Is just be hot and no personality kind of a halo because it shows you never had to compensate with rizz/wit./charm?

[GoodOutlook]

I'm talking 8/10+

being charming and witty comes off as though you're trying which is a failo. Being hot and completely NORMAL comes off most mysterious and people want you more. Usually funny witty comes off as a way to de-virginate yourself from never getting attention.

Imagine hot guy who is mysterious for not doing shit. Not doing shit is euphemized as being mysterious. Just like how being anxious is "humble" if you're hot. Recontextualized based on primal interest.

 

[ItsOverLawg]

very obviously no

 

[GoodOutlook]

very obviously no

why.

I'm talking about just be average not autistic. just not try to be funny and make them laugh or signal similar personality interests.

 

[ItsOverLawg]

why.

I'm talking about just be average not autistic. just not try to be funny and make them laugh or signal similar personality interests.

I mean look
To be hot is what everyone wants
But what I've seen from personal observation is that attractive people with no hobbies or ambitions or any drive in their life are seen as heavily relying on their looks to make past their life. Their face card is often seen as declining.
If you're hot with hobbies, it is a plus in my opinion. Average with hobbies and you'll have people symphatizing with you.

 

[Tallooksmaxxer]

doesnt really matter if you are gl

 

[LilJojo]

I'm talking 8/10+

being charming and witty comes off as though you're trying which is a failo. Being hot and completely NORMAL comes off most mysterious and people want you more. Usually funny witty comes off as a way to de-virginate yourself from never getting attention.

Imagine hot guy who is mysterious for not doing shit. Not doing shit is euphemized as being mysterious. Just like how being anxious is "humble" if you're hot. Recontextualized based on primal interest.

If you can’t talk to women you won’t slay even if you’re chad. Why do you think normies have girlfriends.
You never touch grass and it shows I see a true chad only every 6 months

 

[GoodOutlook]

If you can’t talk to women you won’t slay even if you’re chad. Why do you think normies have girlfriends.
You never touch grass and it shows I see a true chad only every 6 months

what im saying is they're not trying.

 

[e443]

I’m going to get my hair cut tomorrow morning

 

[LilJojo]

what im saying is they're not trying.

Trying for what?

 

[BeatleJuiceFanBoy10]

Lol why would approaching women be a failo?

 

[bellidobruno87@gmai]

I mean look
To be hot is what everyone wants
But what I've seen from personal observation is that attractive people with no hobbies or ambitions or any drive in their life are seen as heavily relying on their looks to make past their life. Their face card is often seen as declining.
If you're hot with hobbies, it is a plus in my opinion. Average with hobbies and you'll have people symphatizing with you.

You've made an insightful observation. Being attractive without substance-
like hobbies, ambitions, or a sense of purpose—can give the impression that one is coasting solely on one's looks, which can lose its appeal over time. People who invest in personal interests, skills, or passions often radiate a sense of depth that enhances their attractiveness, making them more memorable and relatable. Even those who are "average" in looks can draw others in with genuine enthusiasm and pursuits, often earning respect and admiration, making a lasting impression. So, I wholeheartedly agree with you.

 

[GoodOutlook]

You've made an insightful observation. Being attractive without substance-
like hobbies, ambitions, or a sense of purpose—can give the impression that one is coasting solely on one's looks, which can lose its appeal over time. People who invest in personal interests, skills, or passions often radiate a sense of depth that enhances their attractiveness, making them more memorable and relatable. Even those who are "average" in looks can draw others in with genuine enthusiasm and pursuits, often earning respect and admiration, making a lasting impression. So, I wholeheartedly agree with you.

is that guy in your pfp proof you can't make a filipino chad

 

[ItsOverLawg]

You've made an insightful observation. Being attractive without substance-
like hobbies, ambitions, or a sense of purpose—can give the impression that one is coasting solely on one's looks, which can lose its appeal over time. People who invest in personal interests, skills, or passions often radiate a sense of depth that enhances their attractiveness, making them more memorable and relatable. Even those who are "average" in looks can draw others in with genuine enthusiasm and pursuits, often earning respect and admiration, making a lasting impression. So, I wholeheartedly agree with you.

i mean you are 30 so ofc you'd agree wth me bro you're probably one of the oldest dudes here

 

[bellidobruno87@gmai]

is that guy in your pfp proof you can't make a filipino chad

What do you mean by that statement? Btw, I'm not Filipino, i'm actually Peruvian currently living in the U.S.

