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The main issue i had with instagram was DISSONANCE. See, people with college degrees like me didnt start instagram on their own. They started it with their friends so they immidiately had people to follow and follow back. And conspicuously, these people meet other people with instagram wherever they go work, college etc. so they expand it even more. Being successful on instagram is literally WRITTEN IN STONE.
Meanwhile, i did it on my own, jestermaxxing and getting artists to follow me. Noone in my environment has an instagram, i never meet people with an instagram either. Buuuuut i got tired having 3 degrees and not a single person similar to me following me. Its alienating tbh ngl. It just wasnt for me basically. And its not even a looks problem, its just bad networking.
As i said, you need to start this thing with other peoople. You cant socialize on instagram from nowhere sadly, at least not with people on your wavelength. Like, i have to use dating apps not to get laid but to maybe find women who have similar backgrounds with me to follow me which is luck and work. Get a match, talk, go out and hope she gives you her @. Not everything is for everyone in this life, i learnt the hard way.
But the reality is that im stuck having an instagram because i got a guy i was in class with last year to follow me so now i cant delete because it will be seen as non NT. I dug my own grave basically.
Meanwhile, i did it on my own, jestermaxxing and getting artists to follow me. Noone in my environment has an instagram, i never meet people with an instagram either. Buuuuut i got tired having 3 degrees and not a single person similar to me following me. Its alienating tbh ngl. It just wasnt for me basically. And its not even a looks problem, its just bad networking.
As i said, you need to start this thing with other peoople. You cant socialize on instagram from nowhere sadly, at least not with people on your wavelength. Like, i have to use dating apps not to get laid but to maybe find women who have similar backgrounds with me to follow me which is luck and work. Get a match, talk, go out and hope she gives you her @. Not everything is for everyone in this life, i learnt the hard way.
But the reality is that im stuck having an instagram because i got a guy i was in class with last year to follow me so now i cant delete because it will be seen as non NT. I dug my own grave basically.
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