is being a genuinely a good dude a looksmin?

[nosemaxxing]

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[fuggg]

if youre gl its a looksmax
if you are ugly its a looksmin

this applies to most questions about whether an action is a max or min

 

[joeveniro]

Yeah. As good looking dude if i treat a woman like a human being they quickly lose interest. It doesnt matter if you are 8PSl, women like to be treated as dogs.

 

[nosemaxxing]

if youre gl its a looksmax
if you are ugly its a looksmin

this applies to most questions about whether an action is a max or min

this.

 

[Lawton88]

Yeah. As good looking dude if i treat a woman like a human being they quickly lose interest. It doesnt matter if you are 8PSl, women like to be treated as dogs.

Some truth to that as many females can't stand a guy (even a good looking one) that is nice to them all the time. It shows weakness to them.

 

[one job away]

if youre gl its a looksmax
if you are ugly its a looksmin

this applies to most questions about whether an action is a max or min

No. If yourself ugly you HAVE to be nice. People have no other reason to stay with you otherwise.

the only question is if being nice if you are gl is good or bad.

 

[randomuser2407]

Being altruistic isn't going to make women want to have sex with you, and it isn't going to give you more money, but if it makes you happy, it's not a bad thing.

The problem is when guys do altruistic things in the hopes of getting something in return and then they lose their mind when they don't get what they want. That is what we call a nice guy. He isn't really nice, but only pretends to be, in the hopes that his good deeds will get him the women that he wants.

The same thing goes for relationships, never give more than you receive, you don't have to be obsessive about it, but you always need to make sure that you are at least equal, otherwise you will get screwed over, either she will cheat on you, or she will just stop respecting you, and if she is the one who is giving too much, then it can also damage the relationship but at least you will still be very respected by her. Many men make the mistake of being submissive to women when they are really horny, or they do it to fulfill a fetish, that is why cuckolding is so common, whether it is consensual or not. And every time men put women on the pedestal, women stop viewing them as equals. So, unless your goal is really to be seen by women as being below them, do not worship them but treat them as equals.

 

[Deleted member 15067]

If you are a good guy as in your submissive and weak then it’s a failo. If your a nice dude as in you are extremely extroverted and get along with everyone with tons of confidence it’s a halo

 

[DivineBeing]

Being altruistic isn't going to make women want to have sex with you, and it isn't going to give you more money, but if it makes you happy, it's not a bad thing.

The problem is when guys do altruistic things in the hopes of getting something in return and then they lose their mind when they don't get what they want. That is what we call a nice guy. He isn't really nice, but only pretends to be, in the hopes that his good deeds will get him the women that he wants.

The same thing goes for relationships, never give more than you receive, you don't have to be obsessive about it, but you always need to make sure that you are at least equal, otherwise you will get screwed over, either she will cheat on you, or she will just stop respecting you, and if she is the one who is giving too much, then it can also damage the relationship but at least you will still be very respected by her. Many men make the mistake of being submissive to women when they are really horny, or they do it to fulfill a fetish, that is why cuckolding is so common, whether it is consensual or not. And every time men put women on the pedestal, women stop viewing them as equals. So, unless your goal is really to be seen by women as being below them, do not worship them but treat them as equals.

dnr

 

[one job away]

If you are a good guy as in your submissive and weak then it’s a failo. If your a nice dude as in you are extremely extroverted and get along with everyone with tons of confidence it’s a halo

Sounds legit

Being altruistic isn't going to make women want to have sex with you, and it isn't going to give you more money, but if it makes you happy, it's not a bad thing.

The problem is when guys do altruistic things in the hopes of getting something in return and then they lose their mind when they don't get what they want. That is what we call a nice guy. He isn't really nice, but only pretends to be, in the hopes that his good deeds will get him the women that he wants.

The same thing goes for relationships, never give more than you receive, you don't have to be obsessive about it, but you always need to make sure that you are at least equal, otherwise you will get screwed over, either she will cheat on you, or she will just stop respecting you, and if she is the one who is giving too much, then it can also damage the relationship but at least you will still be very respected by her. Many men make the mistake of being submissive to women when they are really horny, or they do it to fulfill a fetish, that is why cuckolding is so common, whether it is consensual or not. And every time men put women on the pedestal, women stop viewing them as equals. So, unless your goal is really to be seen by women as being below them, do not worship them but treat them as equals.

I think that way of thinking is retarded. Typical redpill bs. Ofc I want something in return when I’m nice.

 

[Deleted member 1140]

No. If yourself ugly you HAVE to be nice. People have no other reason to stay with you otherwise.

the only question is if being nice if you are gl is good or bad.

be nice to guys, be an ass to girls

if u are nice to everyone = cuck
if you are bad to everyone = 0 social circle apart from some autists who dont care

 

[randomuser2407]

No. If yourself ugly you HAVE to be nice. People have no other reason to stay with you otherwise. You HAVE to be funny or have otherwise interesting character traits.
Being good looking is enormous for people to wanna hang out with you but if you don’t have looks you need to be cool to hang around.

the only question is if being nice if you are gl is good or bad.

That is how men become cuckolds.

Being nice will not save a lack of physical appearance. For the men who aren't viewed as widely attractive by women, their only option aside from improving their looks, is to date someone who is attracted to them, and that means that they must lower their standards.

Fat men can usually only attract fat women. And men who are average looking or below but with a skinny or skinny fat physique can usualy only attract the women who are average or below average in looks but they don't need to be fat.

