Inhibition

[BadLuck7892]

Imagine being low inhibition enough to do all of the following:

• Talk to female coworkers about pee on a work device
• Walk down a dark alley after dark in an unfamiliar city as a skinny White autist
• Grope the backsides of (and pet the hair of) female classmates in high school
• Break the law by buying sex so many times you've lost count
• Flirt with married foids
• Go up to total strangers in public and ask if they'd like to come to your place for sex
• Get a Brazilian wax
• Get on an airplane to visit unfamiliar places solo many times

...Yet being too high inhibition to ask a foid out based on IOIs.

That's me.

 

[BadLuck7892]

Oh yeah, and I was too high inhibition to apply to jobs in my field after I graduated college

 

[dudebroguy]

Asking a girl out is way less intense than groping or asking for sex wtf. Explain.

 

[dogedogedoge]

Grope the backsides of (and pet the hair of) female classmates in high school

Bro?

 

[BadLuck7892]

Asking a girl out is way less intense than groping or asking for sex wtf. Explain.

By asking for sex, I take it you're talking about me reaching out to escorts.

Before I begin my explanation, I should point out the fact autists hate uncertainty.

Reaching out to an escort to inquire about buying sex is easy for me because of how much certainty comes with the whole thing (I know she'll probably accept my request, I know I could easily find another escort even if she refuses to see me, I know sex will happen if we meet up, etc)

Groping a female classmate (back when I was in school) comes with certainty too. I know for a fact I'm going to get to touch her backside.

Asking a foid out, on the other hand, comes with way too much uncertainty (How should I word my askout?, Where/when should I propose our date take place?, Will the foid accept my askout?, etc)

 

[BadLuck7892]

Bro?

Yeah, I really groped/pet female classmates

 

[dudebroguy]

By asking for sex, I take it you're talking about me reaching out to escorts.

No I'm referring to "Go up to total strangers in public and ask if they'd like to come to your place for sex"

 

[boxillo]

Imagine being low inhibition enough to do all of the following:

• Talk to female coworkers about pee on a work device
• Walk down a dark alley after dark in an unfamiliar city as a skinny White autist
• Grope the backsides of (and pet the hair of) female classmates in high school
• Break the law by buying sex so many times you've lost count
• Flirt with married foids
• Go up to total strangers in public and ask if they'd like to come to your place for sex
• Get a Brazilian wax
• Get on an airplane to visit unfamiliar places solo many times

...Yet being too high inhibition to ask a foid out based on IOIs.

That's me.

This is such a weird list. I mean I can say basically anything to anyone I wouldn’t say I’m high inhib but I couldn’t approach a random giel for the life of me, feels so awkward and forced

 

[BadLuck7892]

No I'm referring to "Go up to total strangers in public and ask if they'd like to come to your place for sex"

O ok.

That's easier because at least I'm highly unlikely to cross paths with her ever again.

 

[BadLuck7892]

This is such a weird list. I mean I can say basically anything to anyone I wouldn’t say I’m high inhib but I couldn’t approach a random giel for the life of me, feels so awkward and forced

Approaching a random foid is easier for me than approaching a foid I know

 

[boxillo]

Approaching a random foid is easier for me than approaching a foid I know

True I meant without reason it’s hard for me

 

[SvtvnTr14d]

Imagine being low inhibition enough to do all of the following:

• Talk to female coworkers about pee on a work device
• Walk down a dark alley after dark in an unfamiliar city as a skinny White autist
• Grope the backsides of (and pet the hair of) female classmates in high school
• Break the law by buying sex so many times you've lost count
• Flirt with married foids
• Go up to total strangers in public and ask if they'd like to come to your place for sex
• Get a Brazilian wax
• Get on an airplane to visit unfamiliar places solo many times

...Yet being too high inhibition to ask a foid out based on IOIs.

That's me.

how do u got the balls to come up to a random in public and ask them for sex at ur place but not ask out a foid honestly mirin the high T though

 

[BadLuck7892]

how do u got the balls to come up to a random in public and ask them for sex at ur place but not ask out a foid honestly mirin the high T though

When I went through the stretch where I'd go up to random foids in public and ask if they'd like to come over for sex, I was 23.

A 23 year old male's sex drive is through the roof. And my autistic lack of social awareness meant I saw nothing wrong with what I was doing.

Anyway, asking out a foid I actually know is harder than asking a random foid for sex because I'm going to need to cross paths with a foid I know post-rejection (I'm unlikely to ever cross paths with a random stranger after my sex offer gets turned down)

 

[dudebroguy]

When I went through the stretch where I'd go up to random foids in public and ask if they'd like to come over for sex, I was 23.

A 23 year old male's sex drive is through the roof. And my autistic lack of social awareness meant I saw nothing wrong with what I was doing.

Anyway, asking out a foid I actually know is harder than asking a random foid for sex because I'm going to need to cross paths with a foid I know post-rejection (I'm unlikely to ever cross paths with a random stranger after my sex offer gets turned down)

Try asking out random girls after you talk to them for 10-15 minutes and got them comfortable with you instead of going up and just asking for sex like a socially uncalibrated human. Sounds like you could pull this one off. Those slightly longer interactions have a higher ROI for me.

 

[BadLuck7892]

Try asking out random girls after you talk to them for 10-15 minutes and got them comfortable with you instead of going up and just asking for sex like a socially uncalibrated human. Sounds like you could pull this one off. Those slightly longer interactions have a higher ROI for me.

I've tried your approach. It doesn't really work for me.

 

[LUKE546733]

I'm such high inhib that if I see my mom downstairs when I'm getting food I turn right around and sneak back to my room

 

[BadLuck7892]

I'm such high inhib that if I see my mom downstairs when I'm getting food I turn right around and sneak back to my room

Talk about high inhibition