone else.

Been to many parties where it will be split amongst the different friend groups, with neither mingling with each other.

Australians are hard to genuinely get close to. Also especially because almost nobody seeks a meaningful friendship, just people to pass the time with. It’s sad
 
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What are u saying to get people to ostracize u
 
Real friendships are not based off of superficial things like shared interests and hobbies.

I think there is at least one or two people out there in this world of 8 billion that you have genuine chemistry with and understand each other.
 
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What are u saying to get people to ostracize u

Anti Woke/SJW stuff

Real friendships are not based off of superficial things like shared interests and hobbies.

I think there is at least one or two people out there in this world of 8 billion that you have genuine chemistry with and understand each other.

Normie advice is to always find a hobby or some ahared interest but it never worked for me. Outside of the hobby u have nothing in common
 
Anti Woke/SJW stuff



Normie advice is to always find a hobby or some ahared interest but it never worked for me. Outside of the hobby u have nothing in common
Yeah that shit is retarded and normie advice doesn't cut it these days.

I don't always share the same tastes, interests, hobbies, etc… with my closest friends but we are on the same wavelength.

A good friendship is one where you are comfortable being silent around each other. One where you can go months, if not years without contact but the moment you reunite it's like no time has passed. One where the conversations flow naturally and are never forced or awkward, and times flies extremely quickly when you're with them.
 
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People are too easily offended nowadays and are incapable of having a discussion. It's easy to simply ostracise a person you disagree with and everyone else will follow suit. There's no personal interaction so there's no real building of chemistry. There's no rapport, no acceptance of who you are or portray yourself as and everyone is unforgiving of your humor if doesn't land. And no one seems to truly care at all.

It's also impossible to invite people to play a video game together and find new ways to bond.

Try to Join a hobby group or sport? Right this way!

Except when you go there to actually....discuss the sport, or the anime, or the hobby, literally every single one of them without exception boils down to the same thing over and over: A handful of regulars hanging out and ignoring everyone else.

Been to many parties where it will be split amongst the different friend groups, with neither mingling with each other.

Australians are hard to genuinely get close to. Also especially because almost nobody seeks a meaningful friendship, just people to pass the time with. It’s sad

Sorry bucko, it means you are that guy.

You are that insufferable spaz that tries hard to be edgy, thinking you are different but only gets people irritated.
 
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pretty much water info tbh
 
Your childhood / uni friends are usually your only friends.
 
People are too easily offended nowadays and are incapable of having a discussion. It's easy to simply ostracise a person you disagree with and everyone else will follow suit. There's no personal interaction so there's no real building of chemistry. There's no rapport, no acceptance of who you are or portray yourself as and everyone is unforgiving of your humor if doesn't land. And no one seems to truly care at all.

It's also impossible to invite people to play a video game together and find new ways to bond.

Try to Join a hobby group or sport? Right this way!

Except when you go there to actually....discuss the sport, or the anime, or the hobby, literally every single one of them without exception boils down to the same thing over and over: A handful of regulars hanging out and ignoring everyone else.

Been to many parties where it will be split amongst the different friend groups, with neither mingling with each other.

Australians are hard to genuinely get close to. Also especially because almost nobody seeks a meaningful friendship, just people to pass the time with. It’s sad
It's easy to make friends but it's close to impossible for most guys to make close friends above the age of 20.
 
People are too easily offended nowadays and are incapable of having a discussion. It's easy to simply ostracise a person you disagree with and everyone else will follow suit. There's no personal interaction so there's no real building of chemistry. There's no rapport, no acceptance of who you are or portray yourself as and everyone is unforgiving of your humor if doesn't land. And no one seems to truly care at all.

It's also impossible to invite people to play a video game together and find new ways to bond.

Try to Join a hobby group or sport? Right this way!

Except when you go there to actually....discuss the sport, or the anime, or the hobby, literally every single one of them without exception boils down to the same thing over and over: A handful of regulars hanging out and ignoring everyone else.

Been to many parties where it will be split amongst the different friend groups, with neither mingling with each other.

Australians are hard to genuinely get close to. Also especially because almost nobody seeks a meaningful friendship, just people to pass the time with. It’s sad
Cope youre just autistic
 
Normies have been social circlemaxing since the kindergarden. Lol if you think you will catch them up in your twentnties.
 
Who wants friends? I just need sexual partners ( women)
 

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