Is it possible to successfully date a girl that friendzoned you after looksmaxxing?

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(first post; tread lightly pls)

I asked a girl out and got friendzoned before I started looksmaxxing. The event essentially changed my perspective on dating, etc. So I started gymmaxxing, lost weight, grew taller, etc. over the summer and think I've gotten good results. I had not seen her for months but I started to see her again at school.

Although I'm less interested in her now, I think she is the only girl in my class who's actually worth it; plus, I wanna see if I can actually experience dating before I graduate high school.

Is it possible to come back from the friend-zone after looksmaxxing? I think it would be perhaps the greatest confidence booster ever if you successfully looksmax and get results from someone who friendzoned you.
 
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Hm. I'd say let her come back to you and do not act like if you were desperate to get her. Just be normal and see where it goes.
Don't do the first step tho.
 
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my ego would say no but if you think you should go ahead its definetively possible
 
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this is how she thinks of you:


go for it
 
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Hm. I'd say let her come back to you and do not act like if you were desperate to get her. Just be normal and see where it goes.
Don't do the first step tho.
Gotcha. I think my initial mistake was approaching her and trying too hard before looksmaxxing.
 
this is how she thinks of you:


go for it

if it actually happens tho

Looksmaxx.org is definitely a lifesaver from my own experience
 
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Gotcha. I think my initial mistake was approaching her and trying too hard before looksmaxxing.
I think it is fine to approach a girl if you're confident enough in the way you look, or if she is hinting at it.

But since you've been friendzoned once already, I don't think you can afford to go back and make the first step unless there are hints that make you think otherwise.
 
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go for it but dont seem too desperate
 
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I think it is fine to approach a girl if you're confident enough in the way you look, or if she is hinting at it.

But since you've been friendzoned once already, I don't think you can afford to go back and make the first step unless there are hints that make you think otherwise.
I'll go as normal and try to see if she gives any hints. Initially, I wanted to avoid her as much as possible but now, I talk with her if nothing happened and talk a lot more with other girls. I saw her looking at me a few days ago while we were in class and I made sure to maintain eye contact.

This community has taught me so much
 
(first post; tread lightly pls)

I asked a girl out and got friendzoned before I started looksmaxxing. The event essentially changed my perspective on dating, etc. So I started gymmaxxing, lost weight, grew taller, etc. over the summer and think I've gotten good results. I had not seen her for months but I started to see her again at school.

Although I'm less interested in her now, I think she is the only girl in my class who's actually worth it; plus, I wanna see if I can actually experience dating before I graduate high school.

Is it possible to come back from the friend-zone after looksmaxxing? I think it would be perhaps the greatest confidence booster ever if you successfully looksmax and get results from someone who friendzoned you.
yes
 
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treat her as if you friendzoned her
 
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Worked for me, I got with her but I didn’t ask her out. She did a lot of the work
 
If you accept this you have no dignity. It happened me once and it was not because I looksmaxxed, it was because she actually looksminned and brainminned, she was in a bad place. I said she should go fuck herself.
 
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Thats on you man, if you want to give it a shot go ahead. Good luck OP
 
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(first post; tread lightly pls)

I asked a girl out and got friendzoned before I started looksmaxxing. The event essentially changed my perspective on dating, etc. So I started gymmaxxing, lost weight, grew taller, etc. over the summer and think I've gotten good results. I had not seen her for months but I started to see her again at school.

Although I'm less interested in her now, I think she is the only girl in my class who's actually worth it; plus, I wanna see if I can actually experience dating before I graduate high school.

Is it possible to come back from the friend-zone after looksmaxxing? I think it would be perhaps the greatest confidence booster ever if you successfully looksmax and get results from someone who friendzoned you.
go for it, or not. plenty of fish in the sea
 
If you accept this you have no dignity. It happened me once and it was not because I looksmaxxed, it was because she actually looksminned and brainminned, she was in a bad place. I said she should go fuck herself.
Man has ascended
 
(first post; tread lightly pls)

I asked a girl out and got friendzoned before I started looksmaxxing. The event essentially changed my perspective on dating, etc. So I started gymmaxxing, lost weight, grew taller, etc. over the summer and think I've gotten good results. I had not seen her for months but I started to see her again at school.

Although I'm less interested in her now, I think she is the only girl in my class who's actually worth it; plus, I wanna see if I can actually experience dating before I graduate high school.

Is it possible to come back from the friend-zone after looksmaxxing? I think it would be perhaps the greatest confidence booster ever if you successfully looksmax and get results from someone who friendzoned you.

Definitely, my current gf friendzoned me in 2017 and it was the catalyst for me to get blackpilled and the whole reason I know about looksmaxing jfl.

She then moved across the country and we saw each other only twice over the following 5 years, just as friends. Then last year she texted me out of nowhere and told me she was going to be back in town and that she often thinks about turning me down and regrets it. We fucked within 2 hours of meeting up and then we were dating within a couple of months.

The second time I saw her as friends I had been looksmaxxing for about a year and I found out after the fact that her roommate was crushing on me hard and thought I was hot. My gf would never admit this, but I think it was that validation from her friend that I was attractive that got her to start thinking about me differently.
 
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Definitely, my current gf friendzoned me in 2017 and it was the catalyst for me to get blackpilled and the whole reason I know about looksmaxing jfl.

She then moved across the country and we saw each other only twice over the following 5 years, just as friends. Then last year she texted me out of nowhere and told me she was going to be back in town and that she often thinks about turning me down and regrets it. We fucked within 2 hours of meeting up and then we were dating within a couple of months.

The second time I saw her as friends I had been looksmaxxing for about a year and I found out after the fact that her roommate was crushing on me hard and thought I was hot. My gf would never admit this, but I think it was that validation from her friend that I was attractive that got her to start thinking about me differently.
I feel like women actually would compete for a guy if they knew their friends also liked him. Or at least think of him differently.
 

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