IRL vs OLD

[spongebob]

IRL I get chad treatment according to guys here. Lots of IOIs and even multiple teachers flirting with me. Girls initiating phsyical contact and multiple girls wanting to cheat on their bf with me.

Online dating I get treated like a subhuman. Very few matches. Low effort. The usual things.

I genuinely never feel enough motivation to talk with girls irl. I just want to be left alone, while on OLD im more open and want to put in more effort

Why is there such a big dissonance?

Stats:
188 dark blonde fit Slav in WE
MTN at best

 

[ltnbrownacnecel]

IRL I get chad treatment according to guys here. Lots of IOIs and even multiple teachers flirting with me. Girls initiating phsyical contact and multiple girls wanting to cheat on their bf with me.

Online dating I get treated like a subhuman. Very few matches. Low effort. The usual things.

I genuinely never feel enough motivation to talk with girls irl. I just want to be left alone, while on OLD im more open and want to put in more effort

Why is there such a big dissonance?

Stats:
188 dark blonde fit Slav in WE
MTN at best

People on this forum act like u will be treated as a subhuman as lmtn.

 

[Foreverbrad]

I get subhuman treatment IRL but I have 200+ tinder matches and can generally get replies and conversations, some want to hook up.

I’d honestly prefer your version as you can just uninstall OLD but you can’t really opt out of real life unless you rope or neetmaxx.

 

[Rater727]

I get subhuman treatment IRL but I have 200+ tinder matches and can generally get replies and conversations, some want to hook up.

I’d honestly prefer your version as you can just uninstall OLD but you can’t really opt out of real life unless you rope or neetmaxx.

why are you crying about being an incel in so many posts if ur slay count is 45

 

[Foreverbrad]

why are you crying about being an incel in so many posts if ur slay count is 45

Because I get subhuman treatment IRL and I haven’t had sex in like two years except for a hooker

 

[Rater727]

Because I get subhuman treatment IRL and I haven’t had sex in like two years except for a hooker

then just get in OLD and get a girl"?

 

[Foreverbrad]

then just get in OLD and get a girl"?

I can’t close dates any more. I think I became too non-NT. Anyway I can’t have sex until after my surgery (shit they don’t tell you about getting Trimax…)

 

[Rater727]

I can’t close dates any more. I think I became too non-NT. Anyway I can’t have sex until after my surgery (shit they don’t tell you about getting Trimax…)

You're not a subhuman nor a LTN if ur slay count is 45 and get hundreds of matches online

you're just a retard

 

[GenerationalAutism]

You're not a subhuman nor a LTN if ur slay count is 45 and get hundreds of matches online

you're just a retard

yeh he sounds retarded

it's also BS tho. no one keeps count until 45. you'd have to legit keep a diary

 

[Foreverbrad]

You're not a subhuman nor a LTN if ur slay count is 45 and get hundreds of matches online

you're just a retard

Slay count is all in the past back when it was easy.
Hundreds of likes, I should clarify - these are roasties.
I have been consistently rated LTN on here without my beard and MTN with it.

yeh he sounds retarded

it's also BS tho. no one keeps count until 45. you'd have to legit keep a diary

I have a spreadsheet JFL.

 

[hypernormie]

Maybe your OLD profile is dog shit.

The barrier to get results irl is much lower than OLD because irl you're dealing with immediate local competition and exist tangibly. On OLD women are Chad chasing so you gotta really dial it in unless you're top tier.

I get results on both but my OLD profile is very intentionally designed.

 

[hypernormie]

yeh he sounds retarded

it's also BS tho. no one keeps count until 45. you'd have to legit keep a diary

Not true, I have a Google doc with all my slays

 

[spongebob]

Maybe your OLD profile is dog shit.

The barrier to get results irl is much lower than OLD because irl you're dealing with immediate local competition and exist tangibly. On OLD women are Chad chasing so you gotta really dial it in unless you're top tier.

I get results on both but my OLD profile is very intentionally designed.

My OLD profile is top tier. But still. It showsh high value.

I think girls swipe 99% left thats why. IRL they cant control their attraction as much probably. Maybe im personalitymaxxed.

 

[hypernormie]

My OLD profile is top tier. But still. It showsh high value.

I think girls swipe 99% left thats why. IRL they cant control their attraction as much probably. Maybe im personalitymaxxed.

They Chad chase on OLD so maybe you just don't meet the cut off

But also it's really hard to tell without seeing the profile

You could very well be personality maxxed, aura is a huge determinant irl

 

[Aryan Incel]

Nice

 

[Big Daddy]

You arent getting shit if you have to consider online to get laid

Also lol at "according to guys here"

 

[PrettyLights]

IRL they cant control their attraction as much probably.

what do you mean by that

multiple girls wanting to cheat on their bf with me.

@hypernormie does that this actually happen to guys of similar to caliber of this ?

 

[hypernormie]

@hypernormie does that this actually happen to guys of similar to caliber of this ?

It's not hard to get girls to cheat irl from my experience if you have good personality and social circle it's even easier

Bare minimum to start getting that is HMTN imo depending on other factors

My boy who is 5'8 HMTN-LHTN just had a mtb coworker cheat on her bf with him

 

[hypernormie]

@hypernormie does that this actually happen to guys of similar to caliber of this ?

The more familiar you are with a chick the easier it is to get her to cheat as long as you are keeping a strong sexual polarity in the interaction

Getting random girls you aren't very familiar with to spontaneously cheat is relegated to HTN+ outside of party environments

 

[PrettyLights]

My boy who is 5'8 HMTN-LHTN just had a mtb coworker cheat on her bf with him

great news tbh. how long did it take to go from talking/texting to the actual affair ?

The more familiar you are with a chick the easier it is to get her to cheat as long as you are keeping a strong sexual polarity in the interaction

Getting random girls you aren't very familiar with to spontaneously cheat is relegated to HTN+ outside of party environments

when guys wives are eying you like a piece of meat, in front of their children and husband, does that fit within the spontaneous cheating you speak of ?

 

[hypernormie]

great news tbh. how long did it take to go from talking/texting to the actual affair ?

It was a job he just started working at so like 2 months

when guys wives are eying you like a piece of meat, in front of their children and husband, does that fit within the spontaneous cheating you speak of ?

Yeah but women like that are more likely to be generally dissatisfied and so they aren't necessarily looking for the best option more than a better option and many young for guys are going to fulfill without being necessarily peak attractiveness

That was more to what I was insinuating with my last point that cheating can often be more about familiarity than SMV and often it has more to do with the status of the chicks relationship than with the quality of the man

Still this is something that would be far more common among HMTN+

 

[hypernormie]

@PrettyLights what's so funny?

 

[PrettyLights]

@PrettyLights what's so funny?

just an old habit of mine, its nothing bro, you're good. it was a nice read

 

[Whatever]

I used to feel like there was a difference or dissonance until I put up clearer pictures showing my face and no frauding. And then I started matching with the exact same types of girls that I used to hang out with in college. And the first girl to ever seriously initiate me with on an app, she invited me over at 2:00 am, was like this clone mix of these 2 girls I had flings with in college. Pheno, personality, life stage was all the same. And this is 10 years apart.

So I’d say the number of matches you get is your mass appeal whereas the particular girls who match and initiate is your niche appeal.