Is Love Real?

[NepoCel]

Like the title says.

What's your arguments:
Is it real?
Does it only apply for people above a certain beauty?
Is it dependent on multiple factors or what percentage on looks alone?

Also, what is your empirical data to back up your claims?

 

[fluxx]

its real in the sense that people can fall in love with each other bc they're attracted to one another but true unconditional love doesn't exist. everything is under a condition, ur parents love u bc ur their way of passing down their genes, friends like you bc they like being around you cracking jokes and everything else. so conditional love exist, but loving someone unconditionally, impossible.

 

[aldamogger]

true unconditional love can only exists as God's love.

ur parents love u bc ur their way of passing down their genes, friends like you bc they like being around you cracking jokes and everything else. so conditional love exist, but loving someone unconditionally, impossible.

truecell, but what if parents adopted a child? what would be the reason for loving him/her?

 

[fluxx]

true unconditional love can only exists as God's love.

truecell, but what if parents adopted a child? what would be the reason for loving him/her?

they love him in a similar sense to if they had a real child
just probably they cant have a real child and they're just coping with this adopted kid

 

[NepoCel]

its real in the sense that people can fall in love with each other bc they're attracted to one another but true unconditional love doesn't exist. everything is under a condition, ur parents love u bc ur their way of passing down their genes, friends like you bc they like being around you cracking jokes and everything else. so conditional love exist, but loving someone unconditionally, impossible.

I see your point, however...

In situations where guys love girls "unconditionally", do you believe this is ACTUAL unconditional love, or do you think the "condition" is a thing like sex or reproductive opportunity?

 

[iblamewill]

Like the title says.

What's your arguments:
Is it real?
Does it only apply for people above a certain beauty?
Is it dependent on multiple factors or what percentage on looks alone?

Also, what is your empirical data to back up your claims?

No

 

[NepoCel]

No

Empirical data, why?

 

[iblamewill]

Like the title says.

What's your arguments:
Is it real?
Does it only apply for people above a certain beauty?
Is it dependent on multiple factors or what percentage on looks alone?

Also, what is your empirical data to back up your claims?

When you look at the science of it humans only (love) a person if they benefit off them

 

[aldamogger]

I see your point, however...

In situations where guys love girls "unconditionally", do you believe this is ACTUAL unconditional love, or do you think the "condition" is a thing like sex or reproductive opportunity?

the latter

 

[aldamogger]

When you look at the science of it humans only (love) a person if they benefit off them

Thats also why i think God is real, through His grace we become a little more sanctified and are able to forgive and love those who wronged us.

 

[Nqt]

Like the title says.

What's your arguments:
Is it real?
Does it only apply for people above a certain beauty?
Is it dependent on multiple factors or what percentage on looks alone?

Also, what is your empirical data to back up your claims?

I love my girl, I know she only loves me conditionally for example for my looks. (If I were to get in a car accident and get deformed I doubt she would still love me). But from my perspective I love her unconditionally, I don't really mind her getting fatter or slimmer I just love her for who she is. I talked about this with my friend and we came to a conclusion that only men can really love unconditionally.