Is being fit or just not being high BMI the great equalizer?

[Areuready]

Honest to god wondering this. I see fat people with fat people. even i cant say no ones talked to me because even on tinder it was a bit thicc girls to a bit fat girls. The girls that have asked me out or shown interest where always around the same BMI as me meaning over weight or near obesity. Yet when i observe i notice its the same everywhere. heavier people are with heavier people NO MATTER their success. I go to LA and NYC frequently for work and even people with LARGE incomes, if they are large they have a heavier partner. Especially in those cities you go from being a tiny bit heavier to really standing out as out of shape.
I've had some fit girls comment on my height recently. Tell me i have a good work ID photo, tell me "I really know how to talk to people" even take selfies with me. Yet I was too shy to really pursue or assume anything because of my size atm.

Has ANY of the fitcels on here not been complete spergs? I hear horror stories of gymcels, gymaxxing but still can't even make friends or connections and still being an outcast because of their "looks" and i'm really banking on the fact their brains are just so warped they're mentalcels. I really think if you have a decent body and low bmi you're at least competitive.

 

[Lawton88]

Honest to god wondering this. I see fat people with fat people. even i cant say no ones talked to me because even on tinder it was a bit thicc girls to a bit fat girls. The girls that have asked me out or shown interest where always around the same BMI as me meaning over weight or near obesity. Yet when i observe i notice its the same everywhere. heavier people are with heavier people NO MATTER their success. I go to LA and NYC frequently for work and even people with LARGE incomes, if they are large they have a heavier partner. Especially in those cities you go from being a tiny bit heavier to really standing out as out of shape.
I've had some fit girls comment on my height recently. Tell me i have a good work ID photo, tell me "I really know how to talk to people" even take selfies with me. Yet I was too shy to really pursue or assume anything because of my size atm.

Has ANY of the fitcels on here not been complete spergs? I hear horror stories of gymcels, gymaxxing but still can't even make friends or connections and still being an outcast because of their "looks" and i'm really banking on the fact their brains are just so warped they're mentalcels. I really think if you have a decent body and low bmi you're at least competitive.

I see a lot of overweight females with non-fat in shape guys in my area. Many say they refuse to date fat guys despite being fat themselves

 

[MoggerGaston]

Fat girls have the same SMV as normal-weight men.

 

[Lawton88]

Fat girls have the same SMV as normal-weight men.

You might even argue more SMV as a fit 5/10 face male not over 6 foot has hardly any SMV today.

 

[loksr]

Women are obsessed with dating their looksmatch.
Guys here don’t tend to know that, for obvious reasons.

 

[noodlelover]

If you have money (enough of it), then you can date your looks match as a guy. Otherwise you have to date down.

 

[Deleted member 20781]

Fat girls have the same SMV as normal-weight men.

bruh who are we kidding they have the same SMV as chadlites

 

[Deleted member 20781]

Women are obsessed with dating their looksmatch.
Guys here don’t tend to know that, for obvious reasons.

Women might like dating their looksmatch but a lot of women do date up. Women also love to fuck up they fuck dudes out of their league dating wise because the dude is like why not

 

[Areuready]

If you have money (enough of it), then you can date your looks match as a guy. Otherwise you have to date down.

Then why did a coworker compliment me on my work ID and comment on my height?

 

[loksr]

Women might like dating their looksmatch but a lot of women do date up. Women also love to fuck up they fuck dudes out of their league dating wise because the dude is like why not

Outlier situations generally
also nobody is autistic about ratings in the real world so even if one slightly mogs the other it’s not really dating up

ONS up isn’t rare though, because a ONS is the female equivalent of a betabuxx

 

[noodlelover]

Then why did a coworker compliment me on my work ID and comment on my height?

Mind reading women is hard enough, but mind reading women I've never met and didn't hear them say something is impossible.

She could be attracted to you. What I said is a general rule, but there are always exceptions to every pattern involving people.

She could be a nice person that likes to make others feel good, especially when she can sense that person has low confidence.

She could be wanting some one big in the office that's on her side. Women are masters of games of status and politics.

She may want you to believe she likes you because she has an addiction to validation and wants to see you chase her. This sometimes occurs in women who have deep childhood trauma and needs for validation from others, which would also be why she puts effort into her fitness and likely into her appearance. These women will still only date the hottest guys, but they'll take validation from any guy that's not creepy/weird and looks "good enough".

I've seen all of this behavior in women, with sometimes multiple overlapping reasons for why they do things.

 

[Deleted member 22705]

Women are obsessed with dating their looksmatch.
Guys here don’t tend to know that, for obvious reasons.

