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Am I wrong for being super aggravated?
My current roommate has been paying rent late every month since she moved in, and promised after the first month (July) she would pay rent on time. She currently owes $1,000+ with late fees stacked on. She is getting 30-day notices every month so far since living here.
She moved here with no furniture and no dishes. The only furniture she owns is a mattress on the floor in her room from the previous roommate with her stuff lying everywhere. She will use my pans and burn them. She will leave the burnt pots and pans on the stove top after cooking. If I were at least using someone's pans and pots, I would clean them immediately and put them away. She does not clean much at all and will text me that she will do dishes, then park herself on the couch and not do anything to clean. I end up doing the cleaning/dishes before she even texts me to say "she will". She just bought a couple dishes for herself and will let dishes stack up. I texted her that if she is going to use my pans and dishes she has to clean them and put them away. She replies oh sorry I will! She then proceeds to let the dishes sit in the sink for a week, texting me throughout the week "I had a bad day, can't bring myself to do the dishes, I'll do it tommorrow". She continues to text me the same thing consecutively for days in a row that she will do them and does NOT put them in the dishwasher. I left for the weekend and came back to the dishes stacked in the sink filled with dirty water and stinking. I got so aggravated and put some of the dishes in the dishwasher and drained the disgusting sink. After I go in my room, she scurries out of her room and put some finally in the dishwasher. She leaves cans of wet cat food ON the couch.
She lays on the couch every day for hours and does not get off the couch unless she is working or sleeping. Otherwise, she basically lives on the couch and I feel like I have no space in my apartment. Every time I walk out of my room she is sitting on the couch and I feel like she is hogging the apartment in a way. She is very nosey/bored and it seems like she is also constantly eavesdropping on all of my conversations whether it be during class, on the phone, or while working. What to do here? I've already spoken to her about the rent issues and brought it to her attention. She is not a mean person per se, just getting tired of this laziness and carelessness.
My current roommate has been paying rent late every month since she moved in, and promised after the first month (July) she would pay rent on time. She currently owes $1,000+ with late fees stacked on. She is getting 30-day notices every month so far since living here.
She moved here with no furniture and no dishes. The only furniture she owns is a mattress on the floor in her room from the previous roommate with her stuff lying everywhere. She will use my pans and burn them. She will leave the burnt pots and pans on the stove top after cooking. If I were at least using someone's pans and pots, I would clean them immediately and put them away. She does not clean much at all and will text me that she will do dishes, then park herself on the couch and not do anything to clean. I end up doing the cleaning/dishes before she even texts me to say "she will". She just bought a couple dishes for herself and will let dishes stack up. I texted her that if she is going to use my pans and dishes she has to clean them and put them away. She replies oh sorry I will! She then proceeds to let the dishes sit in the sink for a week, texting me throughout the week "I had a bad day, can't bring myself to do the dishes, I'll do it tommorrow". She continues to text me the same thing consecutively for days in a row that she will do them and does NOT put them in the dishwasher. I left for the weekend and came back to the dishes stacked in the sink filled with dirty water and stinking. I got so aggravated and put some of the dishes in the dishwasher and drained the disgusting sink. After I go in my room, she scurries out of her room and put some finally in the dishwasher. She leaves cans of wet cat food ON the couch.
She lays on the couch every day for hours and does not get off the couch unless she is working or sleeping. Otherwise, she basically lives on the couch and I feel like I have no space in my apartment. Every time I walk out of my room she is sitting on the couch and I feel like she is hogging the apartment in a way. She is very nosey/bored and it seems like she is also constantly eavesdropping on all of my conversations whether it be during class, on the phone, or while working. What to do here? I've already spoken to her about the rent issues and brought it to her attention. She is not a mean person per se, just getting tired of this laziness and carelessness.
