Is moving out a good idea?

[Jason Voorhees]

I’ll be graduating in 1.5 years and am trying to decide whether to move out of my parents' house or not. They believe I should stay home to save on living expenses like rent and food. My dad says he doesnt expect anything from me and would never ask his child for rent or money for food and I don't need to contribute anything to thr household since our finances are stable I can enjoy the entire salary for myself, and staying at my parents home I would have 0 expenses. He also thinks I should focus on finding a local job. I don't live in the capital but I am still in a tier 1 city which offers plenty of opportunities, even if the pay is slightly lower. He tells me I should only move out to live in another city or another country if I really think it's worth it for my career and all the trouble that will come along with living alone. He thinks there is no need for me to move out just to learn life skills, as he believes I’m already independent enough to handle things on my own.

My mom insists on staying and even if I do move out, it has to be somewhere nearby so she can visit daily.This wouldn’t be my first time living away from home, though. I’ve been staying in a university dorm, but my parents covered all the expenses, and I never had to worry about things like laundry, food, or utility bills. What do you think I should do?

 

[shethinksimcute]

you should stay until you have stable income obviously

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@TechnoBoss @SecularIslamist @GigaStacySexual @Chadeep @Dominicoon

 

[Dominicoon]

Moving out at 21 is ideal

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Im almost 21. By the time I graduate I'll be 22

Moving out at 21 is ideal

 

[Jason Voorhees]

you should stay until you have stable income obviously

My parents are telling me I should still stay even if I do they only think it makes sense to move out when I get married or something

 

[shethinksimcute]

My parents are telling me I should still stay even if I do they only think it makes sense to move out when I get married or something

thats mostly a cultural thing more than a logistics thing. if you want the freedom id say its better to move out sooner rather than later but also depends how your parents will react etc etc

 

[Deleted member 99664]

You should move out the first moment it's financially possible

 

[IncelJihadist]

I’ll be graduating in 1.5 years and am trying to decide whether to move out of my parents' house or not. They believe I should stay home to save on living expenses like rent and food. My dad says he doesnt expect anything from me and I wouldn’t need to contribute anything to thr household since our finances are stable I can enjoy the entire salary for myself, and staying at my parents home I would have 0 expenses. He also thinks I should focus on finding a local job. I don't live in the capital but I am still in a tier 1 city which offers plenty of opportunities, even if the pay is slightly lower. He tells me I should only really move out to live in another city or another country if I really think it's worth it for my career and all the troubles that will come along with living alone. He thinks there is no need for me to move out just to learn life skills, as he believes I’m already independent enough to handle things on my own.

My mom insists on staying and even if I do move out, it has to be somewhere nearby so she can visit daily.This wouldn’t be my first time living away from home, though. I’ve been staying in a university dorm, but my parents covered all the expenses, and I never had to worry about things like laundry, food, or utility bills. What do you think I should do?

Yes

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@FaceandBBC @Lefty Rankin

 

[ey88]

You have to make up your mind yourself, you are the only one who knows your exact scenario

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I’ll be graduating in 1.5 years and am trying to decide whether to move out of my parents' house or not. They believe I should stay home to save on living expenses like rent and food. My dad says he doesnt expect anything from me and would never ask his child for rent or money for food and I don't need to contribute anything to thr household since our finances are stable I can enjoy the entire salary for myself, and staying at my parents home I would have 0 expenses. He also thinks I should focus on finding a local job. I don't live in the capital but I am still in a tier 1 city which offers plenty of opportunities, even if the pay is slightly lower. He tells me I should only move out to live in another city or another country if I really think it's worth it for my career and all the trouble that will come along with living alone. He thinks there is no need for me to move out just to learn life skills, as he believes I’m already independent enough to handle things on my own.

My mom insists on staying and even if I do move out, it has to be somewhere nearby so she can visit daily.This wouldn’t be my first time living away from home, though. I’ve been staying in a university dorm, but my parents covered all the expenses, and I never had to worry about things like laundry, food, or utility bills. What do you think I should do?

It depends. If you live in the USA you absolutely must move out after graduating. You'll end up a loser if you don't. If you're in India then you should probably listen to your parents. Maybe stay a few years and then go to another country though. Save money in the meantime.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

It depends. If you live in the USA you absolutely must move out after graduating. You'll end up a loser if you don't. If you're in India then you should probably listen to your parents. Maybe stay a few years and then go to another country though. Save money in the meantime.

I never understood the parents who kick their kids to the curb the second they turn 18 what do they expect them to do especially in today's economy. This shit might have worked in thr 1940s or 50s but in 2024 even if he does 2-3 part time jobs he'll barely be able to afford rent in major cities and to be able to get his shit together he would atleast need 5-6 years assuming he is able to graduate, hold a job for long enough and doesn't end up with illness in this time. Just kick your kids to thr curb in their prime and waste their youth theory.

