Is it better to have loser friends or no friends at all?

[JovenCansao]

Just realized my social circle ever since the covid pandemic started and everything went virtual at my uni I kept the friends from there that are mostly the loser type, for example, they have to ask their parents for everything, are extremely religious, weebs and introverted shit like that.

I appreciate them ofc, we've helped each other with uni courses and shit but I feel extremely non nt when I'm with them at the most innocent hangouts like getting food and watching movies jfl

So I was thinking if it would be better to limit my irl interactions with them and instead try to be a loner while trying to make new friends or something like that, try to change my social circle you know

What do you think?

 

[spongebob]

Better to be alone than in bad company. They'll drag you down buddy

 

[JovenCansao]

Better to be alone than in bad company. They'll drag you down buddy

Socially yes, it feels like that.

 

[DharkDC]

Just realized my social circle ever since the covid pandemic started and everything went virtual at my uni I kept the friends from there that are mostly the loser type, for example, they have to ask their parents for everything, are extremely religious, weebs and introverted shit like that.

I appreciate them ofc, we've helped each other with uni courses and shit but I feel extremely non nt when I'm with them at the most innocent hangouts like getting food and watching movies jfl

So I was thinking if it would be better to limit my irl interactions with them and instead try to be a loner while trying to make new friends or something like that, try to change my social circle you know

What do you think?

no cap it's better to ditch em. Only reason u don't have new friends is cause ur too comfortable and don't wanna change it

 

[Deleted member 22063]

most of my friends historically were "loser" friends and i barely talk to them anymore. unless they're very relatable and you can maybe game with them online, it's tiresome. indiscriminately making friends is just creating social obligations for yourself that lead nowhere.

 

[Psychophilly]

you are a cuck if you turn your back against your friends cuz foids. bitches have nothing to do with your friends.

 

[Deleted member 21182]

Just realized my social circle ever since the covid pandemic started and everything went virtual at my uni I kept the friends from there that are mostly the loser type, for example, they have to ask their parents for everything, are extremely religious, weebs and introverted shit like that.

I appreciate them ofc, we've helped each other with uni courses and shit but I feel extremely non nt when I'm with them at the most innocent hangouts like getting food and watching movies jfl

So I was thinking if it would be better to limit my irl interactions with them and instead try to be a loner while trying to make new friends or something like that, try to change my social circle you know

What do you think?

Ur describing the avarage alpha male

 

[Deleted member 21628]

Honestly i dony think ive ever meet those types.. of that severity

How bad is it

 

[saulgoodman]

Just realized my social circle ever since the covid pandemic started and everything went virtual at my uni I kept the friends from there that are mostly the loser type, for example, they have to ask their parents for everything, are extremely religious, weebs and introverted shit like that.

I appreciate them ofc, we've helped each other with uni courses and shit but I feel extremely non nt when I'm with them at the most innocent hangouts like getting food and watching movies jfl

So I was thinking if it would be better to limit my irl interactions with them and instead try to be a loner while trying to make new friends or something like that, try to change my social circle you know

What do you think?

If you are changing for the better but you're friends aren't going down that similar path, then you will slowly split away from your friends naturally

 

[JovenCansao]

you are a cuck if you turn your back against your friends cuz foids. bitches have nothing to do with your friends.

I am not planning on ditching them, just limiting my irl interactions with them because they are always planning the most boring and innocent hangouts that make me look and feel like a giga non nt autist.

Honestly i dony think ive ever meet those types.. of that severity

How bad is it

For example, once we were walking around in the city at night and my friend's parents video called them to verify that they were not at a bar or brothel, or idk, they sounded so mad at them for being outside at like 9pm jfl. My friends are 24-25 yo btw.

Ur describing the avarage alpha male

Wdym?

 

[JovenCansao]

If you are changing for the better but you're friends aren't going down that similar path, then you will slowly split away from your friends naturally

Hopefully I do, we are just so fucking different I don't don't know how we became friends tbh, maybe I behaved like a high tolerance cuck with them or something

 

[LookmaxBlau]

Having no friends is preferable to having ones who don't care about you. I've always wanted friends that genuinely care about me, but everyone I've ever met acts like your buddies do. I usually make an effort to speak with them, but they never seem to notice. The best time to be alone is when you are alone yourself because you can fully visualize who you are as a person.

 

[JovenCansao]

Having no friends is preferable to having ones who don't care about you. I've always wanted friends that genuinely care about me, but everyone I've ever met acts like your buddies do. I usually make an effort to speak with them, but they never seem to notice. The best time to be alone is when you are alone yourself because you can fully visualize who you are as a person.

We do care for each other, what bothers me is that they barely have the freedom or will to do more things

 

[DharkDC]

We do care for each other, what bothers me is that they barely have the freedom or will to do more things

nigga they grown ass men, all they have to do is stand up to their parents or sum shit