Is it wrong for me to try get this girl back.

[runatsuki]

The backstory

Pretty much met this girl, we hang out on a couple nights out, then after that had a like 3 dates and the last date we had witch was on the 15th of November went amazing, went and got drinks came back to my uni accom watched a Harry Potter and legit we were under a blanket cuddling by the end then after that we just chilled spoke and she ended up leaving at like 2am I walk her back we hug saying goodbye. Then the next day on that Sunday I message saying how I how a good time and shit and she responds back saying the same then we have a convo after that about like studying and locking in. But then Monday my life changes for the worst I message her something then I go to class then I clock she hasn’t responded in like an hour and she normally responds instantly and just thought she had class or something then I get hit with a bomb of a message “
Hey, I really did enjoy hanging out with you, but I dont know if this thing between us would be anything long term and I dont want to lead you on or anything. Im sorry I wasted your time, but i really did like chatting with you.

I also hate to be the person to say it but I would still like to be your friend but I totally understand if that's not something you want.” And I’m like wtf, where did this come from because it was so random, everyone I tell about it is just as baffled as me and majority of the people I asked were girls aswell so, that day I spiral and get absolutely plastered from 1pm then over the next three days I smoked weed every night while drinking end up going to the club on Wednesday and look around and clock that all these girls are chopped ash and I’m way too good for them so I just spend the whole club night just running it for my friend so he can get some girls. But then the previous day I clock I might aswell get hinge and level myself. Got a date next Tuesday aswell and was so close to cracking so girl aswell. But it’s not the end of the story with that girl ibr got a plan.

The plan

Gonna level myself by just speaking to hella girls on hinge for like the next three weeks and see if I can get anymore dates out of it other than the one girl next Tuesday. But at the end of the three weeks gonna message that girl just a casual like “how you been doing, been a minute” because I feel like there’s more to this story and I’m not gonna go down trying. So by then I’ll be levelled asf already have more experience with these other chicks and just come in with hella confidence like I’ve just been fine how things “ended”. I have a feeling I his could work I start of normal and just friendly and she’ll be like damn I really missed talking to this guy so much, maybe I regret how I left things. This whole time I’ll just be chill and pretend that I’m not trying anything and just being friendly.

That’s all for this little rant, if any of you guys actually read give opps and tell me if I’m being a retard

 

[taai]

1. Why she dipped:
She liked you, but something in her gut said “not long-term.” It wasn’t random — she thought about it. It’s not about you being bad; it’s about her not seeing it going further.

2. Your reaction is normal:
You caught feelings → she changed direction → you spiraled. Happens to everyone.

3. Your plan (hinge, level up, message her later):
It sounds smart, but it won’t work the way you think.
If her mind was made up, confidence later won’t suddenly change it.

And she’ll feel it if you’re secretly trying to get her back.

4. The real move:

Date other girls for you, not to make her regret.

Get stable again.

If in a month you genuinely don’t care and want to say “hey, how you been?” for real, go ahead.

But don’t do it as a tactic.


5. Are you being stupid?
No — you’re just hurt and trying to get control back.

If you want, I can give you an even shorter answer or a cleaner plan to follow.

 

[runatsuki]

1. Why she dipped:
She liked you, but something in her gut said “not long-term.” It wasn’t random — she thought about it. It’s not about you being bad; it’s about her not seeing it going further.

2. Your reaction is normal:
You caught feelings → she changed direction → you spiraled. Happens to everyone.

3. Your plan (hinge, level up, message her later):
It sounds smart, but it won’t work the way you think.
If her mind was made up, confidence later won’t suddenly change it.

And she’ll feel it if you’re secretly trying to get her back.

4. The real move:

Date other girls for you, not to make her regret.

Get stable again.

If in a month you genuinely don’t care and want to say “hey, how you been?” for real, go ahead.

But don’t do it as a tactic.


5. Are you being stupid?
No — you’re just hurt and trying to get control back.

If you want, I can give you an even shorter answer or a cleaner plan to follow.

Nah I’m not gonna see other girls to make her regret it’s more to level myself in a way that because I’ll be way more confident after having more experiences and shit if she does see that’s what I’m trying then she gives me a solid answer then sure I can finally be free and have no regrets because I tried and got a solid answer from her but I honestly feel like she could of atleast spoke to me because she did kinda assume my intentions aswell whose to say I didn’t just want to like make this short term could of atleast given us a way to speak about it. But ibr I’m stuck to still trying

 

[taai]

Nah I’m not gonna see other girls to make her regret it’s more to level myself in a way that because I’ll be way more confident after having more experiences and shit if she does see that’s what I’m trying then she gives me a solid answer then sure I can finally be free and have no regrets because I tried and got a solid answer from her but I honestly feel like she could of atleast spoke to me because she did kinda assume my intentions aswell whose to say I didn’t just want to like make this short term could of atleast given us a way to speak about it. But ibr I’m stuck to still trying

Bro, you’re not wrong for how you’re thinking. She dipped early because something in her head told her it wouldn’t go long-term, and instead of talking it out she just assumed your intentions and ended it. That’s why it feels unfinished — you never got the conversation you should’ve had.

Your plan isn’t stupid either. Talking to other girls just to get more experience and confidence is fine. It’s not about making her jealous, it’s about you not coming back shaky or overthinking when you message her again. And honestly, that’s the only version of you that even has a chance of getting a real answer from her.

If you hit her up in a few weeks, chilled out and more level, you’ll finally see if she actually meant what she said or if she was just unsure. If she shuts it down, you get the closure you need. If she opens up, you’ll feel it.

