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As we all know the key reason why many men self improve (woman included), is so they have more confidence to socialise with other people usually opposite genders. However, these self improvers go through a self improvement journey of their physical appearance, with many coming to an ‘end’ of this journey only to realise one thing. It has not helped their social confidence at all. Why is that? The reason is slapping us all in the face we just refuse to admit it, no matter how hard you change your face, the skin care, diet and general hygiene never serviced your personality. So how can you actually ‘service’ your personality? Simple, all you need is more generic topics to have up your sleeve for conversation. When I say generic topics I simply mean topics such as what is in your pocket, like gum or even the area you and other subject in conversation are in. When you have these topics you can easily start a conversation with somebody even if it is something totally random or a little white lie. “I was over there earlier nearly got hit by a bike have you ever had that problem here?” Or “I love this gum I think I even read that it brightens the teeth have you ever had it?”
As you see these are all ‘generic’ topics that anybody can comment on with no bias on gender, age or even race. However, did you notice one thing about both of those sentences? I turned both conversation starters into questions. Why did I do that? The reason is simple, I turn conversation starters into questions so that the conversation continues to flow. Let’s say I didn’t turn the starters into questions “I was over there earlier and nearly got hit by a bike.” I would receive very short or even one worded responses such as “oh, not good.” Or even just a fake laugh. Both of those responses are very difficult if not impossible to respond to without having to change the topic. So turning comments into questions keep that topic flowing stopping you from having to come up with something new to talk about every five minutes, as questions such as the previous two lead to responses such as “I didn’t know that, where do you get the gum?” Or for the other one “I haven’t but I’ve seen other people nearly hit.” However, how does all of this actually help and am I just your typical blue/red pill coping with the fact looks do matter? The way it helps is that previously your struggle was the fact you had nothing to talk about with people, with generic topics you can start a conversation from anything in front of you. Try it out now on anybody around you whether that is your parents or partner if you refuse to believe this method. Simply look in front of you and turn your statement into a question. “I love this TV, where did we get it from again?” “I like the colour of the wall, what colour actually is it?
Overall this small text has displayed my method on how you can start and maintain conversation with anybody no matter your conversation segmentation and why this may of been your problem with conversations this whole time.
As we all know the key reason why many men self improve (woman included), is so they have more confidence to socialise with other people usually opposite genders. However, these self improvers go through a self improvement journey of their physical appearance, with many coming to an ‘end’ of this journey only to realise one thing. It has not helped their social confidence at all. Why is that? The reason is slapping us all in the face we just refuse to admit it, no matter how hard you change your face, the skin care, diet and general hygiene never serviced your personality. So how can you actually ‘service’ your personality? Simple, all you need is more generic topics to have up your sleeve for conversation. When I say generic topics I simply mean topics such as what is in your pocket, like gum or even the area you and other subject in conversation are in. When you have these topics you can easily start a conversation with somebody even if it is something totally random or a little white lie. “I was over there earlier nearly got hit by a bike have you ever had that problem here?” Or “I love this gum I think I even read that it brightens the teeth have you ever had it?”
As you see these are all ‘generic’ topics that anybody can comment on with no bias on gender, age or even race. However, did you notice one thing about both of those sentences? I turned both conversation starters into questions. Why did I do that? The reason is simple, I turn conversation starters into questions so that the conversation continues to flow. Let’s say I didn’t turn the starters into questions “I was over there earlier and nearly got hit by a bike.” I would receive very short or even one worded responses such as “oh, not good.” Or even just a fake laugh. Both of those responses are very difficult if not impossible to respond to without having to change the topic. So turning comments into questions keep that topic flowing stopping you from having to come up with something new to talk about every five minutes, as questions such as the previous two lead to responses such as “I didn’t know that, where do you get the gum?” Or for the other one “I haven’t but I’ve seen other people nearly hit.” However, how does all of this actually help and am I just your typical blue/red pill coping with the fact looks do matter? The way it helps is that previously your struggle was the fact you had nothing to talk about with people, with generic topics you can start a conversation from anything in front of you. Try it out now on anybody around you whether that is your parents or partner if you refuse to believe this method. Simply look in front of you and turn your statement into a question. “I love this TV, where did we get it from again?” “I like the colour of the wall, what colour actually is it?
Overall this small text has displayed my method on how you can start and maintain conversation with anybody no matter your conversation segmentation and why this may of been your problem with conversations this whole time.
