Is it even worth InstagramMaxxing if you’re introvert?

[KrissKross]

Ded srs question

 

[GrayEyedBarrett]

Yes if you develop an aesthetic physique and face

 

[Chad69]

MIRIN?

 

[karbo]

calling urself introvert is cope

 

[KrissKross]

calling urself introvert is cope

Jfl how?

 

[ScuffedCel]

if you don't have insta or barely use it, Its Over.

 

[Deleted member 4991]

Nah its not worth it

 

[jackthenerd]

calling urself introvert is cope

Jfl how?

Because being an introvert is mostly cope. It's mostly down to looks (if you're bad looking you get negative social feedback and negative social reinforcement), and other factors such as being more nervous than the average dude, (high in neutoticism). Being afraid. What if they don't like you, what if you aren't funny enough, what if you aren't goodlooking enough.

Obviously some of it is because you're just genetically an "introvert". But that's maybe just 50% of it. The other part is the other stuff mentioned. If you're calling yourself and introvert, it's mostly just your delusion and your ego protecting you. Some people will just say they're insane introverts and HATE being around people, they find it boring, but that is mostly due to negative social reinforcement during childhood, and even after. You got fucked in childhood, so you become an "introvert" and isolate yourself, and then later in adult life you now lack social skills, so you get negative social reinforcement again. Now you're stuck in this loop.

I know redpill advice isn't popular here. But you need to put serious effort into fixing yourself. Get rid of all the nervousness, anxiety, self-doubt. Fix posture, tonality, intonation, body language, fashion, gymmax, stylemaxx, haircutmaxx, fix your sub-communications, etc. As you become more socially calibrated and more funny, interesting, engaging, not cringe, can read social cues etc, you'll get more accepted into society and you'll notice that what you thought was just "introvertism" wasn't actually that.