Is long distance worth it or am I being delusional

[Pixel27]

I have found an almost wife quality woman, but she has some major downsides that makes me wonder if it’s worth continuing things with her. Or stop things and continue my efforts irl in finding women



For her positives: she’s a virgin; hasn’t had a bf before; her family is intact; she doesn’t do drugs or alcohol, she’s also religious



But she does have some major downsides: she’s mentally ill (depression and ED); very chronically online (especially on twitter); through stalking her priv twitter I found out she’s talking to other guys even though she said she’s only talking to me. Now I don’t know if she’s actually interested in them, or just using them for attention since when I asked her to be exclusive she immediately said yes (tweet date was before I asked so idk if I’m actively getting played); final big con is that this is long distance and it’ll stay this way for a couple of years



So is it worth committing because she’s a virgin and untouched. Or focus on self improving for a year and trying to find options in real life? Because I’m not bad looking, my biggest issues with women is not being social and awkward asf, and body I’m not the most appealing since I’m skinny. Once I fix those two it should be relatively easy to find a woman, but I don’t know how long it’ll take to find a wife quality woman



Am I delusional for even considering her as an option?

 

[shia.jihadist]

how good looking is she

 

[_Tigrim_]

Are you a virgin?

 

[Pixel27]

how good looking is she

She’s really pretty, I’d give her a 8/10

 

[Pixel27]

Are you a virgin?

Yes

 

[_Tigrim_]

Yes

If she actually likes you and is actually a quality girl then long distance will work

 

[StraightHeadJames]

Oh my god... virgin loser and long distance. i've been thru this before. leave her asap.

 

[Pixel27]

Oh my god... virgin loser and long distance. i've been thru this before. leave her asap.

So you think I’m just a placeholder until she finds someone irl?

 

[Pixel27]

Maybe,

If she actually likes you and is actually a quality girl then long distance will work

but honestly I don’t know if I can wait since realistically it’ll be 4-5 years

 

[Deleted member 117946]

Maybe,

but honestly I don’t know if I can wait since realistically it’ll be 4-5 years

She sounds like she could be wife material but that wait is just too long it prob wouldnt work out

 

[recai iskender]

I dont think you should date a woman like that even irl

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

long distance relationship is when you had irl relationship then had to move town and it becomes long distance

this is not long distance, this is online larp

both cases rarely work though, but since you dont have much options go for it beggars cant be choosers

 

[Pixel27]

She sounds like she could be wife material but that wait is just too long it prob wouldnt work out

So continue things with her but just mentally prepare myself to accept that fact she probably will leave?

 

[Pixel27]

long distance relationship is when you had irl relationship then had to move town and it becomes long distance

this is not long distance, this is online larp

both cases rarely work though, but since you dont have much options go for it beggars cant be choosers

I guess, I still have 6-8 months to go until I can ascend

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

I guess, I still have 6-8 months to go until I can ascend

i mean it could work or not, it really depends on your connection and if she treats you right

it goes case by case really all is fair in love and war

 

[Deleted member 117946]

So continue things with her but just mentally prepare myself to accept that fact she probably will leave?

Um well if you can get any nudes mayb its worth staying for a bit

But i personally would just end it and make a promise if you guys are still single 5 years from now youll try to work it out

 

[Deleted member 118164]

I have found an almost wife quality woman, but she has some major downsides that makes me wonder if it’s worth continuing things with her. Or stop things and continue my efforts irl in finding women



For her positives: she’s a virgin; hasn’t had a bf before; her family is intact; she doesn’t do drugs or alcohol, she’s also religious



But she does have some major downsides: she’s mentally ill (depression and ED); very chronically online (especially on twitter); through stalking her priv twitter I found out she’s talking to other guys even though she said she’s only talking to me. Now I don’t know if she’s actually interested in them, or just using them for attention since when I asked her to be exclusive she immediately said yes (tweet date was before I asked so idk if I’m actively getting played); final big con is that this is long distance and it’ll stay this way for a couple of years



So is it worth committing because she’s a virgin and untouched. Or focus on self improving for a year and trying to find options in real life? Because I’m not bad looking, my biggest issues with women is not being social and awkward asf, and body I’m not the most appealing since I’m skinny. Once I fix those two it should be relatively easy to find a woman, but I don’t know how long it’ll take to find a wife quality woman



Am I delusional for even considering her as an option?

sounds like she is really creepy

 

[szolliontaraelis]

u guys 14? tf is a tweet date nigga lmao

long distance is a waste of time especially with someone like her

 

[_Tigrim_]

Maybe,

but honestly I don’t know if I can wait since realistically it’ll be 4-5 years

If she's the one then time doesn't matter.

Why do you greycels never give rep? I helped you and answered your question but you didn't rep me

 

[Pixel27]

If she's the one then time doesn't matter.

