Is sending a tasteful shirtless/unbuttoned shirt image to your halal gf a good idea if you don't want to send full nudes and keep it safe?

[Xangsane]

Title, like those modelling shoots that MMs do.

Bear in mind we're halal dating, but we feel extremely attracted to each other, so instead of us trading nudes like what many young couples do, she sends me images of herself wearing well-fitted yet modest clothing, or feminine, modest yet fitted dresses so I could make out the shape of her body.

Should I trade with her, and I send her a tasteful unbuttoned shirt or shirtless image?

(Not a mirror selfie, but something more natural and tasteful, like me shirtless or wearing an unbuttoned shirt in a park, or me doing gardening, during golden hour, so it doesn't look forced.)

I look around 14-15% bf and my abs are looking somewhat more visible now!

 

[Xangsane]

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[Deleted member 24940]

Send her a full nude dick pick or she will cuck you bro.

 

[Xangsane]

Send her a full nude dick pick or she will cuck you bro.

I'm not gonna do that. I'm keeping it safe, halal and tasteful.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

I'm not gonna do that. I'm keeping it safe, halal and tasteful.

Then send her a shirtless bulge pic. Unless you wish to be cucked you need to do this bhai.

 

[Xangsane]

Then send her a shirtless bulge pic. Unless you wish to be cucked you need to do this bhai.

I'm not gonna do that. I'm keeping it safe, halal and tasteful.

Would a tasteful underwear shoot be okay? Or me wearing grey sweatpants? Or a shower photo only displaying my face and torso?

 

[LiterallyNightwing]

Title, like those modelling shoots that MMs do.

Bear in mind we're halal dating, but we feel extremely attracted to each other, so instead of us trading nudes like what many young couples do, she sends me images of herself wearing well-fitted yet modest clothing, or feminine, modest yet fitted dresses so I could make out the shape of her body.

Should I trade with her, and I send her a tasteful unbuttoned shirt or shirtless image?

(Not a mirror selfie, but something more natural and tasteful, like me shirtless or wearing an unbuttoned shirt in a park, or me doing gardening, during golden hour, so it doesn't look forced.)

I look around 14-15% bf and my abs are looking somewhat more visible now!

You make the worst threads on this forum

 

[Deleted member 29710]

Why are you marrying a nigger again?

 

[Xangsane]

You make the worst threads on this forum

The skyline falls as I try to make sense of it all​

 

[Xangsane]

Why are you marrying again?

I love her.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

I love her.

The real reason: Because she's the first girl who ever gave you any attention, you don't actually know her or love her, you only love the idea of her

 

[Deleted member 29710]

I love her.

It’s just I think the LARP would be better if you were marrying an Arab. The nigger wife storyline is just incredulous and ruins immersion.

 

[Xangsane]

It’s just I think the LARP would be better if you were marrying an Arab. The nigger wife storyline is just incredulous and ruins immersion.

In pursuing yonder what they have lost, they encounter only the nothing they have. In order not to lose touch with the everyday dreariness in which, as irremediable realists, they are at home, they adapt the meaning they revel in to the meaninglessness they flee. The worthless magic is nothing other than the worthless existence it lights up.

 

[Xangsane]

The real reason: Because she's the first girl who ever gave you any attention, you don't actually know her or love her, you only love the idea of her

I had an ex gf, but I asked to split up from her and repenting.

 

[Deleted member 29710]

In pursuing yonder what they have lost, they encounter only the nothing they have. In order not to lose touch with the everyday dreariness in which, as irremediable realists, they are at home, they adapt the meaning they revel in to the meaninglessness they flee. The worthless magic is nothing other than the worthless existence it lights up.

You understand it doesn’t really add up though, right? If you were actually an HTN or even MTN Arab/White mix you wouldn’t even be considering a nigger and your father would probably be on your ass for it, considering he married white. You need to fix up your script writing

 

[Xangsane]

You understand it doesn’t really add up though, right? If you were actually an HTN or even MTN Arab/White mix you wouldn’t even be considering a nigger and your father would probably be on your ass for it, considering he married white. You need to fix up your script writing

Firstly she's mixed, secondly my dad might have been disappointed at first but mum and I persuaded him that she's just everything I wanted, he started to calm down a bit when he got to know her better.

