Is mixed signals the biggest cope ever?

[green_fn_2033]

Went up to this random girl around my age(23) in my office building and started a convo with her cause she was fine. She was playing with her hair and made pretty intense eye contact while we were talking. She even tried to continue the convo after we walked back to the desks and I was about to leave. We talked for like another 20 minutes about work, uni, career, etc. Mostly just surface level corporate convo and she left. While her body language was positive, she didn't seem super interested in my life or getting to know me personally. I'm not tryna shit where I eat else I would have asked her for her number or ig before she left. Would it have been a lot more obvious if she was interested in any way? I've been a neet for like 4 years since my i broke up w my last gf and this is the first time I've had an actual convo with a girl i was interested in since then so my social skills around women have gone to shit .

 

[25Ktm]

She wants you follow her home trust

 

[frayed]

If you only met her once dont stress over it, it's probably nothing. Just talk to her more and ask for her number when you see her next.

 

[dnrwarrior11]

i think u should have just went for it nigga, i dont think she was trying to get too deep because u JUST met her

 

[cristaking8]

Went up to this random girl around my age(23) in my office building and started a convo with her cause she was fine. She was playing with her hair and made pretty intense eye contact while we were talking. She even tried to continue the convo after we walked back to the desks and I was about to leave. We talked for like another 20 minutes about work, uni, career, etc. Mostly just surface level corporate convo and she left. While her body language was positive, she didn't seem super interested in my life or getting to know me personally. I'm not tryna shit where I eat else I would have asked her for her number or ig before she left. Would it have been a lot more obvious if she was interested in any way? I've been a neet for like 4 years since my i broke up w my last gf and this is the first time I've had an actual convo with a girl i was interested in since then so my social skills around women have gone to shit .

Just whip ur dick out on the desk next time

 

[WRecking]

She wants you follow her home trust

 

[confess]

fe_male likes attention
fe_male wants to be validated

Try to be a bit more reserved, if she doesn't chase it's quite frankly over.
Most girls I swoop tend to try harder than me.
Never the opposite, good luck.

 

[IrishSlayer1483]

While her body language was positive, she didn't seem super interested in my life or getting to know me personally. my social skills around women have gone to shit .

nothign mixed about this your social abilities are just deficient she was being nice evidently in her not wanting to know you

 

[green_fn_2033]

i think u should have just went for it nigga, i dont think she was trying to get too deep because u JUST met her

its risky in 2025 corporate culture man. if she feels "uncomfortable", hr gonna have a field day

 

[icebl00d._.03]

Went up to this random girl around my age(23) in my office building and started a convo with her cause she was fine. She was playing with her hair and made pretty intense eye contact while we were talking. She even tried to continue the convo after we walked back to the desks and I was about to leave. We talked for like another 20 minutes about work, uni, career, etc. Mostly just surface level corporate convo and she left. While her body language was positive, she didn't seem super interested in my life or getting to know me personally. I'm not tryna shit where I eat else I would have asked her for her number or ig before she left. Would it have been a lot more obvious if she was interested in any way? I've been a neet for like 4 years since my i broke up w my last gf and this is the first time I've had an actual convo with a girl i was interested in since then so my social skills around women have gone to shit .

I think you just overthought the situation; maybe she's only interested in you for a casual night.

 

[green_fn_2033]

If you only met her once dont stress over it, it's probably nothing. Just talk to her more and ask for her number when you see her next.

yeah i see her sometimes but its just sus for me to walk up to her and talk to her without establishing some kind of friendship cause of how sensitive corporate culture is nowadays. She's gotta make some effort from her end else i cant do anything