IRL > Dating apps

[lebronjames23]

i am fully convinced of this now

the problem we face is women have lots of options just in general from social circle and school, but when we add dating apps its legit unlimited options for them. girls will already have their social circle but then when you add dating apps thats hundreds upon hundreds of extra guys a week trying to fuck them pretty much. even if you are a gl guy it is hard to compete and mtbs will act arrogant to you.

in my experience i have a better chance getting with a 7-8/10 IRL than a fucking 5/10 off a app. another thing with dating apps is it inherently shows lower value than if you met them irl, lots of girls will say shit like "wow why are you even on this app" and shit like that and that will lead them to overthinking and thinking there is something wrong with you being on those apps even tho they are themselves.

matches mean legit nothing as chads like @Amnesia and @edodalic29 say and also in my own experience, i can have a thousand messages saying wow you look like a model or complimenting me but half the time they end up just turning into nothing.

it is legit so easy to pull gl girls in clubs , just be good looking + drunk low inhib, dancing and be outgoing , having even a normie social circle and dont be a complete autist. i don't even approach in clubs and i still its light work

 

[ggg.tv🤫]

IG is still better for quality compared to irl you just need to be a chad which should be easy enough

 

[lebronjames23]

IG is still better for quality compared to irl you just need to be a chad which should be easy enough

honestly i have not tried ig too much, i find the convos are relatively dry a lot at the start but if i meet a girl irl it is wayyyy more smooth sailing. but i might try ig maxxing when i get some good pics, my account isnt too bad i have a 1-4 following to followers ratio

 

[Korea]

People have been saying this for the past 8 years, that complaint isn't OLD > IRL

It's the fact that the world is moving towards OLD being the primary way to get pusC.

 

[lebronjames23]

People have been saying this for the past 8 years, that complaint isn't OLD > IRL

It's the fact that the world is moving towards OLD being the primary way to get pusC.

i guess it depends on your age

i go out a lot in a uni/college age dominated area and there are a lot of gl girls out. minority of girls i meet have dating apps tbh i think as a whole we just live online too much

 

[Kenickie]

People have been saying this for the past 8 years, that complaint isn't OLD > IRL

It's the fact that the world is moving towards OLD being the primary way to get pusC.

Yup so basically HTN and below have to thirst for landwhales and ugly girls. OLD creates low standards due to hypergamy.

 

[actualunderstander]

100%. You're actually more likely to get a girl on a date or get a girl you like if you talk to girls irl. For men a girl is attracted to more than just looks and your personality can actually come through when you meet them in person which would make them more likely to like than a picture of you on tinder. Also, you break the uncomfortable feeling alot of people have when meeting someone over an app and that causes a lot of women to not meet up with guys unless they find a perfect match , even if you are attractive to them. Irl just works better, you can ask anyone who has had experience in both. You can get prettier girls, you can get a higher percentage of dates, and you can show them a real first impression as opposed to just being judged off a picture.

 

[lebronjames23]

100%. You're actually more likely to get a girl on a date or get a girl you like if you talk to girls irl. For men a girl is attracted to more than just looks and your personality can actually come through when you meet them in person which would make them more likely to like than a picture of you on tinder. Also, you break the uncomfortable feeling alot of people have when meeting someone over an app and that causes a lot of women to not meet up with guys unless they find a perfect match , even if you are attractive to them. Irl just works better, you can ask anyone who has had experience in both. You can get prettier girls, you can get a higher percentage of dates, and you can show them a real first impression as opposed to just being judged off a picture.

Fucking exactly , if you are GL + fun to be around irl it’s legit easy mode and the quality of girls even at a bar is much higher than whores that sit around talking to 150 guys on tinder a day. You said it perfectly

 

[actualunderstander]

Fucking exactly , if you are GL + fun to be around irl it’s legit easy mode and the quality of girls even at a bar is much higher than whores that sit around talking to 150 guys on tinder a day. You said it perfectly

Yep. Irl they only are making one decision and that's if they like you or not, on tinder they have a superficial experience and they have a hundred people messaging her so the way she chooses changes, and it boils it down to a very shallow form of attraction that doesn't equal what it is irl when girls meet or chose a guy. When they chose irl alot of other factors come into play and they can end up crushing on you in a more complete, in depth way.

 

[edodalic29]

online dating is shit mate
I hate texting back and forth and its impossible to seduce women w your eyes and voice if you have those halos , girls are always hot and cold and often forget about you even the next day because you havent established anything through a phone screen unless you get on the phone with her asap


Irl is good as long as you go out to social venues , etc . I dont even approach girls in the gym anymore its such a trash place to approach women . For me the best places where it was made easy for me was a club or bar

 

[Infernal]

Yeah, though thing about being funny witty charming etc is totally blown out of proportion, and im not talking about blackpill stance here

Guys blow it totally more because they feel shitty because they arent funny or smth else rather than bcs they actually arent funny or smth else, they get nervous and it goes to shit

If u are relaxed, certain, good body language and calibrated you will maximise what u could get by a lot in comparison to what people imagine a guy should be like to be cool