I'm also chadlite.

 

[bishōnenmaxxer]

Send her a pic of my BBC, I'll be sure to cover it in a cloth to keep it halal.

Seriously though, if you want to err on the side of caution, don't send any photos. In your postion I 100% would though. Makes her feel like you are putting in effort into the sensual side of the relationship.

 

[Xangsane]

Send her a pic of my BBC, I'll be sure to cover it in a cloth to keep it halal.

Seriously though, if you want to err on the side of caution, don't send any photos.

Not at all?

In your postion I 100% would though.

Why?

Makes her feel like you are putting in effort into the sensual side of the relationship.

Should I not send any at all or just a LITTLE tease (a friendly, totally SFW image of me shirtless or with my shirt unbuttoned doing gardening or DIY work).

 

[Deleted member 29710]

Firstly she's mixed, secondly my dad might have been disappointed at first but mum and I persuaded him that she's just everything I wanted, he started to calm down a bit when he got to know her better.

I'm also chadlite.

If you were Chadlite you’d be marrying an actual Arab or a mixed white Arab like yourself instead of some nigger half breed, sorry. LTN/MTN with FaceApp morph halo

 

[bishōnenmaxxer]

It will work, trust.

Not at all?

Again, I say to err on the side of caution. You could make an argument that this is pretty much sexting, which doing prior to marriage is iffy at best. Again though you say you are doing this clothed, so that makes the water even more grey on the subject.

@TRUE_CEL @SecularIslamist @fauxfox @mecha72 GTFIH. If you have actual Islamic proof, as opposed to deliberations between friends or anecdotes like I provided, please give some insight for Xangsane.

Why?

Because if you got it, flaunt it. I'm incredibly unintelligent, so my body really is the best thing I can offer.

Should I not send any at all or just a LITTLE tease (a friendly, totally SFW image of me shirtless or with my shirt unbuttoned doing gardening or DIY work).

See above explanations. Again, in your position, I 100% would send shirtless pics (after leanmaxxing ofc).

Up to you, but I say go for it.

 

[Xangsane]

If you were Chadlite you’d be marrying an actual Arab or a mixed white Arab like yourself instead of some nigger half breed, sorry. LTN/MTN with FaceApp morph halo

Or what if I told you that I also find mixed girls attractive and not really attracted to white-passing girls?

 

[Deleted member 21661]

Send her a full nude dick pick or she will cuck you bro.

He's 4.5" so she will cuck him if he sends it

 

[Xangsane]

It will work, trust.


Again, I say to err on the side of caution. You could make an argument that this is pretty much sexting, which doing prior to marriage is iffy at best. Again though you say you are doing this clothed, so that makes the water even more grey on the subject.

I'm gonna have to think about it. Even a seemingly innocent photo of me shirtless/with an unbuttoned shirt while gardening would be sexting?

 

[Xangsane]

He's 4.5" so she will cuck him if he sends it

*5.8" bp

 

[Deleted member 24278]

It would turn them on if you have a good body. If you look inkwell it's over

 

[Deleted member 21661]

*5.8" bp

Over because sub 7"

 

[ItsOver999]

I sent a photo like this (no smiling, and my arm wasnt doing that) to my oneitis and she said it made her wet. So yeah it could be good if u make it a hot picture, i can judge the picture for u

 

[Unhuman]

just send cat videos.

 

[bishōnenmaxxer]

i can judge the picture for u

Least homosexual .org user, soliticing tasteful nudes meant for his wife

 

[Xangsane]

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I sent a photo like this (no smiling, and my arm wasnt doing that) to my oneitis and she said it made her wet. So yeah it could be good if u make it a hot picture, i can judge the picture for u

Would it still be halal/tasteful?

