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Is being mean looking attractive at all?
Everyone tells me I look mean or always look mad, even my girlfriend. My girlfriend will often tell me how her friends are constantly saying I look mean, and about 2 weeks ago she told me her friend asked if me and her were dating to her, she responded yes and her friend said “oh I was wondering because he doesn’t look like he wants anything with anyone” and then her dad states im too quiet and all this other stuff.
And then I remember one time in my junior year during highschool some black girl told my girlfriend that I looked like a school shooter
I don’t know how I’m supposed to feel about any of these comments though, im not a mean guy I’m actually genuinely chill, really.
I just happen to be quiet and look the way I look
How am I supposed to take any of these comments? Is it necessarily even bad?
Everyone tells me I look mean or always look mad, even my girlfriend. My girlfriend will often tell me how her friends are constantly saying I look mean, and about 2 weeks ago she told me her friend asked if me and her were dating to her, she responded yes and her friend said “oh I was wondering because he doesn’t look like he wants anything with anyone” and then her dad states im too quiet and all this other stuff.
And then I remember one time in my junior year during highschool some black girl told my girlfriend that I looked like a school shooter
I don’t know how I’m supposed to feel about any of these comments though, im not a mean guy I’m actually genuinely chill, really.
I just happen to be quiet and look the way I look
How am I supposed to take any of these comments? Is it necessarily even bad?