is beeing a 'simp' im a relationship actually bad?

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not being a literal cuck more like both of you caring alot for eachother, is that a turn off for the girl tbh? Like making her breakfast, massage, helping her out etc.?
 
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Nah just don’t do it too much
 
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Chris brown kept beating Rihanna in their relationship. When he stopped doing that and started apologising, she left him.
 
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Chris brown kept beating Rihanna in their relationship. When he stopped doing that and started apologising, she left him.
I know about that shit, but Rihana was a ghetto black hoe, black girls are a different scum
 
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Everything in modern to be honest.
Don’t be doing fucking everything for her and going out of your way

The small stuff counts way more the less you do it
 
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Everything in modern to be honest.
Don’t be doing fucking everything for her and going out of your way

The small stuff counts way more the less you do it
when you love someone you want to care for them the whole time, shit is brutal
 
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In a normal sane world no, but in our clown insane world it turns foids off because they rather be treated like trash so they can complain about how all men are trash.
 
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In a normal sane world no, but in our clown insane world it turns foids off because they rather be treated like trash so they can complain about how all men are trash.
im talking about a virgin shy girl tbh
 
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not being a literal cuck more like both of you caring alot for eachother, is that a turn off for the girl tbh? Like making her breakfast, massage, helping her out etc.?
its fine but don't fuckin go overboard she should be making you breakfast+ givbing you massages
 
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yes it is, test it out yourself if you think its not
 
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when you love someone you want to care for them the whole time, shit is brutal
One thing I agree with u on most users are incapable of getting this they just say don’t be a beta bro
 
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One thing I agree with u on most users are incapable of getting this they just say don’t be a beta bro
tbh, everyone is a low inhib mgtow wannabe until he gets into a relationship with a cute virgin gf
 
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not being a literal cuck more like both of you caring alot for eachother, is that a turn off for the girl tbh? Like making her breakfast, massage, helping her out etc.?
yes. over if you're not making your girlfriend cry about you every night and getting messages like I did from my ex
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not being a literal cuck more like both of you caring alot for eachother, is that a turn off for the girl tbh? Like making her breakfast, massage, helping her out etc.?
i just re read. I mean if you want to be sweet w ha and shit then you should do it. y'all will break up some day anyway so it don't matter. might as well make yall relationship cute while it last
 
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yes. over if you're not making your girlfriend cry about you every night and getting messages like I did from my exView attachment 710094
idk tbh, i don't message her frequently at all, like once in half an hour. I think it's enough
 
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i just re read. I mean if you want to be sweet w ha and shit then you should do it. y'all will break up some day anyway so it don't matter. might as well make yall relationship cute while it last
doesn't mean it, there are quite a few couples that stayed for life tbh
 
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idk tbh, i don't message her frequently at all, like once in half an hour. I think it's enough
i was just toxic and used her breakdowns as entertainment. be cute w your virgin gf, like I said might as well make it cute instead of constantly fighting and shit
 
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idk bro tbh. This is from what I have heard from someone here (forgot who it is) u have to punish ur gf when she does something bad, and congratulate her when she does something good.
 
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idk bro tbh. This is from what I have heard from someone here (forgot who it is) u have to punish ur gf when she does something bad, and congratulate her when she does something good.
how to punish her tbh?
 
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ignore her? I don't recommend beating her up cuz she might report if its too much..
i already dis the ignoring part tbh and she cried 3 timea cause of it ngl
 
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redpilled but legit
 
only do it if the girl earns it

you can do nice shit for your gf if it doesnt come off needy or low status
 
Caring and showing kindness to your significant other isn’t necessarily simping. Granted, as long as she shows you some in return.
 
tbh, everyone is a low inhib mgtow wannabe until he gets into a relationship with a cute virgin gf
indeed if shes a virgin go marry her akhi
 
If it's a legit relationship it's very normal to do those things

As long as she's also doing those sorts of things for you then it's all good
 
The only thing you need to ask yourself is whether or not you are both equally contributing to each other. It has to be 50/50. If she gives more than she receives, unless she does so because she is super into you, it's not going to last. And if you give more than you receive, then that's also bad because even if it does not lead to a breakup, it's not a healthy relationship.

The definition of a simp is: A man who puts women on the pedestal and treats them like queens because he believes that he is worth less than they are, so he does whatever she tells him without expecting anything in return and he doesn't even make sure that his needs are indeed fulfilled. So a simp is basically a slave because he gives her lots of time and money while getting nothing back in return. It's not difficult to not be a simp, you just have to be confident enough to make sure that your needs are fulfilled and to not give her more than you get back.

Also, TRP's idea of dominating women in a relationship can only lead to disaster unless it's a consensual power exchange, but never bring up the idea to a girl, you'll just scare her away.

Also, most women don't get a kick out of cucking men, the only time that a guy can get cucked is if it was agreed beforehand because the very definition of a cuckold is: a guy who watches another man fuck his girlfriend (or wife) and does nothing about it. If a girl cheats on you, she didn't cuck you, she just cheated. You can only say she cucked you if she made you watch her fuck another guy. So, the only real cuckolds are guys who are okay with the idea and told their wife before she did it. And you may wonder why some guys are okay with being a cuck and it's because it turns them on, it's a fetish like any other. Having fetishes is fine as long as it remains consensual.
 

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