 

[Unhuman]

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I sent a photo like this (no smiling, and my arm wasnt doing that) to my oneitis and she said it made her wet. So yeah it could be good if u make it a hot picture, i can judge the picture for u

lol

 

[Xangsane]

It would turn them on if you have a good body. If you look inkwell it's over

Mesomorph, ~14-15% bf, slightly visible abs/flat stomach.

 

[Deleted member 24278]

Mesomorph, ~14-15% bf, slightly visible abs/flat stomach.

Then good Chad

 

[Xangsane]

Then good Chad

If I go ahead and send it would she like it?

 

[Deleted member 24278]

If I go ahead and send it would she like it?

Yeah but in my experience women prefer dick picks, they're obsessed with hard cocks

 

[Xangsane]

Yeah but in my experience women prefer dick picks, they're obsessed with hard cocks

I'm trying to keep it safe and halal.

 

[Deleted member 24278]

I'm trying to keep it safe and halal.

Then shirtless should be good

 

[Xangsane]

Then shirtless should be good

@bishōnenmaxxer you think?

 

[Gengar]

@mecha72 GTFIH. If you have actual Islamic proof, as opposed to deliberations between friends or anecdotes like I provided, please give some insight for Xangsane.

As part of the male hijab (yes, men have hijab, too -- it means covering), the area from the belly button down to the knees have to be covered. So as long as OP does not show that area, it is allowed to show it. Otherwise he should refrain from showing it or perhaps just crop out anything that exposes his awrah. @Xangsane @emeraldglass

 

[ItsOver999]

Would it still be halal/tasteful?

Idk im not a muslim habibi

 

[emeraldglass]

Title, like those modelling shoots that MMs do.

Bear in mind we're halal dating, but we feel extremely attracted to each other, so instead of us trading nudes like what many young couples do, she sends me images of herself wearing well-fitted yet modest clothing, or feminine, modest yet fitted dresses so I could make out the shape of her body.

Should I trade with her, and I send her a tasteful unbuttoned shirt or shirtless image?

(Not a mirror selfie, but something more natural and tasteful, like me shirtless or wearing an unbuttoned shirt in a park, or me doing gardening, during golden hour, so it doesn't look forced.)

I look around 14-15% bf and my abs are looking somewhat more visible now!

Abstain from such things, this leads to haram. A picture with clothes on is permissible and so is a picture where you cover everything below the belly button. Every thing below that is haram.

 

[emeraldglass]

As part of the male hijab (yes, men have hijab, too -- it means covering), the area from the belly button down to the knees have to be covered. So as long as OP does not show that area, it is allowed to show it. Otherwise he should refrain from showing it or perhaps just crop out anything that exposes his awrah. @Xangsane @emeraldglass

Correct!

 

[Gengar]

Correct!

 

[emeraldglass]

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Trucel is a imam too. You got knowledge.

 

[Sanguinius]

Halal Boy - Deen Squad

 

[Deleted member 21661]

Abstain from such things, this leads to haram. A picture with clothes on is permissible and so is a picture where you cover everything below the belly button. Every thing below that is haram. View attachment 2209013

So at the beach I should cover my belly button and my swim trunks should cover my knees?
Damn, didn't know I've been sinning.

 

[Gengar]

Trucel is a imam too. You got knowledge.

You knowledgemog and deenmog me bhai.

 

[emeraldglass]

So at the beach I should cover my belly button and my swim trunks should cover my knees?
Damn, didn't know I've been sinning.

It is the duty of every muslim to study his religion bro. This is common knowledge but many dont know this.

 

[emeraldglass]

You knowledgemog and deenmog me bhai.

We all got our ups and downs. I can not know if i deen mogg you. Maybe your intentions are better than mine. So Allah will reward you better.

 

[Gengar]

We all got our ups and downs. I can not know if i deen mogg you. Maybe your intentions are better than mine. So Allah will reward you better.

Trust me bhai you gotta learn to accept what I say sometimes. You got rose-tinted glasses on but life can be depressingly bleak for others.