You’re not being dumb, you’re just trying to finish a story that ended too fast.

 

[santoryu]

Bro, you’re not wrong for how you’re thinking. She dipped early because something in her head told her it wouldn’t go long-term, and instead of talking it out she just assumed your intentions and ended it. That’s why it feels unfinished — you never got the conversation you should’ve had.

Your plan isn’t stupid either. Talking to other girls just to get more experience and confidence is fine. It’s not about making her jealous, it’s about you not coming back shaky or overthinking when you message her again. And honestly, that’s the only version of you that even has a chance of getting a real answer from her.

If you hit her up in a few weeks, chilled out and more level, you’ll finally see if she actually meant what she said or if she was just unsure. If she shuts it down, you get the closure you need. If she opens up, you’ll feel it.

You’re not being dumb, you’re just trying to finish a story that ended too fast.

ai ragebait response jfl

 

[santoryu]

The backstory

Pretty much met this girl, we hang out on a couple nights out, then after that had a like 3 dates and the last date we had witch was on the 15th of November went amazing, went and got drinks came back to my uni accom watched a Harry Potter and legit we were under a blanket cuddling by the end then after that we just chilled spoke and she ended up leaving at like 2am I walk her back we hug saying goodbye. Then the next day on that Sunday I message saying how I how a good time and shit and she responds back saying the same then we have a convo after that about like studying and locking in. But then Monday my life changes for the worst I message her something then I go to class then I clock she hasn’t responded in like an hour and she normally responds instantly and just thought she had class or something then I get hit with a bomb of a message “
Hey, I really did enjoy hanging out with you, but I dont know if this thing between us would be anything long term and I dont want to lead you on or anything. Im sorry I wasted your time, but i really did like chatting with you.

I also hate to be the person to say it but I would still like to be your friend but I totally understand if that's not something you want.” And I’m like wtf, where did this come from because it was so random, everyone I tell about it is just as baffled as me and majority of the people I asked were girls aswell so, that day I spiral and get absolutely plastered from 1pm then over the next three days I smoked weed every night while drinking end up going to the club on Wednesday and look around and clock that all these girls are chopped ash and I’m way too good for them so I just spend the whole club night just running it for my friend so he can get some girls. But then the previous day I clock I might aswell get hinge and level myself. Got a date next Tuesday aswell and was so close to cracking so girl aswell. But it’s not the end of the story with that girl ibr got a plan.

The plan

Gonna level myself by just speaking to hella girls on hinge for like the next three weeks and see if I can get anymore dates out of it other than the one girl next Tuesday. But at the end of the three weeks gonna message that girl just a casual like “how you been doing, been a minute” because I feel like there’s more to this story and I’m not gonna go down trying. So by then I’ll be levelled asf already have more experience with these other chicks and just come in with hella confidence like I’ve just been fine how things “ended”. I have a feeling I his could work I start of normal and just friendly and she’ll be like damn I really missed talking to this guy so much, maybe I regret how I left things. This whole time I’ll just be chill and pretend that I’m not trying anything and just being friendly.

That’s all for this little rant, if any of you guys actually read give opps and tell me if I’m being a retard

only ltr if you took her virginity. else you are cuck.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

The backstory

Pretty much met this girl, we hang out on a couple nights out, then after that had a like 3 dates and the last date we had witch was on the 15th of November went amazing, went and got drinks came back to my uni accom watched a Harry Potter and legit we were under a blanket cuddling by the end then after that we just chilled spoke and she ended up leaving at like 2am I walk her back we hug saying goodbye. Then the next day on that Sunday I message saying how I how a good time and shit and she responds back saying the same then we have a convo after that about like studying and locking in. But then Monday my life changes for the worst I message her something then I go to class then I clock she hasn’t responded in like an hour and she normally responds instantly and just thought she had class or something then I get hit with a bomb of a message “
Hey, I really did enjoy hanging out with you, but I dont know if this thing between us would be anything long term and I dont want to lead you on or anything. Im sorry I wasted your time, but i really did like chatting with you.

I also hate to be the person to say it but I would still like to be your friend but I totally understand if that's not something you want.” And I’m like wtf, where did this come from because it was so random, everyone I tell about it is just as baffled as me and majority of the people I asked were girls aswell so, that day I spiral and get absolutely plastered from 1pm then over the next three days I smoked weed every night while drinking end up going to the club on Wednesday and look around and clock that all these girls are chopped ash and I’m way too good for them so I just spend the whole club night just running it for my friend so he can get some girls. But then the previous day I clock I might aswell get hinge and level myself. Got a date next Tuesday aswell and was so close to cracking so girl aswell. But it’s not the end of the story with that girl ibr got a plan.

The plan

Gonna level myself by just speaking to hella girls on hinge for like the next three weeks and see if I can get anymore dates out of it other than the one girl next Tuesday. But at the end of the three weeks gonna message that girl just a casual like “how you been doing, been a minute” because I feel like there’s more to this story and I’m not gonna go down trying. So by then I’ll be levelled asf already have more experience with these other chicks and just come in with hella confidence like I’ve just been fine how things “ended”. I have a feeling I his could work I start of normal and just friendly and she’ll be like damn I really missed talking to this guy so much, maybe I regret how I left things. This whole time I’ll just be chill and pretend that I’m not trying anything and just being friendly.

That’s all for this little rant, if any of you guys actually read give opps and tell me if I’m being a retard

It's too much reading for my little penis.

My tiny little penis is really addicted to pornographic material. I couldn't possibly read through all of that without Timmy getting upset. Gotta buff it to porn bro. I just can't help you out.