delonisliterallyme
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I hope this isn't a stupid question
I was invited to my girlfriends work party. At this work party, we're all drinking and all fairly drunk. They start daring each other to do things, I don't take part. All her work friends dare her Gay Male Colleague and my GF to make out.
I oppose and say there's no way.
They egg each other on, and then they kiss for maybe 5 seconds.
They all laugh and joke, and I sit in silence.
I give her $50 for a taxi home and then I leave.
Later that night she comes home vomiting in the toilet, and I'm there holding her hair back making sure she's okay.
She then cries after I confronted her about the kiss. She tried to get out of it and told me that it was just a bit of fun. Obviously, I was mad at that statement, and that's where we left it.
Edit: For context I'm 25 and shes 24. I work as a commercial banker, she works as a Barista at one of our local cafes. It's all her Cafe friends
Further to this. She lives with me in my apartment and I pay the full mortgage every month.
- I've since asked her to leave so I can have a break but she says she has nowhere to go. So now I'm in a difficult spot.
With my work group we can have the most interesting conversations. When we do socialise after work, we all respect each other, we're mature and talk about life and have mentally stimulating conversations.
- She enjoys going clubbing and getting drunk.
- I enjoy a nice dinner with a few drinks. I hate clubbing and never go.
I was invited to my girlfriends work party. At this work party, we're all drinking and all fairly drunk. They start daring each other to do things, I don't take part. All her work friends dare her Gay Male Colleague and my GF to make out.
I oppose and say there's no way.
They egg each other on, and then they kiss for maybe 5 seconds.
They all laugh and joke, and I sit in silence.
I give her $50 for a taxi home and then I leave.
Later that night she comes home vomiting in the toilet, and I'm there holding her hair back making sure she's okay.
She then cries after I confronted her about the kiss. She tried to get out of it and told me that it was just a bit of fun. Obviously, I was mad at that statement, and that's where we left it.
Edit: For context I'm 25 and shes 24. I work as a commercial banker, she works as a Barista at one of our local cafes. It's all her Cafe friends
Further to this. She lives with me in my apartment and I pay the full mortgage every month.
- I've since asked her to leave so I can have a break but she says she has nowhere to go. So now I'm in a difficult spot.
With my work group we can have the most interesting conversations. When we do socialise after work, we all respect each other, we're mature and talk about life and have mentally stimulating conversations.
- She enjoys going clubbing and getting drunk.
- I enjoy a nice dinner with a few drinks. I hate clubbing and never go.