AlexAP
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I've seen Asian men angry and suicidal (some successful in this) when their girlfriend leaves them for a tall white man. Absolute hatred for Asian girls who date outside their race. I've seen white men fetishize Asian women with porn categories like "BWC for tiny Asian girl, humiliates her boyfriend". I've seen absolute hatred for an Asian man dating a white Instagram model, misogyny and hatred from Asian men who see this guy as a "race traitor", misogyny and hatred from men of other races who claim she's settling for an "inferior" man.
As you can imagine, ALL of these issues affect Asian American men and women. There is SO much trauma, self hatred, model minority myths, and misogyny here and the problem I constantly face is that I'm totally on my own out here.
I've tried to reach out to other Asian men suffering, sliding down the incel path, and it's usually met with "You're a simp", "stop being a beta bitch", "those white women aren't gonna fuck you bro".
It's heartbreaking because I suffer with them, I know what it's like to look in the mirror and realize you're not gonna "fix" this. When I was six years old I asked my mother when my eyes were going to look "normal". I try to reach out, ask how they're doing. I have a lot of empathy for incels, more than I probably should, but I don't know what else I can do.
As you can imagine, ALL of these issues affect Asian American men and women. There is SO much trauma, self hatred, model minority myths, and misogyny here and the problem I constantly face is that I'm totally on my own out here.
I've tried to reach out to other Asian men suffering, sliding down the incel path, and it's usually met with "You're a simp", "stop being a beta bitch", "those white women aren't gonna fuck you bro".
It's heartbreaking because I suffer with them, I know what it's like to look in the mirror and realize you're not gonna "fix" this. When I was six years old I asked my mother when my eyes were going to look "normal". I try to reach out, ask how they're doing. I have a lot of empathy for incels, more than I probably should, but I don't know what else I can do.