Women always try to date up and generally even ugly women consider themselves pretty. They only go for their looks matches after being rejected, abused or tortured by those above them.

 

[zharupodrugu]

Fat girls have the same SMV as normal-weight men.

Idk Ive seen fat women on dating apps. Most of them pretty desperate and trying to overcompensate with personality and jestermaxxing

 

[MoggerGaston]

Idk Ive seen fat women on dating apps. Most of them pretty desperate and trying to overcompensate with personality and jestermaxxing

I must be too ugly to have fat chicks jestermax for me. Brutal

 

[loksr]

Women always try to date up and generally even ugly women consider themselves pretty. They only go for their looks matches after being rejected, abused or tortured by those above them.

fam your username is "reallyuglyincel1" I wouldn't try to give advice on female behavior if I were you

I promise you, how I told you they work is exactly how they work.
they are more obsessed with the idea of a looksmatch than you will EVER be and they sort EVERYTHING in this world based on how it looks relative to others, their brains are nothing like your brain. It has nothing to do with rejection, it's an innate biological instinct.

your number #1 issue is you're still at the stage where you listen to what they say instead of looking at what they do. No, ugly women don't consider themselves pretty, ugly women call themselves pretty on twitter and then they go stand in front of the mirror and cry. Massive difference. There's a reason you notice when a subhuman girl is with a chad, that's because it's an outlier situation, it's of note because it's so uncommon. The vast majority of relationships are looksmatched. Remember, the majority of women are not naturally ambitious like men are, this idea of rising above your lot in life and always going for better and better things is inherently an extremely male mindset, and you're applying it to women, which is wrong.

Women know better than any of us, including me and you, where everyone's place in the world is. And they autistically adhere to that shit, I'm telling you, they're ranking you, themselves, and everyone else they know in order of appearance. Even in their friend groups they have hierarchies based on looks.

 

[kalefartbomb]

Fat women can get sex on demand as we know here, but they can't get commitment and affection from decent men, so they end up having to date fat desperate men. They are always unhappy with each other but feel stuck together since neither has alternatives relationship-wise. I know of 2 couples like this in my acquaintance circle. A lot of fat women stuck in these relationships go "poly", a lot experiment with bisexuality. A lot of the woke left bullshit comes from these types of ugly dissatisfied women.

 

[chadison]

fam your username is "reallyuglyincel1" I wouldn't try to give advice on female behavior if I were you

I promise you, how I told you they work is exactly how they work.
they are more obsessed with the idea of a looksmatch than you will EVER be and they sort EVERYTHING in this world based on how it looks relative to others, their brains are nothing like your brain. It has nothing to do with rejection, it's an innate biological instinct.

your number #1 issue is you're still at the stage where you listen to what they say instead of looking at what they do. No, ugly women don't consider themselves pretty, ugly women call themselves pretty on twitter and then they go stand in front of the mirror and cry. Massive difference. There's a reason you notice when a subhuman girl is with a chad, that's because it's an outlier situation, it's of note because it's so uncommon. The vast majority of relationships are looksmatched. Remember, the majority of women are not naturally ambitious like men are, this idea of rising above your lot in life and always going for better and better things is inherently an extremely male mindset, and you're applying it to women, which is wrong.

Women know better than any of us, including me and you, where everyone's place in the world is. And they autistically adhere to that shit, I'm telling you, they're ranking you, themselves, and everyone else they know in order of appearance. Even in their friend groups they have hierarchies based on looks.

Very accurate, actually.

 

[Johnnybegood]

The vast majority of relationships are looksmatched. Remember, the majority of women are not naturally ambitious like men are, this idea of rising above your lot in life and always going for better and better things is inherently an extremely male mindset, and you're applying it to women, which is wrong.

Women know better than any of us, including me and you, where everyone's place in the world is. And they autistically adhere to that shit, I'm telling you, they're ranking you, themselves, and everyone else they know in order of appearance. Even in their friend groups they have hierarchies based on looks.

I remember as a kid not understanding why guys would talk about conquering the world and women would just stand idly by looking at guys and being all cute. It was a time where guys would do sports and try to be the superstars just to get women's attention.

Women only seemed to care about love and sex while guys would care about a lot more stuff like empires, money, sports, kingship etc It was infuriating for me becuse the world seemed to me an ocean of possibilities and everytime i would talk with them they only seemed to care about my eyes or my "emotional state" WTF!?? I've learned to accept this fact and move on.

Also the idea you cannot be vulnerable around women and tell them your insecurities was also something i learned this is why true male friends is so important for male mental wellbeing...places like this forum are a GODSENT