This is no great revelation of mine, it was told to me by a guy which sucess I couldnt compare nor could anyone around here prob, but it is tested in field and for example

Few weeks back I met this chick and since situation was ideal I was all funny and cool and all, and she was hooked, then few weeks after we were haning out and environment was pretty shitty, I wasnt really interesting or anything, funny not even close, yet I was calm and was like ok lets see if she now gets disinterested, and yet she was even more hooked even though I was nowhere near that guy she first met

Take of this all what u want

 

[lebronjames23]

online dating is shit mate
I hate texting back and forth and its impossible to seduce women w your eyes and voice if you have those halos , girls are always hot and cold and often forget about you even the next day because you havent established anything through a phone screen unless you get on the phone with her asap


Irl is good as long as you go out to social venues , etc . I dont even approach girls in the gym anymore its such a trash place to approach women . For me the best places where it was made easy for me was a club or bar

100%, online dating is a waste of time just go outside theory

 

[edodalic29]

100%, online dating is a waste of time just go outside theory

Some bitch literally asked where im from and when i told her just liked my message without replying jfl

i unmatched w her cuz what was the point

 

[carnage]

i am fully convinced of this now

the problem we face is women have lots of options just in general from social circle and school, but when we add dating apps its legit unlimited options for them. girls will already have their social circle but then when you add dating apps thats hundreds upon hundreds of extra guys a week trying to fuck them pretty much. even if you are a gl guy it is hard to compete and mtbs will act arrogant to you.

in my experience i have a better chance getting with a 7-8/10 IRL than a fucking 5/10 off a app. another thing with dating apps is it inherently shows lower value than if you met them irl, lots of girls will say shit like "wow why are you even on this app" and shit like that and that will lead them to overthinking and thinking there is something wrong with you being on those apps even tho they are themselves.

matches mean legit nothing as chads like @Amnesia and @edodalic29 say and also in my own experience, i can have a thousand messages saying wow you look like a model or complimenting me but half the time they end up just turning into nothing.

it is legit so easy to pull gl girls in clubs , just be good looking + drunk low inhib, dancing and be outgoing , having even a normie social circle and dont be a complete autist. i don't even approach in clubs and i still its light work

Agreed completely. Sometimes I think I'm worthless due to getting zero to nothing results on apps but IRL girls are showing affection to me at school or social circles.

 

[guilty]

Yup so basically HTN and below have to thirst for landwhales and ugly girls. OLD creates low standards due to hypergamy.

HTN and some height can still get play irl if you know what you’re doing. MTN and below and u get the scraps, ran through ltbs and landwhales

 

[lebronjames23]

HTN and some height can still get play irl if you know what you’re doing. MTN and below and u get the scraps, ran through ltbs and landwhales

Legit htn + tall is mogger status

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

>looksmaxing

 

[user123456]

Legit htn + tall is mogger status

Lifefuel

 

[Swarthy Knight]

Cold approach is way more brootal than dating apps when you factor in the effort and resilience required to be successful. Also not everyone is NT enough to do it

Warm approach/social circle maxing mogs OLD. But not everyone has access to those, since you gotta be around the right ppl

 

[capitulation]

Photos often look worse than real life due to imperfections being less noticeable in person.

You can use intonation and tonality to create a humorous effect IRL.

Women on dating apps get overwhelmed by guys, so they have no time for anyone who isn't a perfect match.

 

[PARISIEN]

YES AMEN TO THAT,

 

[Deleted member 89153]

Subchads will not survive in OLD it's a LAW

 

[Deleted member 30521]

My brother is the typical NT HTN coping with facial hair. He mainly slays mid girls at clubs/bars, parties, or insta.

 

[ferbite666]

I'm a skinny fat MTN with noodle arms and I dont get shit in clubs/bars. Granted I rarely get hard rejections but some niggas on here say that LTNs can slay MTBs in clubs if they're low inhib but i think that's BS.

Plus I dont have a social circle at all and no idea how to get a good attractive mix gender social circle with good ratios if im not in college. I think im fucked

 

[Xangsane]

My brother is the typical NT HTN coping with facial hair. He mainly slays mid girls at clubs/bars, parties, or insta.

his laycount?

 

[Deleted member 30521]

his laycount?

In the 100s apparently. He's low inhibition as hell (drives like a crazy person). He could of course be exaggerating but IDK. (Not particularly close to the guy).

 

[Xangsane]

In the 100s apparently. He's low inhibition as hell (drives like a crazy person). He could of course be exaggerating but IDK. (Not particularly close to the guy).

And even higher than chads?
What are the chads like then?

 

[Deleted member 30521]

And even higher than chads?
What are the chads like then?

It makes sense that HTNs have higher lay counts than your typical chads. They are more starved for validation/to prove themselves.
If you're a genuine chad you get validation daily by merely existing or just by looking at the mirror.

 

[Xangsane]

It makes sense that HTNs have higher lay counts than your typical chads. They are more starved for validation/to prove themselves.
If you're a genuine chad you get validation daily by merely existing or just by looking at the mirror.