So the men who struggle the most to get a girlfriend who is physically attracted to them are those who are the fattest, not those who have the least attractive face (unless we're talking about those who are disfigured beyond repair).

 

[one job away]

That is how men become cuckolds.

Being nice will not save a lack of physical appearance. For the men who aren't viewed as widely attractive by women, their only option aside from improving their looks, is to date someone who is attracted to them, and that means that they must lower their standards.

Fat men can usually only attract fat women. And men who are average looking or below but with a skinny or skinny fat physique can usualy only attract the women who are average or below average in looks but they don't need to be fat.

So the men who struggle the most to get a girlfriend who is physically attracted to them are those who are the fattest, not those who have the least attractive face (unless we're talking about those who are disfigured beyond repair).

edited: man idk. Too much thinking. I haven’t figured it out and yet lack an good take on this.

 

[randomuser2407]

Sounds legit

I think that way of thinking is retarded. Typical redpill bs. Ofc I want something in return when I’m nice.

My point is that being nice isn't a substitute for being physically attractive. And when I say nice, I mean being nice beyond what is viewed as normal. I'm not saying that you need to be an asshole, but I'm saying that instead of following the basic romcom advice of being a paying simp who buys women flowers and showers them with gifts, you just need to look good and treat women the same way as they treat you, and nothing more, and if you do that, then they will view you as an equal.

Treating women like shit doesn't make them more attracted to you, the misconception probably comes from the fact that when a woman has a crush on you, she will tolerate much more bad behaviour, but it's not because she likes it, it's because she is infatuated by you.

 

[oatmeal]

edited: man idk. Too much thinking. I haven’t figured it out and yet lack an good take on this.

ngl i have a personality where i am very nice to everyone and such, mostly leftover from being pretty ugly when i was like 10 years old and such.

and i still live with it today, though nowadays it manifests in mostly apathy toward a lot of things. tbh it isn't that bad really, because i don't tend to land in fights or such very often. that's just how things are.

 

[loksr]

Yeah. As good looking dude if i treat a woman like a human being they quickly lose interest. It doesnt matter if you are 8PSl, women like to be treated as dogs.

not reality
larp or you're confusing "being nice" with "being a doormat," very different things

 

[one job away]

ngl i have a personality where i am very nice to everyone and such, mostly leftover from being pretty ugly when i was like 10 years old and such.

and i still live with it today, though nowadays it manifests in mostly apathy toward a lot of things. tbh it isn't that bad really, because i don't tend to land in fights or such very often. that's just how things are.

Exact same issue for me

 

[Deleted member 16989]

Some truth to that as many females can't stand a guy (even a good looking one) that is nice to them all the time. It shows weakness to them.

The nice guy they hate are simps. You need to be nice guy that has high confidence and guy that can make them laugh + not sucking their dicks.. . Not an desperate incel that will do everything for them.

 

[Unmoggablegingercel]

Being altruistic isn't going to make women want to have sex with you, and it isn't going to give you more money, but if it makes you happy, it's not a bad thing.

The problem is when guys do altruistic things in the hopes of getting something in return and then they lose their mind when they don't get what they want. That is what we call a nice guy. He isn't really nice, but only pretends to be, in the hopes that his good deeds will get him the women that he wants.

The same thing goes for relationships, never give more than you receive, you don't have to be obsessive about it, but you always need to make sure that you are at least equal, otherwise you will get screwed over, either she will cheat on you, or she will just stop respecting you, and if she is the one who is giving too much, then it can also damage the relationship but at least you will still be very respected by her. Many men make the mistake of being submissive to women when they are really horny, or they do it to fulfill a fetish, that is why cuckolding is so common, whether it is consensual or not. And every time men put women on the pedestal, women stop viewing them as equals. So, unless your goal is really to be seen by women as being below them, do not worship them but treat them as equals.

Giga high iq tbh

 

[randomuser2407]

Yeah. As good looking dude if i treat a woman like a human being they quickly lose interest. It doesnt matter if you are 8PSl, women like to be treated as dogs.

The main thing that you need to keep in mind is that unlike what you may have been taught by Disney movies or traditions, women don't like to be worshipped, and most of the time, they want you to make the decisions, so they want to be lead. You need to make the first move every single time otherwise the interaction will never progress past your first encounter most of the time.

Also, you have to be able to detect when women are trying to play with your emotions to manipulate you, because they do it subconsciously when in a fight. Men are the best at fighting physically, but women are the best at fighting emotionally and psychologically and you can't just ignore it if you are in a relationship, so you have to learn to deal with it and reason with her on her emotional level, instead of using too much logic. That is what most men never understand and it is why many couples fight a lot and struggle to resolve their issues, because men try to use logic, as if they were having a debate with one of their mates, but that doesn't work on women.

 

[Deleted member 16989]

dnr

He is right. yOU Should learn from him.

 

[Deleted member 9819]

yes

 

[Tonymontana]

No.

Being a genuinely kind, and warmhearted person is a massive personality halo. Its just that most people fake kindness to be accepted, but with time reveal how actually sadistic and selfish they are.

But a genuinely good person who has real compassion for others? Thats rare as fuck, and universally attractive. Those are the people who develop deep bonds, and life long relationships

 

[Tusseleif]

Do not care. If she wants me to behave like an asshole then she can fuck off. I like to be nice and respectful to people, that’s how I am. Besides, it’s all about face anyway