is girls liking your personality is even a thing ?

[kisuke]

was having this discussion with a member earlier . we all know about the halo effect and how people perceive your personality depending on how you look ( shy and ugly = awkward and weird , shy and gl = mysterious ) but then do girls even like your personality or the mask wearing it ? the first step to any genuine romantic interaction is physical attraction , without physical attraction , there won't be anything else 99% of the time ( unless u got money or status ) . so if she's not at least a little attracted to you she won't even give your personality a chance , so does that mean that she will ever care about it ? if the most important factor in a girl trying to get to know your personality is your appearance , will it ever matter at all ? feel like it's kinda water but i want your thoughts because he was arguing personality was as important as appearance

 

[ToryToad]

No,it is not

 

[P. Diddy]

Personality can be important, but even that is genetics for the most part.

 

[Hurricane1]

Would you need personality if you looked like this?

 

[kisuke]

Personality can be important, but even that is genetics for the most part.

yea and our personalities in public spaces isn't even really us , we all put on a mask

 

[KKKuroiso]

Fake. Personality is cope unless you have the brain capacity of a toddler

 

[VV62]

If your goodlooking you just need to be NT and low inhib tbh

 

[kisuke]

If your goodlooking you just need to be NT and low inhib tbh

i agree , most people have the same personality anyways , it's rare to stumble accross genuinely unique people