 

[bellidobruno87@gmai]

i mean you are 30 so ofc you'd agree wth me bro you're probably one of the oldest dudes here

Yes, I am pretty old, but not just from age but also from prior experiences from dating women in the past. I think people in this incel forum website need to realize that women are not that shallow as they are made to be. Sure, being objectively good-looking will give you leverage, but other qualities are also essential as well such as common interests, personality, status, etc. I might get disliked, but this is just my opinion so.....

 

[ItsOverLawg]

Yes, I am pretty old, but not just from age but also from prior experiences from dating women in the past. I think people in this incel forum website need to realize that women are not that shallow as they are made to be. Sure, being objectively good-looking will give you leverage, but other qualities are also essential as well such as common interests, personality, status, etc. I might get disliked, but this is just my opinion so.....

personality and status is often overlooked

 

[actualunderstander]

No. Infact, you need social skills as a man. Even if you're gorgeous.

 

[bellidobruno87@gmai]

personality and status is often overlooked

Thats true. However, you have to take into account that other celebrities aren't super conventionally good looking such as Duke Dennis, pedro pascal and Adam Driver. These celebrities radiate a sense of charisma and have made a living as influencers and some even acting.

 

[bellidobruno87@gmai]

No. Infact, you need social skills as a man. Even if you're gorgeous.

Yes, I forgot to mention that having social skills to approach women and having good conversational starters will help make these women engage with you, which could maybe help to start to blossom the relationship.

 

[actualunderstander]

Yes, I forgot to mention that having social skills to approach women and having good conversational starters will help make these women engage with you, which could maybe help to start to blossom the relationship.

For sure. Being a handsome ass dude will get you're foot in the door, and people looking at you and staring and opening themselves up for you to make a move, but as a man, it's up to you to make a move. Always was. Of course there are exceptions at times, but generally it's still up to the man.

 

[ItsOverLawg]

Yes, I forgot to mention that having social skills to approach women and having good conversational starters will help make these women engage with you, which could maybe help to start to blossom the relationship.

so what exactly does one do to start a ''healthy'' conversation with a woman??

 

[ItsOverLawg]

Yes, I forgot to mention that having social skills to approach women and having good conversational starters will help make these women engage with you, which could maybe help to start to blossom the relationship.

i mean i have done it before
but i want to know what your perception is as a much older man

 

[klamus]

Normies Have no game. Its all fake and gay

 

[bellidobruno87@gmai]

so what exactly does one do to start a ''healthy'' conversation with a woman??

i mean i have done it before
but i want to know what your perception is as a much older man

From prior experience, I practiced the cold approach method, where I would randomly approach women, first introduce myself to her confidently and assertively while being casual and talk about simple conversational starters such as how is your day or I would compliment any detail she has in her dress. For example, if I see an anime clothes, I will find a connection and if we click, this could lead to more interest. The only catch is that When a woman takes a good look at you, all of those come together to create a baseline attraction in her for you. If she has some attraction for you, that means she's interested in you and want to see what you're like as a dating prospect. If you put yourself together and you find that the girl you're talking to doesn't like you (not every girl will like you), then no amount of game or strategies will change this.

 

[TitusA]

I'm talking 8/10+

being charming and witty comes off as though you're trying which is a failo. Being hot and completely NORMAL comes off most mysterious and people want you more. Usually funny witty comes off as a way to de-virginate yourself from never getting attention.

Imagine hot guy who is mysterious for not doing shit. Not doing shit is euphemized as being mysterious. Just like how being anxious is "humble" if you're hot. Recontextualized based on primal interest.

One of the most dumb .org questions I've seen in a while.