Why do you greycels never give rep? I helped you and answered your question but you didn't rep me

I’m new sorry, I’m at work but on break I can

 

[Pixel27]

Um well if you can get any nudes mayb its worth staying for a bit

But i personally would just end it and make a promise if you guys are still single 5 years from now youll try to work it out

I’ve thought about this, I feel bad because it would break her heart but I think either this or at least trying is the best route

 

[Deleted member 117946]

I’ve thought about this, I feel bad because it would break her heart but I think either this or at least trying is the best route

Your right it is pretty disgusting im just horny.

Just ascend and find someone near you, wouldnt do harm to talk to her in the meantime

 

[Pixel27]

Your right it is pretty disgusting im just horny.

Just ascend and find someone near you, wouldnt do harm to talk to her in the meantime

I guess, I don’t know if I’m leading her on though so if I am I feel bad, I don’t know if she’s doing the same and just passing time but it kinda seems like she does want more but idk

 

[Pixel27]

If she's the one then time doesn't matter.

Why do you greycels never give rep? I helped you and answered your question but you didn't rep me

How do I rep you?

 

[Pixel27]

Your right it is pretty disgusting im just horny.

Just ascend and find someone near you, wouldnt do harm to talk to her in the meantime

Honestly I just realized this prob is the best route. Seeing that tweet about her mentioning talking to other guys, made me realize she’s prob just using me for fun so I might as well do the same thing too

 

[_Tigrim_]

How do I rep you?

Like how you did here:

If she actually likes you and is actually a quality girl then long distance will work

 

[floopmaxxed]

If she actually likes you and is a quality girl then long distance will work but also don't be asking a shitty incel board for advice this is the equivalent of if your gf was asking feminist boards about you. It's fucked up and is gonna trash your relationship

 

[Pixel27]

If she actually likes you and is a quality girl then long distance will work but also don't be asking a shitty incel board for advice this is the equivalent of if your gf was asking feminist boards about you. It's fucked up and is gonna trash your relationship

true I just don’t know where else to ask because I probably would get super blue pilled advice, I think she’s a quality girl but she has lied to me about stuff so I don’t know if I can trust her, it’s a shame because besides that and the distance. She’s everything I could ask for in a woman

 

[floopmaxxed]

she

true I just don’t know where else to ask because I probably would get super blue pilled advice, I think she’s a quality girl but she has lied to me about stuff so I don’t know if I can trust her, it’s a shame because besides that and the distance. She’s everything I could ask for in a woman

"lied to me about stuff" and "Everything I could ask for in a woman" in the same sentence

 

[watah]

Ur an idiot, just more proof that guys here arent really blackpilled

 

[Pixel27]

she

"lied to me about stuff" and "Everything I could ask for in a woman" in the same sentence

They do say love makes you do stupid things sadly with being an incel it means falling for the first girl that gives you attention

I know it sounds like I’m deep in delululand and I’m partially am, but I meant everything I could ask for because besides the lying… which is bad and means I probably will have to break up with her, everything else is great

She’s really funny and interesting, really pretty, empathetic, and she’s smart. Basically all that I’d want for my staceylite wife, but it seems like I’ll have to continue to find that one if she does exist somewhere…

 

[Pixel27]

Ur an idiot, just more proof that guys here arent really blackpilled

i mean i think im black pilled, i understand that genes and looks trumps all, and I feel like I mostly understand female nature I’m just in a weak spot rn because feelings are making me act unwise but at least she has taught me some important stuff about women, like even the “good girls” hide a lot like holy fuck it shocked me when I found that out

 

[watah]

i mean i think im black pilled, i understand that genes and looks trumps all, and I feel like I mostly understand female nature I’m just in a weak spot rn because feelings are making me act unwise but at least she has taught me some important stuff about women, like even the “good girls” hide a lot like holy fuck it shocked me when I found that out

What I mean is u don’t even know if she’s really a virgin (prob not lol)

 

[Pixel27]

What I mean is u don’t even know if she’s really a virgin (prob not lol)

Nah honestly from talking with her and stalking her Twitter I believe it, her parents are super strict with letting her go out and she is asexual and hasn’t had a proper bf before, seems like just one previous situationship which was also online lmao. So there’s a 99% chance she is a virgin. But with everything else I’ve mentioned tbh I don’t think it’s worth it, maybe it is but I probably should continue the hunt for a virgin staceylite irl

 

[floopmaxxed]

They do say love makes you do stupid things sadly with being an incel it means falling for the first girl that gives you attention

I know it sounds like I’m deep in delululand and I’m partially am, but I meant everything I could ask for because besides the lying… which is bad and means I probably will have to break up with her, everything else is great

She’s really funny and interesting, really pretty, empathetic, and she’s smart. Basically all that I’d want for my staceylite wife, but it seems like I’ll have to continue to find that one if she does exist somewhere…

well let it play out for a bit but if she leaves you for some retard don't tale it personally

 

[Pixel27]

well let it play out for a bit but if she leaves you for some retard don't tale it personally

yea, I feel like there’s a 70% chance she’s just waiting until she can find someone irl or she wants to betabux me so I’ll probably just enjoy her attention until I can ascend and have an actually existent dating life

I can’t help but feel kinda bad. Since I feel like she does have genuine feelings for me. I’ve said multiple times that I’m not sure if ldr would work, and I basically brought up the prospects of breaking up. But she kept on reeling me back in, asking me to stay.

