IOIs don’t mean shit

[DrunkenSailor]

I remember the few days before I fucked my ex, we lived in the same campus building and I would often see her around, she looked pretty uninterested. Tbh I wasn’t interested in her either so I didn’t give a fuck, I just wanted to fuck a friend of here, then one night when I invited everyone in my room for a "movie" (with the aim of ending up with the girl I wanted only), she was the one who said yes. In my mind I was like oh fuck sake, not you bitch.

Later when we got together she told me she thought I am attractive and she was taking photos of me behind my back and sending them to her friend lol.

 

[pajjeetslayer]

I remember the few days before I fucked my ex, we lived in the same campus building and I would often see her around, she looked pretty uninterested. Tbh I wasn’t interested in her either so I didn’t give a fuck, I just wanted to fuck a friend of here, then one night when I invited everyone in my room for a "movie" (with the aim of ending up with the girl I wanted only), she was the one who said yes. In my mind I was like oh fuck sake, not you bitch.

Later when we got together she told me she thought I am attractive and she was taking photos of me behind my back and sending them to her friend lol.

wtf is a ioi

if a girl likes you its obv unless u nd

 

[Finnishmogger]

wtf is a ioi

I think it stands for indicator of interest

 

[pajjeetslayer]

I think it stands for indicator of interest

example?

girls ussually make it obvious if they like you doe

 

[Finnishmogger]

example?

girls ussually make it obvious if they like you doe

Like getting eye contact or someone smiling at you is an ioi for example

 

[jester patell]

example?

girls ussually make it obvious if they like you doe

50/50

 

[pajjeetslayer]

Like getting eye contact

over if girls dont make eye contact with you when you talk to em tbh

smiling at you is an ioi for example

is that an IOI? brutal

 

[Finnishmogger]

over if girls dont make eye contact with you when you talk to em tbh

is that an IOI? brutal

Wdym brutal

 

[pajjeetslayer]

Wdym brutal

so if you make a joke and ur ugly do girls js not laugh even if it's some what funny?

 

[Finnishmogger]

so if you make a joke and ur ugly do girls js not laugh even if it's some what funny?

I meant like if a girl walks past you and keeps eye contact and smiles at you.

 

[pajjeetslayer]

I meant like if a girl walks past you and keeps eye contact and smiles at you.

y would she smile if your just walking past unless she knows you

 

[Finnishmogger]

y would she smile if your just walking past unless she knows you

If a girl likes you she will do that.

You maybe wouldn’t understand.

 

[pajjeetslayer]

If a girl likes you she will do that.

You maybe wouldn’t understand.

y would a girl who doesnt know you smile at you even if she likes you

she dont give a fuck when chads in her dms

 

[Finnishmogger]

y would a girl who doesnt know you smile at you even if she likes you

That’s how they show that they like you

 

[DrunkenSailor]

example?

They show you their pussies unsolicited

 

[pajjeetslayer]

That’s how they show that they like you

nigga if they like you they might just look at you

they wont smile at you on purpose women have enough options to the point they can be more nonchalant

 

[Finnishmogger]

nigga if they like you they might just look at you

they wont smile at you on purpose women have enough options to the point they can be more nonchalant

I’m not going to keep arguing with you.

If a girl ever liked you, you’d know.

 

[pajjeetslayer]

I’m not going to keep arguing with you.

If a girl ever liked you, you’d know.

yeah nigga women who dont know you just look at you and smile at you

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

larp dnr

 

[DrunkenSailor]

nigga if they like you they might just look at you

they wont smile at you on purpose women have enough options to the point they can be more nonchalant

I just said ITT that IOIs (or lack of) don’t always mean much.

 

[SlayerJonas]

nigga if they like you they might just look at you

they wont smile at you on purpose women have enough options to the point they can be more nonchalant

girls smile at you when they like you, they just don't care enough to approach most of the time. but it's their way to show interest.

 

[pajjeetslayer]

girls smile at you when they like you,

I get that it's water

girls smile at you when they like you, they just don't care enough to approach most of the time. but it's their way to show interest.

I can't imagine a women who doesn't know you looking at you and smiling tho would seem off putting

 

[ascension]

You're probably right, I had a girl on the train constantly looking at me but when I approached, she said no

 

[DrunkenSailor]

You're probably right, I had a girl on the train constantly looking at me but when I approached, she said no

Sometimes it’s just us (men) overthinking shit and we think they’re interested in us when they’re not. And sometimes women don’t have the confidence to show they like you, a possible explanation from my experience ITT.

Or idk. My brain is fried at this time

 

[VohnnyBoy]

yeah nigga women who dont know you just look at you and smile at you

Depends on a girl and social norms in your location big time.
In higher inhib societies, women may look cold towards you but will occasionally glance at you and if yall catch an eye contact, her facial expression will slightly lighten (raised eyebrows, widen eyes, slightly raised lips). She won't necessarily smile and approach you

Lower inhib women will as you can guess be more flirty and will sometimes even approach you first, stuff that almost never happens in colder societies

 

[pajjeetslayer]

Depends on a girl and social norms in your location big time.
In higher inhib societies, women may look cold towards you but will occasionally glance at you and if yall catch an eye contact,

idk if my area is high inhib tbh most girls (guys too but we aint tryna fuck dudes) will walk up and talk to you but unless their talking to you they will only smile whilst talking you but not randomly? like wtf?

, women may look cold towards you but will occasionally glance at you and if yall catch an eye contact, her facial expression will

Yeah water I though this was intuitive