Is therapy just a waste of time?

[HairyHairyBoy]

Basically went to a therapist and told how I feel very insecure about my looks and how the way I’m treated is cause of how chopped I am, and he actually agreed with me and said how your idea of doing surgery is actually a good idea cause it will improve your self perception and possibly how people treat you in your head. And that u will feel better about yourself, he also said how im just wasting time rotting instead of taking action. It was phone call therapy but had been sorta helpful. My mom forced me to do it cause she said im delusional and im handsome lol.

Then I spoke to another therapist for a quick call and basically told him these feelings and he said I’m neurotic and all of this could be in my head. He said people looking at you weirdly could mean urhandsome or u look like there sibling. I told him how I didn’t just t think like this for no reason, it’s cause how people treat me over the course of years then he said I’m wrong. Idk what to believe. He essentially said how ur getting a surgery for something that could be completely in ur head and it’s not going to help. Then said come to my office to see me speaking over the phone does nothing.

Who tf do I listen too? Both are older psychologists male.

I have found ways to cope with it but at the same time I want a better life, not a sheltered one. Honestly feel like I’ll regret all this time wasted instead of actually trying

 

[fomin44]

therapist just help you to cope. Thats it, so if youre not completely retarded you can find your own ways of coping without some midwits dictating you

 

[India lover 52]

first one is right second is a bluepilled coper

 

[HairyHairyBoy]

therapist just help you to cope. Thats it, so if youre not completely retarded you can find your own ways of coping without some midwits dictating you

U think hardmaxxing can possibly solve my issue? I don’t want to cope forever. I’d probs continue therapy after as well.

 

[HairyHairyBoy]

first one is right second is a bluepilled coper

Ur probably right. Hard pill to swallow. The bluepiller kinda gave me hope but I don’t think any amount of talking can fix how people treat me.

 

[Simba]

it's kinda shocking how bluepilled most thearapists are even after they hear about hundreds of blackpilling experiences

 

[bjebb007]

First one is actually correct, sometimes softmaxxing/hardmaxxing is the solution and sometimes it's not. Most people only go to therapy to cope instead of solving your problems

 

[stonecold trucel]

therapy can help sometimes but usually its cope

 

[Punished Soygoy]

Fix your looks and the rest will come from alone if you have them