JFL I even made a post about it here, and also from what I've seen chads are emotionally picky
They want true love and nothing else, and not just some foid that wants him for his looks alone

 

[Eblan]

JFL I even made a post about it here, and also from what I've seen chads are emotionally picky
They want true love and nothing else, and not just some foid that wants him for his looks alone

As a chad I can confirm

 

[FrenchareMedCucks]

True but doesn't mean IRL is easy for sub HTNs :

- a MTN will be rejected 98 % of time IRL on cold approach, and if he doesn't approach IRL no woman is going to approaching him ( maybe landwhales or femcels on rare occasion )

- You must be at least HTN to get results IRL and then you still have to compete against Chads simping your Girl on Instagram or worse her current Friend with benefits she got pumped and dumped by regularly on Tinder.

- For a reason the bitch will prefer worse looking orbiters from her social circle to you , because of her female friend's pressure it and slut shaming for getting laid by a stranger met in the street so you need strong HTN+ looks to compensate for this.

 

[ThraxxGlo]

how would you even approach them

 

[PsychoH]

i am fully convinced of this now

the problem we face is women have lots of options just in general from social circle and school, but when we add dating apps its legit unlimited options for them. girls will already have their social circle but then when you add dating apps thats hundreds upon hundreds of extra guys a week trying to fuck them pretty much. even if you are a gl guy it is hard to compete and mtbs will act arrogant to you.

in my experience i have a better chance getting with a 7-8/10 IRL than a fucking 5/10 off a app. another thing with dating apps is it inherently shows lower value than if you met them irl, lots of girls will say shit like "wow why are you even on this app" and shit like that and that will lead them to overthinking and thinking there is something wrong with you being on those apps even tho they are themselves.

matches mean legit nothing as chads like @Amnesia and @edodalic29 say and also in my own experience, i can have a thousand messages saying wow you look like a model or complimenting me but half the time they end up just turning into nothing.

it is legit so easy to pull gl girls in clubs , just be good looking + drunk low inhib, dancing and be outgoing , having even a normie social circle and dont be a complete autist. i don't even approach in clubs and i still its light work

based
bump

 

[Nick.Harte]

Cope harder. Dating apps > Real life because the amount of options you have is fucking amazing. You wouldn’t be saying this if you were a good looking dude like 6’7 Tyrone with hazel eyes.

Just put a few pics and order chicks like pizza. You can meet foids that you would’ve probably never ever come across irl had you not installed the app.

You need to maximise your chances by going out irl and also having a good dating profile set up by the time you’ve reached 16/17 years old.

If I was a 6’7 Tyrone, I would just install Yubo, Purp, Tinder, Wizz,Bumble and order snowbunnies like pizza.

Life isn’t hard dawg. It’s simple af but some people aren’t qualified for the game of life.

 

[nofap]

Cope harder. Dating apps > Real life because the amount of options you have is fucking amazing. You wouldn’t be saying this if you were a good looking dude like 6’7 Tyrone with hazel eyes.

Just put a few pics and order chicks like pizza. You can meet foids that you would’ve probably never ever come across irl had you not installed the app.

You need to maximise your chances by going out irl and also having a good dating profile set up by the time you’ve reached 16/17 years old.

If I was a 6’7 Tyrone, I would just install Yubo, Purp, Tinder, Wizz,Bumble and order snowbunnies like pizza.

Life isn’t hard dawg. It’s simple af but some people aren’t qualified for the game of life.

You have no clue what you’re talking about
And op is a proper chadlite

 

[Nick.Harte]

You have no clue what you’re talking about
And op is a proper chadlite

Dating apps >> Real life

 

[FrenchareMedCucks]

Dating apps >> Real life

dating apps won't work if you're not at least true HTN aka > 4.75 PSL, unless you want to date landwhales as a MTN

however IRL isn't easier either, plus you can't shoot your shot 30 times per day everyday like Tinder

definitely OVER for sub HTN in 2024, OLD killed the game in favor of good looking guys in both settings.


I'm MTN myself and never tried OLD except a Beckyfish whose success blackpilled me to oblivion.

I hangout in Bars for two years and last month, thanks to luck a decent 46 MILF asked me out and now I fuck her three times per week. I couldn't catch her attention if she saw my profile online instead of me IRL in the bar.

IRL you can have luck sometimes ( like once per year ) while it's never happening on OLD as you have to compete against too many men.

 

[Nick.Harte]

dating apps won't work if you're not at least true HTN aka > 4.75 PSL, unless you want to date landwhales as a MTN

however IRL isn't easier either, plus you can't shoot your shot 30 times per day everyday like Tinder

definitely OVER for sub HTN in 2024, OLD killed the game in favor of good looking guys in both settings.


I'm MTN myself and never tried OLD except a Beckyfish whose success blackpilled me to oblivion.

I hangout in Bars for two years and last month, thanks to luck a decent 46 MILF asked me out and now I fuck her three times per week. I couldn't catch her attention if she saw my profile online instead of me IRL in the bar.

IRL you can have luck sometimes ( like once per year ) while it's never happening on OLD as you have to compete against too many men.

6’5 and HTN to have a good life.