But I also can’t help but think if she found her type irl, she probably would leave me in an instant so I shouldn’t feel bad about doing this

 

[floopmaxxed]

I can’t help but feel kinda bad. Since I feel like she does have genuine feelings for me. I’ve said multiple times that I’m not sure if ldr would work, and I basically brought up the prospects of breaking up. But she kept on reeling me back in, asking me to stay.

bro don't do that lol if you're in a relationship give it your all

 

[Pixel27]

bro don't do that lol if you're in a relationship give it your all

maybe I should, I just can't help but feel like she's playing me. Maybe this is the bad mindset to have in a relationship. How do I change this though? I've been so blackpilled from reading stuff on this site that I'm convinced her hyper-gamy will kick in eventually, and just replace me with someone else with no remorse. So what would be the point in trying?

 

[floopmaxxed]

maybe I should, I just can't help but feel like she's playing me. Maybe this is the bad mindset to have in a relationship. How do I change this though? I've been so blackpilled from reading stuff on this site that I'm convinced her hyper-gamy will kick in eventually, and just replace me with someone else with no remorse. So what would be the point in trying?

you need to see her as a person and not a statistic bro its really not that hard

 

[dawooddX]

I have found an almost wife quality woman, but she has some major downsides that makes me wonder if it’s worth continuing things with her. Or stop

''she talks to other guys'' ''is it worth it'' do not lmfao ur girl should either worship u or leave its retarded and u shld leave things with her asap long distance is also really shit u gotta improve urself for a couple more time and if ur good then u will eventually find someone again its js 1 foid

 

[Pixel27]

''she talks to other guys'' ''is it worth it'' do not lmfao ur girl should either worship u or leave its retarded and u shld leave things with her asap long distance is also really shit u gotta improve urself for a couple more time and if ur good then u will eventually find someone again its js 1 foid

yea you're right, all i need is 6-8 months of focused ascension and I probably should be able to get a HTB / Stacylite irl. I probably should break things off but the thought of being lonely is something I dread, ngl

 

[Aviddegree40571]

Maybe,

but honestly I don’t know if I can wait since realistically it’ll be 4-5 years

If you arent meeting in the summer it isnt real

 

[Pixel27]

If you arent meeting in the summer it isnt real

we can't really meet this year because we have our vacations planned out but she wanted to meet me next summer for the world cup

 

[Aviddegree40571]

we can't really meet this year because we have our vacations planned out but she wanted to meet me next summer for the world cup

fuck world cup is already next year

 

[Pixel27]

fuck world cup is already next year

ikr its crazy, feels like the 2022 one wasnt that long ago

 

[dawooddX]

yea you're right, all i need is 6-8 months of focused ascension and I probably should be able to get a HTB / Stacylite irl. I probably should break things off but the thought of being lonely is something I dread, ngl

well yh but u need to have something going on for urself u shouldnt force urself into a relationship js cuz of being lonely if they leave then u have nothing and ur girl is a clear red flag and it will obv turn to shit if u go through with it work on urself first the best way possible

 

[Pixel27]

well yh but u need to have something going on for urself u shouldnt force urself into a relationship js cuz of being lonely if they leave then u have nothing and ur girl is a clear red flag and it will obv turn to shit if u go through with it work on urself first the best way possible

I mean while i am kinda forcing myself into this... its more cause she wants me (which makes me so confused on everything else, but I guess no one can understand women. Its probably male attention she craves since she didnt get any being a late bloomer)

Ultimately you're right tbh, this probably wont do me any good long term

 

[flatcheck213]

well yh but u need to have something going on for urself u shouldnt force urself into a relationship js cuz of being lonely if they leave then u have nothing and ur girl is a clear red flag and it will obv turn to shit if u go through with it work on urself first the best way possible

lol why you described me

 

[MarkSynklar]

kind of a greycel annoying question but, how do 'long-distance relationships' even happen?

 

[Pixel27]

kind of a greycel annoying question but, how do 'long-distance relationships' even happen?

In this case I had an online friend who invited me to a gc with his irl friends, and eventually I added them on ig. Nothing happened for a while but randomly one day she slid into my dms and the rest was hisory