 

[i_love_roosters]

Move to Catania, Italy

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I never understood the parents who kick their kids to the curb the second they turn 18 what do they expect them to do especially in today's economy. This shit might have worked in thr 1940s or 50s but in 2024 even if he does 2-3 part time jobs he'll barely be able to afford rent in major cities and to be able to get his shit together he would atleast need 5-6 years assuming he is able to graduate, hold a job for long enough and doesn't end up with illness in this time. Just kick your kids to thr curb in their prime and waste their youth theory.

That's what happened to me. I ended up leaving the country though after spending two years here in America in a hood ass place where the rent is cheap. Left the country and my parents were pissed about it. Couldn't fathom why I would want to leave.

When they came of age a person could comfortably rent a two bedroom apartment while working at a temp agency. They could fill up a cart to the brim with groceries with less than $30. And stupid fucking generation X thinks they're the toughest generation. Nigga please.

 

[TechnoBoss]

I’ll be graduating in 1.5 years and am trying to decide whether to move out of my parents' house or not. They believe I should stay home to save on living expenses like rent and food. My dad says he doesnt expect anything from me and would never ask his child for rent or money for food and I don't need to contribute anything to thr household since our finances are stable I can enjoy the entire salary for myself, and staying at my parents home I would have 0 expenses. He also thinks I should focus on finding a local job. I don't live in the capital but I am still in a tier 1 city which offers plenty of opportunities, even if the pay is slightly lower. He tells me I should only move out to live in another city or another country if I really think it's worth it for my career and all the trouble that will come along with living alone. He thinks there is no need for me to move out just to learn life skills, as he believes I’m already independent enough to handle things on my own.

My mom insists on staying and even if I do move out, it has to be somewhere nearby so she can visit daily.This wouldn’t be my first time living away from home, though. I’ve been staying in a university dorm, but my parents covered all the expenses, and I never had to worry about things like laundry, food, or utility bills. What do you think I should do?

It's difficult. I think it would be best for your development as your own person. If you already have enough money (and money saved up) I'd say it would be the right time to leave the nest. If you get too comfy with the idea of living with your parents I think it can make you lose out over the long run. All the money you'd save isn't equivalent to the freedom you'd get from living alone. Of course, there would be a lot of extra stress too like shopping, paying all the bills, etc.

Your Dad sounds like a cool dude.

 

[wsada]

You should stay you're in a very lucky situation

 

[hypernormie]

“My dad says he doesnt expect anything from me and would never ask his child for rent or money for food and I don't need to contribute anything to thr household since our finances are stable I can enjoy the entire salary for myself“

Jfl my mom was gonna send me to the homeless shelter after I had to stay with her because I became disabled and unable to work then this bitch went and bought a house

Then I almost became homeless again because my health is still fucked up and ran into some unexpected housing issues and my dad won’t even offer to let me stay in the extra room at his place

Americans are fucking psychopathic thank you for reminding me to hate these people

 

[deadstock]

Only if u can slay

 

[Nick.Harte]

You should move out as soon as you turn 18 tbh

 

[sub5outsider]

living on your own is the best thing you can do

 

[playxiing]

just stay retard and save money

 

[Chadeep]

Apart from Moving to Mumbai for Finance. I don't see Tech Career in other Cities Tbh. BLR HYD are at Top.

 

[sarmatian]

My parents are telling me I should still stay even if I do they only think it makes sense to move out when I get married or something

It's very common in a lot of countries to move out only when the son gets married.
However, literally every parent doesn't want their children to move out/ live very far away.
Will your job give you possibility to buy a house in, let's say 5-10 years? Or will you have to rent for 20 years and more.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Only if u can slay

When did you move out?

 

[Nick.Harte]

living on your own is the best thing you can do

This

 

[SecularIslamist]

I moved out 2.5 years ago. Your finances will take a big hit and if you have no social circle and don't find it easy to make one (which I presume you don't) you will feel lonely af. It's generally not worth it. Some women may be impressed but it won't halo you that much imo.

I'd stay at parents house because even if it's your first job you will be saving way more than if you were like 10 years into your career with a mortgage, kids and other responsibilities - assuming you don't end up like me

 

[notalive]

You need to move out into a shithole with 5 roommates and very low rent. You will still have freedom and be able to save money. Dating life is not as affected by roommates as it is by living at home imo.

 

[FaceandBBC]

@FaceandBBC @Lefty Rankin

I can’t move out and won’t be able to in a while since I live in Cali

 

[deadstock]

When did you move out?

19

 

[alriodai]

Moving out at 21 is ideal

moving out when you have a stable income and can handle adult responsabilites is ideal
don't put an age tag on it

 

[Dominicoon]

moving out when you have a stable income and can handle adult responsabilites is ideal
don't put an age tag on it

Which is usually 21.

 

[alriodai]

Which is usually 21.

depends on many factors in actual real life
most users here are from shithole countries
other users can't find even minimum wage jobs (canada niggas here)
IRL problems

it's not "usually 21"

 

[iblamericky]

Depends on where u live