Is anyone feeling insecure ?

[roxycodone]

Multiple foids have asked me out thru IG/OLD through the years but I have a slight insecurity that I don't look how I look in pics, even though they are not frauded in any way. I got the abused dog syndrome too cuz I was heavily bullied because of my looks in hs .
Over

 

[Deleted member 83666]

I’m insecure but no girl has ever asked me out

 

[roxycodone]

I’m insecure but no girl has ever asked me out

Being a mentalcel is the most brutal thing in the universe. Jfl at being so mentally unwell that you don't even have the balls to meet foids

 

[roxycodone]

Bump

 

[dipenhydramine]

i dont want to go outside i always feel the urge to cover my face

 

[Deleted member 77954]

Very insecure

 

[oily703]

Being a mentalcel is the most brutal thing in the universe. Jfl at being so mentally unwell that you don't even have the balls to meet foids

being a mentalcel is much better in my opinion
at least you can kind of fix the underlying issue which is your shit brain chemestry

 

[roxycodone]

being a mentalcel is much better in my opinion
at least you can kind of fix the underlying issue which is your shit brain chemestry

You really can't, trust me I've tried a lot of methods (besides going to a psychologist/psychiatrist), none worked, only one that kinda worked was pretty much ignoring it all (not looking in the mirror that often, maybe like once before going out to make sure I looked decent).

It's much more complicated imo because I like what I see in the mirror, I don't see myself as a truecel or subhuman, but I don't like seeing myself at the same time. Pretty hard to put it in words

 

[roxycodone]

It's eating me from the inside that I can pretty easily secure dates with foids but I'm so so so high inhib that I don't have the balls to meet them

 

[roxycodone]

Very insecure

Same.

 

[deadstock]

Beyond over for u. Sorry, chad

 

[oily703]

You really can't, trust me I've tried a lot of methods, besides going to a psychologist/psychiatrist, none worked, only one that kinda worked was pretty much ignoring it all (not looking in the mirror that often, maybe like once before going out to make sure I looked decent).

It's much more complicated imo because I like what I see in the mirror, I don't see myself as a truecel or subhuman, but I don't like seeing myself at the same time. Pretty hard to put it in words

i know what you feel bhai
stop thinking in blackpill
think in normie
what helped me was realising that the lower the iq the happier
think "oh if i can get bitches i must be good looking" and leave it at that

 

[roxycodone]

Beyond over for u. Sorry, chad

Trust me I'm not a chad in any way, most of my life I've been a tall obese borderline ltn, but I've lost the weight and had the luck to have a decent bone structure which pushed me into low htn range.

 

[roxycodone]

i know what you feel bhai
stop thinking in blackpill
think in normie
what helped me was realising that the lower the iq the happier
think "oh if i can get bitches i must be good looking" and leave it at that

Unironically solid advice, thank you
But isn't it similar to what I've said tho? Ignoring it all basically.

I've become so blackpilled that I don't think that I can ignore it that easily, it's much much much harder to ignore since I've felt it first hand, not just witnessing it irl/online

 

[oily703]

Unironically solid advice, thank you
But isn't it similar to what I've said tho? Ignoring it all basically.

I've become so blackpilled that I don't think that I can ignore it that easily, it's much much much harder to ignore since I've felt it first hand, not just witnessing it irl/online

i reckon ignoring it suppresses the issue more
of course doing what ive said is going to surpress it also but it seems like the best of the 2 options
fixing that mentality isnt easy bhai
at what age did the blackill fester into your brain?

 

[roxycodone]

at what age did the blackill fester into your brain?

At 14 I think, felt it first time when I asked a girl out and she rejected me and went online and looked up some shit that directed me to pick up artists

But it became worse when I managed to look like a human at 16-18 and witnessed how different I was treated compared to when I was a fat fuck.

 

[noodlelover]

You weren't bullied enough tbh.

 

[oily703]

At 14 I think, felt it first time when I asked a girl out and she rejected me and went online and looked up some shit that directed me to pick up artists

But it became worse when I managed to look like a human at 16-18 and witnessed how different I was treated compared to when I was a fat fuck.

thats fucked
but i had a similar experience
i was also fat fuck growing up but i dealt with my abused dog syndrome by viewing it as a good thing
i view it as "now i can do what i want"
i accept that the world is shit but i get to reap the benefits
also by overthinking less i tend to do these easier
of course thats hard to do but thats what it takes