Is long distance worth it or am I being delusional

[Pixel27]

I have found an almost wife quality woman, but she has some major downsides that makes me wonder if it’s worth continuing things with her. Or stop things and continue my efforts irl in finding women



For her positives: she’s a virgin; hasn’t had a bf before; her family is intact; she doesn’t do drugs or alcohol, she’s also religious



But she does have some major downsides: she’s mentally ill (depression and ED); very chronically online (especially on twitter); through stalking her priv twitter I found out she’s talking to other guys even though she said she’s only talking to me. Now I don’t know if she’s actually interested in them, or just using them for attention since when I asked her to be exclusive she immediately said yes (tweet date was before I asked so idk if I’m actively getting played); final big con is that this is long distance and it’ll stay this way for a couple of years



So is it worth committing because she’s a virgin and untouched. Or focus on self improving for a year and trying to find options in real life? Because I’m not bad looking, my biggest issues with women is not being social and awkward asf, and body I’m not the most appealing since I’m skinny. Once I fix those two it should be relatively easy to find a woman, but I don’t know how long it’ll take to find a wife quality woman



Am I delusional for even considering her as an option?

 

[shia.jihadist]

how good looking is she

 

[_Tigrim_]

Are you a virgin?

 

[Pixel27]

how good looking is she

She’s really pretty, I’d give her a 8/10

 

[Pixel27]

Are you a virgin?

Yes

 

[_Tigrim_]

Yes

If she actually likes you and is actually a quality girl then long distance will work

 

[StraightHeadJames]

Oh my god... virgin loser and long distance. i've been thru this before. leave her asap.

 

[Pixel27]

Oh my god... virgin loser and long distance. i've been thru this before. leave her asap.

So you think I’m just a placeholder until she finds someone irl?

 

[Pixel27]

Maybe,

If she actually likes you and is actually a quality girl then long distance will work

but honestly I don’t know if I can wait since realistically it’ll be 4-5 years

 

[overthinkinghooper]

Maybe,

but honestly I don’t know if I can wait since realistically it’ll be 4-5 years

She sounds like she could be wife material but that wait is just too long it prob wouldnt work out

 

[recai iskender]

I dont think you should date a woman like that even irl

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

long distance relationship is when you had irl relationship then had to move town and it becomes long distance

this is not long distance, this is online larp

both cases rarely work though, but since you dont have much options go for it beggars cant be choosers

 

[Pixel27]

She sounds like she could be wife material but that wait is just too long it prob wouldnt work out

So continue things with her but just mentally prepare myself to accept that fact she probably will leave?

 

[Pixel27]

long distance relationship is when you had irl relationship then had to move town and it becomes long distance

this is not long distance, this is online larp

both cases rarely work though, but since you dont have much options go for it beggars cant be choosers

I guess, I still have 6-8 months to go until I can ascend

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

I guess, I still have 6-8 months to go until I can ascend

i mean it could work or not, it really depends on your connection and if she treats you right

it goes case by case really all is fair in love and war

 

[overthinkinghooper]

So continue things with her but just mentally prepare myself to accept that fact she probably will leave?

Um well if you can get any nudes mayb its worth staying for a bit

But i personally would just end it and make a promise if you guys are still single 5 years from now youll try to work it out

 

[voluptuousness]

I have found an almost wife quality woman, but she has some major downsides that makes me wonder if it’s worth continuing things with her. Or stop things and continue my efforts irl in finding women



For her positives: she’s a virgin; hasn’t had a bf before; her family is intact; she doesn’t do drugs or alcohol, she’s also religious



But she does have some major downsides: she’s mentally ill (depression and ED); very chronically online (especially on twitter); through stalking her priv twitter I found out she’s talking to other guys even though she said she’s only talking to me. Now I don’t know if she’s actually interested in them, or just using them for attention since when I asked her to be exclusive she immediately said yes (tweet date was before I asked so idk if I’m actively getting played); final big con is that this is long distance and it’ll stay this way for a couple of years



So is it worth committing because she’s a virgin and untouched. Or focus on self improving for a year and trying to find options in real life? Because I’m not bad looking, my biggest issues with women is not being social and awkward asf, and body I’m not the most appealing since I’m skinny. Once I fix those two it should be relatively easy to find a woman, but I don’t know how long it’ll take to find a wife quality woman



Am I delusional for even considering her as an option?

sounds like she is really creepy

 

[szolliontaraelis]

u guys 14? tf is a tweet date nigga lmao

long distance is a waste of time especially with someone like her

 

[_Tigrim_]

Maybe,

but honestly I don’t know if I can wait since realistically it’ll be 4-5 years

If she's the one then time doesn't matter.

Why do you greycels never give rep? I helped you and answered your question but you didn't rep me

 

[Pixel27]

If she's the one then time doesn't matter.

Why do you greycels never give rep? I helped you and answered your question but you didn't rep me

I’m new sorry, I’m at work but on break I can

 

[Pixel27]

Um well if you can get any nudes mayb its worth staying for a bit

But i personally would just end it and make a promise if you guys are still single 5 years from now youll try to work it out

I’ve thought about this, I feel bad because it would break her heart but I think either this or at least trying is the best route

 

[overthinkinghooper]

I’ve thought about this, I feel bad because it would break her heart but I think either this or at least trying is the best route

Your right it is pretty disgusting im just horny.

Just ascend and find someone near you, wouldnt do harm to talk to her in the meantime

 

[Pixel27]

Your right it is pretty disgusting im just horny.

Just ascend and find someone near you, wouldnt do harm to talk to her in the meantime

I guess, I don’t know if I’m leading her on though so if I am I feel bad, I don’t know if she’s doing the same and just passing time but it kinda seems like she does want more but idk

 

[Pixel27]

If she's the one then time doesn't matter.

Why do you greycels never give rep? I helped you and answered your question but you didn't rep me

How do I rep you?

 

[Pixel27]

Your right it is pretty disgusting im just horny.

Just ascend and find someone near you, wouldnt do harm to talk to her in the meantime

Honestly I just realized this prob is the best route. Seeing that tweet about her mentioning talking to other guys, made me realize she’s prob just using me for fun so I might as well do the same thing too

 

[_Tigrim_]

How do I rep you?

Like how you did here:

If she actually likes you and is actually a quality girl then long distance will work