is girls liking your personality is even a thing ?

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was having this discussion with a member earlier . we all know about the halo effect and how people perceive your personality depending on how you look ( shy and ugly = awkward and weird , shy and gl = mysterious ) but then do girls even like your personality or the mask wearing it ? the first step to any genuine romantic interaction is physical attraction , without physical attraction , there won't be anything else 99% of the time ( unless u got money or status ) . so if she's not at least a little attracted to you she won't even give your personality a chance , so does that mean that she will ever care about it ? if the most important factor in a girl trying to get to know your personality is your appearance , will it ever matter at all ? feel like it's kinda water but i want your thoughts because he was arguing personality was as important as appearance
 
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No,it is not
 
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Personality can be important, but even that is genetics for the most part.
 
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Would you need personality if you looked like this?
IMG 0095
 
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Personality can be important, but even that is genetics for the most part.
yea and our personalities in public spaces isn't even really us , we all put on a mask
 
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Fake. Personality is cope unless you have the brain capacity of a toddler
 
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If your goodlooking you just need to be NT and low inhib tbh
 
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If your goodlooking you just need to be NT and low inhib tbh
i agree , most people have the same personality anyways , it's rare to stumble accross genuinely unique people
 
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was having this discussion with a member earlier . we all know about the halo effect and how people perceive your personality depending on how you look ( shy and ugly = awkward and weird , shy and gl = mysterious ) but then do girls even like your personality or the mask wearing it ? the first step to any genuine romantic interaction is physical attraction , without physical attraction , there won't be anything else 99% of the time ( unless u got money or status ) . so if she's not at least a little attracted to you she won't even give your personality a chance , so does that mean that she will ever care about it ? if the most important factor in a girl trying to get to know your personality is your appearance , will it ever matter at all ? feel like it's kinda water but i want your thoughts because he was arguing personality was as important as appearance
Only if you’re already good looking
 
yes, as you can see on .com
 
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Nope but they will constantly claim they like you because of your opinions. If they like you without seeing your face it's because they know what it looks like without seeing it, just like they instantly know who is male or female based on how they type.
 
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Yes it is, personality is the final looksmax, tho you need looks for it to work

If you look good you will pull, if you look good and people genuinely like having convos and doing things with you then you will pull even more
 
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jfl they'll like them until they face reveal
Females are strange, they would gladly be fucked by masked abominations
 
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Females are strange, they would gladly be fucked by masked abominations
because they fantasize a chad behind the mask , just like they'll fantasize a good looking guy behind the faceless acount they e date , it's subconscious
 
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because they fantasize a chad behind the mask , just like they'll fantasize a good looking guy behind the faceless acount they e date , it's subconscious
girls like chads and subhumans
Brutal subhuman pill
 
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was having this discussion with a member earlier . we all know about the halo effect and how people perceive your personality depending on how you look ( shy and ugly = awkward and weird , shy and gl = mysterious ) but then do girls even like your personality or the mask wearing it ? the first step to any genuine romantic interaction is physical attraction , without physical attraction , there won't be anything else 99% of the time ( unless u got money or status ) . so if she's not at least a little attracted to you she won't even give your personality a chance , so does that mean that she will ever care about it ? if the most important factor in a girl trying to get to know your personality is your appearance , will it ever matter at all ? feel like it's kinda water but i want your thoughts because he was arguing personality was as important as appearance
bluepill.org
 
Biggest bs of all time
99% of the people have almost the same personality.Personality doesn't even exist
 
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I think it is ... there are lots of weird girls out there who are borderline autists, and they focus on miniscule things like voice, smell or calmness.

Most of them are damaged sluts though
 
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Only if you’re niechemaxxing
 
Personality matters once you meet the looks threshold.

Physical attractiveness serves as the foundation for a relationship and love.
Without physical attractiveness as a man, you can not and will not be loved no matter what.
Personality is the nice adornments and decorations you use to doll yourself up. It turns a desirable man into an obsession.
However, with sufficient looks, you can be an obsession anyways, whereas personality can NEVER make a woman like you on it's own if you do not meet the looks threshold. I would imagine being a white low mtn or ethnic high HTN is required to meet the looks threshold for being loved
 
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Personality does matter, but mainly for long term connection

That long term connection must start with short term attraction

And that short term attraction cannot be generated through pure personality, looks play a big role in that (though it isn't so much abt being super good looking but really just being somebody's physical type)
 
It's all about presentation, personality is one aspect
 
Yeah nigga it is but its not as common as looks. Its never as black and white
 
Only in platonic settings. Forget about attraction.
 

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