Is it over?

[dasmeapollo]

16m, 6’1 200lbs, is it over? I mean ive never held hands romantically, never got asked out/for snap, never been crushed on, people treat me weird for just existing, i never have a friend ‘group’ i kinda just flow between them, im always the butt end of the jokes in school, i think im nd but maybe im just confused so that doesnt help, and the only thing i can do rn is gymaxx and grow facial hair to cope with my bad jaw and chin (imo,) is there anything i can do to maybe hypothetically ascend? (Few pictures for reference)

 

[Bananaenjoyer]

You are definitely good looking dude. Girls your age probably don’t like you because you look so damn old for your age. I’d say the biggest things you can do right know would be to shave facial hair (your chin isn’t as bad as you think it is I promise) to look younger and train neck so it doesn’t look so weird for your wide face. You have insane potential, it’s not over

 

[dasmeapollo]

You are definitely good looking dude. Girls your age probably don’t like you because you look so damn old for your age. I’d say the biggest things you can do right know would be to shave facial hair (your chin isn’t as bad as you think it is I promise) to look younger and train neck so it doesn’t look so weird for your wide face. You have insane potential, it’s not over

Its just that my facial hair idk if it is cope but its cope for me kinda repressing my past, and i did some weird and i mean weird things, and it gives me like idek if this makes sense like a new canvas, but i also hated how i look since i was young and bullied since g2-9-1/2 and ever since idk if i can say it like glew up if at all they all started treating me better etc so thats also another reason, im just kinda scared of slicing it off then it looking horrible and im screwed for like 3 months, also id do nothing and they would look at me like i kinda did something horrible but then id catch them staring at me in the halls class and in public so im super duper divided, people say the hair looks good people say i should cut it, facial and hair hair

 

[Bananaenjoyer]

Its just that my facial hair idk if it is cope but its cope for me kinda repressing my past, and i did some weird and i mean weird things, and it gives me like idek if this makes sense like a new canvas, but i also hated how i look since i was young and bullied since g2-9-1/2 and ever since idk if i can say it like glew up if at all they all started treating me better etc so thats also another reason, im just kinda scared of slicing it off then it looking horrible and im screwed for like 3 months, also id do nothing and they would look at me like i kinda did something horrible but then id catch them staring at me in the halls class and in public so im super duper divided, people say the hair looks good people say i should cut it, facial and hair hair

Hey if the hair is a personal thing that’s important to you then by no means should you have to cut it if you will feel uncomfortable. However, you did mention people already look at you differently because of the rest of your glow up, and most important of all, the main reason people would look at you weird is because they see you as who you used to be, regardless of appearance. If you truly have changed as a person and moved on from those things you did and, nobody will look at you as your past self just because of your facial hair. As far as appearances go, I think your hair hair looks great on you. The facial hair, especially sideburns, could do with a trim if you don’t want to chop it all off, but clean shaven would also look great in my opinion. Well wishes to you brother

 

[dasmeapollo]

Hey if the hair is a personal thing that’s important to you then by no means should you have to cut it if you will feel uncomfortable. However, you did mention people already look at you differently because of the rest of your glow up, and most important of all, the main reason people would look at you weird is because they see you as who you used to be, regardless of appearance. If you truly have changed as a person and moved on from those things you did and, nobody will look at you as your past self just because of your facial hair. As far as appearances go, I think your hair hair looks great on you. The facial hair, especially sideburns, could do with a trim if you don’t want to chop it all off, but clean shaven would also look great in my opinion. Well wishes to you brother

You conviced me man its not as bad as i thought it would be, but im not used to the gap that my stache filled, any thoughts?

 

[6’3chadlite]

No it’s not omg, you do look a little too hairy though maybe either cut your hair or trim your facial hair to a minimal
And physique max
You’ll be g

 

[dasmeapollo]

No it’s not omg, you do look a little too hairy though maybe either cut your hair or trim your facial hair to a minimal
And physique max
You’ll be g

Good thing im like 200 leanish benching like 235 for 3 jfl ty tho i sliced the facial hair off, im keeping the long hair tho, no wonder im strong its like samson

 

[Bananaenjoyer]

You conviced me man its not as bad as i thought it would be, but im not used to the gap that my stache filled, any thoughts?

You just used to seeing your old hair don’t worry about it. The stache didn’t look too bad but trust me, from an outside perspective, this is better. Happy you went through wit it

 

[6’3chadlite]

Good thing im like 200 leanish benching like 235 for 3 jfl ty tho i sliced the facial hair off, im keeping the long hair tho, no wonder im strong its like samson

ur long hair gives you unique appeal

 

[zemult]

Average white dude that's 6ft+: Is it over?