is it really true girls will approach or initiate when they find a guy attractive?

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I’ve yet to ever see or hear about girls approaching men they themselves are attracted to, in all cases it was the guy who made the first move.
I think it’s a myth that girls will make a move for a guy they really like.

muh “chad doesn’t have to message first” :unsure:
 
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@ey88 @BimaxLaser @ihearvoices @Niko. @LTNUser tbh
 
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Sometimes depends on the girls inhib
 
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I’ve yet to ever see or hear about girls approaching men they themselves are attracted to, in all cases it was the guy who made the first move.
I think it’s a myth that girls will make a move for a guy they really like.

muh “chad doesn’t have to message first” :unsure:
Depends, i would say i got approached and still got rejected.

Somewhat approached (she was drunk).
 
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Only in a club/party setting where the girl is lower inhib from drug/alcohol. In normal setting I saw a land whale approaching a rtt chadlite in front of her balding fat bf
 
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Only in a club/party setting where the girl is lower inhib from drug/alcohol. In normal setting I saw a land whale approaching a rtt chadlite in front of her balding fat bf
nah they ask for Instagram and stuff
 
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There are foids who approach but its usually a sign they're whores and also not feminine.
 
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I’ve yet to ever see or hear about girls approaching men they themselves are attracted to, in all cases it was the guy who made the first move.
I think it’s a myth that girls will make a move for a guy they really like.

muh “chad doesn’t have to message first” :unsure:
I used to get aproached by foids in HS acctually :feelshmm:.

It depends in your aura, all the foids that aproached me always said that I look mysterious, I even remember one telling me that she wanted to "decipher" me, I still don't know what that means.

But... I don't live in the west + people here is NT and friendly + my country is pretty ethnic so I kinda have JBW advantage and tbh I would be completely nerfed and brutalized in the west :feelsbadman:
 
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I’ve yet to ever see or hear about girls approaching men they themselves are attracted to, in all cases it was the guy who made the first move.
I think it’s a myth that girls will make a move for a guy they really like.

muh “chad doesn’t have to message first” :unsure:
It’s happened to me like a dozen times and I’m mtn so they do but usually the mid/ ugly ones only
 
Ive been approached by Ethnic women all while i was at University and nust chilling by myself

Even had a pajeet girl approach me while she was with her friends, she told me i had beautiful eyes
 
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@TalesFromTheSlums what do you want bitch
say something stop hiding behind your ugh reacts
pussy ass nigga
 
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Most women are high inhib af when it comes to “approaching” guys, either because of being neurotic/anxious about it (like a lot of men are) or because of the social stigma. They don’t want to be looked at as sluts. Men are supposed to approach women, men pursue women, that’s just how it’s been forever.

So most of them wait for you to take the lead and perform the actual approach (stating attraction, asking for number, etc.) They will still initiate first in SOME WAY to give you the green light to approach them but it’s not direct because women usually want to maintain plausible deniability to save face.

This could mean staring at you and smiling, intentionally putting themselves in your proximity, waving at you, etcetera. As the man you’re supposed to pick up on these signals and then act like a man by going up to her. Unfortunately most people here are autistic retarded abused dogs that are too scared to do that :lul: Myself included
 
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I’ve yet to ever see or hear about girls approaching men they themselves are attracted to, in all cases it was the guy who made the first move.
I think it’s a myth that girls will make a move for a guy they really like.

muh “chad doesn’t have to message first” :unsure:
It happened to me several times, during my teenage years mostly. All were very random and in different scenarios. Also, the matching hypothesis works, and foids like us don't want to get rejected so in all cases they were HTB+ and often times better than what I can get if I approached lol.
 
Yes, its happened to me and I'm HTN on a good day. Its unlikely your looksmatch or a girl who mogs you will approach though. :ROFLMAO:
 
No,in my school,my Chad friend doesn't have to approach anybody,all the girls come to him first
 
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Only in a club/party setting where the girl is lower inhib from drug/alcohol. In normal setting I saw a land whale approaching a rtt chadlite in front of her balding fat bf
No lmao? They will approach in any public setting if they like you. They’ll either get their friends to do it or approach with their friends
 
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I've been unironically approached quite a few times, from high schoolers to middle aged oldcels. So it's true.
(Don't worry, not even one was an actual Stacy though.)

Do women approach as regularly or as much as men? Nope, not even close. Unless you mean indirectly, which they do more frequently. For example, they'll place themselves near you or follow you around. Maybe look at your and smile or something.
 

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