Is sacrificing personality for small looks gain worth it?

[iGoontoOrgans]

Think all the mental energy spent toward thinking about looksmaxxing could instead be used to get a better personality

 

[iGoontoOrgans]

U really dont have to think about looks much to looksmax

That is if u have beenlooksmaxxer for a few years at least u already thought 99% of possible looksmax thoughts

 

[cursed4channer]

are you nd or nt, if you mean plain personality, its up to you but if you are nd ntmaxxing is important

 

[iGoontoOrgans]

are you nd or nt, if you mean plain personality, its up to you but if you are nd ntmaxxing is important

Im very ND

Just NTpassing enough to function in soyciety (barely)

 

[IamMelonMan]

Nd, looksmax, nt do both

 

[IamMelonMan]

Just NTpassing enough

Oh then I'm in the same position as you, idk bro I cba to have a good personality but do what u want

 

[iGoontoOrgans]

Oh then I'm in the same position as you, idk bro I cba to have a good personality but do what u want

My social skills when talking to normies are bad

I get anxiety and express my words in a way that makes me less respectable

Say the wrong things at the wrong times, stutter

Dont have knowledge of pop culture , so cant have common ground to talk with normies about

My whole life i havent had friends so i never developed these skills. i only talk to my coworkers but mainly about work stuff

 

[IamMelonMan]

My social skills when talking to normies are bad

I get anxiety and express my words in a way that makes me less respectable

Say the wrong things at the wrong times, stutter

Dont have knowledge of pop culture , so cant have common ground to talk with normies about

My whole life i havent had friends so i never developed these skills. i only talk to my coworkers but mainly about work stuff

Oh yh u could try personality, for me people js don't fw me for sm reason idk y.

 

[iGoontoOrgans]

Oh yh u could try personality, for me people js don't fw me for sm reason idk y.

What would u do to personalitymax

 

[IamMelonMan]

Idk, I tried to be nicer to people and talk slower, act more open and js more comfortable but it didn't do anything, maybe cuz I'm lmtn and haven't got a halo yet but yh u gotta figure this out from sm1 likeable and who is acc good socially

 

[iGoontoOrgans]

Idk, I tried to be nicer to people and talk slower, act more open and js more comfortable but it didn't do anything, maybe cuz I'm lmtn and haven't got a halo yet but yh u gotta figure this out from sm1 likeable and who is acc good socially

Brutal i would think personalitymax would help

Today a foid told me "have a good day" and it gave me a cortisol increase (i have social anxiety) and instead of responding loud and clear i hurriedly muttered "thank u" in a barely audible, low t voice. I instantly regret such a thing, but its hard to bring myself to act socially proper

 

[IamMelonMan]

Damn bro. I was crossing the street and this like 12y foid was not even looking at me but I looked up and started squinting and mewing cuz I got stressed asf, bro I litterely thought "hopefully she doesn't accuse me of SA cuz I'm not chad" and then I realised lowk I need to hop off .org

 

[IamMelonMan]

Damn bro. I was crossing the street and this like 12y foid was not even looking at me but I looked up and started squinting and mewing cuz I got stressed asf, bro I litterely thought "hopefully she doesn't accuse me of SA cuz I'm not chad" and then I realised lowk I need to hop off .org

Like obv I wasn't thinking that she acc would but u get the point

 

[iGoontoOrgans]

Damn bro. I was crossing the street and this like 12y foid was not even looking at me but I looked up and started squinting and mewing cuz I got stressed asf, bro I litterely thought "hopefully she doesn't accuse me of SA cuz I'm not chad" and then I realised lowk I need to hop off .org

JFL, i do similar

I always fear people are judging me and thinking im a creep so i try to look better for halo effect

 

[IamMelonMan]

JFL, i do similar

I always fear people are judging me and thinking im a creep so i try to look better for halo effect

Yeah, so ur diagnosed ND or nah? Cuz I'm not but I'm even more ND than my friend with diagnosed aspergers

 

[IamMelonMan]

JFL, i do similar

I always fear people are judging me and thinking im a creep so i try to look better for halo effect

Yh tbf I always think.people r judging me but I'm quite a gymcel so physically I'm not as uncomfortable but still Hella awkward