is there a bigger scam than that of romantic love

[wollet2]

drugs come next to my mind but romantic love is more evolutionally driven so its the bigger scam

 

[Klasik616]

Love doesn't exist

 

[wollet2]

Love doesn't exist

kys

 

[enriquecuador]

drugs come next to my mind but romantic love is more evolutionally driven so its the bigger scam

explain how love is a scam?

 

[wollet2]

explain how love is a scam?

you think its better than what it is, something could be done better etc. its just more vulnerability to pain and abysmal joy/happiness/pleasure

 

[enriquecuador]

you think its better than what it is, something could be done better etc. its just more vulnerability to pain and abysmal joy/happiness/pleasure

I would disagree honestly. When u are in love u don't see it as that u see it as a beautiful thing and see past some flaws. Its after u broke up with someone u look back and nitpick moments that were bad because it makes u feel better. Nobody remembers most of the good things in a relationship. If u are feeling this "during love" then maybe they are not the right person for u. Also people attract people with similar views a lot of the time, who would rather date the girl thats never been treated right by dozens of guys and hates love compared to the excited girl who believes love is the most amazing thing!

 

[wollet2]

I would disagree honestly. When u are in love u don't see it as that u see it as a beautiful thing and see past some flaws. Its after u broke up with someone u look back and nitpick moments that were bad because it makes u feel better. Nobody remembers most of the good things in a relationship. If u are feeling this "during love" then maybe they are not the right person for u. Also people attract people with similar views a lot of the time, who would rather date the girl thats never been treated right by dozens of guys and hates love compared to the excited girl who believes love is the most amazing thing!

search deeper into ur 'feel good' emotions next time ure in love. youll notice one of the 2:
1) they actually dont exist
or
2) theyre feeded by expectations/delusions

once you see this u dont even fall in romantic love anymore. you just see 2 (or 1) poor beings tricked into further suffering

 

[WELOVELOOKS]

this user was always so shit

 

[wollet2]

this user was always so shit

kys ure so beneath me its inconceivable subhuman newfag

 

[RAITEIII]

search deeper into ur 'feel good' emotions next time ure in love. youll notice one of the 2:
1) they actually dont exist
or
2) theyre feeded by expectations/delusions

once you see this u dont even fall in romantic love anymore. you just see 2 (or 1) poor beings tricked into further suffering

What's ur definition of it "not existing"?

 

[enriquecuador]

search deeper into ur 'feel good' emotions next time ure in love. youll notice one of the 2:
1) they actually dont exist
or
2) theyre feeded by expectations/delusions

once you see this u dont even fall in romantic love anymore. you just see 2 poor beings tricked into further suffering

no, I am very focused on physics and other hobbies I have, love is a huge plus that would be stupid to not want. Why nitpick something beautiful. Thats like spoiling santa for a kid (not saying love isn't real just that its gonna make them sad and disalusioned for no reason)

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

love is an illusion

 

[playxiing]

Love doesn't exist

high iq user

 

[WELOVELOOKS]

kys ure so beneath me its inconceivable subhuman newfag

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[wollet2]

What's ur definition of it "not existing"?

thats a bit strange. its like if you put ur attention in it there is nothing

 

[wollet2]

love is an illusion

idk. the point is the feeling of love which is real returns much less joy than what you think it will
people get deluded that they couldve done something better

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

love do exist but its an illusion

according to lacan its fake

(picture is zizek quoting lacan, i disagree with the quote though)

 

[RAITEIII]

thats a bit strange. its like if you put ur attention in it there is nothing

Love is chemical. Some people have more capacity to feel it than others, likewise the range of other emotions and is also circimstancional dependant on who the love object is.

you think its better than what it is, something could be done better etc. its just more vulnerability to pain and abysmal joy/happiness/pleasure

 

[wollet2]

Why nitpick something beautiful.

bcuz its the most obvious scam. idgaf about 'beauty' if its mostly suffering. i see more bad than good to it
happiness and santa are both not real and yup i dont discuss these irl. only in subhuman forums

 

[wollet2]

love do exist but its an illusion

according to lacan its fake

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(picture is zizek quoting lacan, i disagree with the quote though)

sadly real

 

[wollet2]

Love is chemical. Some people have more capacity to feel it than others, likewise the range of other emotions and is also circimstancional dependant on who the love object is.

you dont understand. you still see this in a dumb dualistic way and i have no keyboard to write rn
also you fall hard for the scam of "maybe it will be better with another hotter smarter person"

 

[RAITEIII]

you dont understand. you still see this in a dumb dualistic way and i have no keyboard to write rn
also you fall hard for the scam of "maybe it will be better with another hotter smarter person"

I just describe what my understanding of love is, and I'm going for scientific approach. If you provided more information perhaps I could see your point better.

 

[wollet2]

I just describe what my understanding of love is, and I'm going for scientific approach. If you provided more information perhaps I could see your point better.

yeah well, what was my point. this chemical love youre talking about doesnt feel that great, people believe it could feel better if sth was different or are simply dishonest to their emotions

 

[RAITEIII]

yeah well, what was my point. this chemical love youre talking about doesnt feel that great, people believe it could feel better if sth was different or are simply dishonest to their emotions

Doesn't feel that great,

You're answering through your own lense of experience and understanding. You are right, for some people it's not that great, but for some others it is. And that's based on their neurological make up. There are people who almost never get angry, and others are a ticking bomb. Who are more prone or either inmune to be depressed. Love is the same. Trying to rationalize it with just one shade of expression isn't accurate.

 

[RAITEIII]

yeah well, what was my point. this chemical love youre talking about doesnt feel that great, people believe it could feel better if sth was different or are simply dishonest to their emotions

Doesn't feel that great,

You're answering through your own lense of experience and understanding. You are right, for some people it's not that great, but for some others it is. And that's based on their neurological make up. There are people who almost never get angry, and others are a ticking bomb. Who are more prone or either inmune to be depressed. Love is the same. Trying to rationalize it with just one shade of expression isn't accurate.

 

[Clark]

How is drugs a scam? FBI Propaganda GTFO of here

 

[wollet2]

How is drugs a scam? FBI Propaganda GTFO of here

tell me yu are low iq or have never tried drugs before

 

[wollet2]

Doesn't feel that great,

You're answering through your own lense of experience and understanding. You are right, for some people it's not that great, but for some others it is. And that's based on their neurological make up. There are people who almost never get angry, and others are a ticking bomb. Who are more prone or either inmune to be depressed. Love is the same. Trying to rationalize it with just one shade of expression isn't accurate.

my experience is shareable to others, we're not that different .its accurate and ure wrong. i cant explain more now because i will get anxiety

 

[wollet2]

Doesn't feel that great,

every half sentient person cries 24?7 about how painful love is< missing their ex when theyre no longer together etc, living in pure delusion, or if not then get bored, cheat, then cry again, then search new love

lol if you cant see what a scam it is

 

[RAITEIII]

every half sentient person cries 24?7 about how painful love is< missing their ex when theyre no longer together etc, living in pure delusion, or if not then get bored, cheat, then cry again, then search new love

lol if you cant see what a scam it is

When you eat an icecream you are not worried about how it's gonna end. Everything we have in this world is temporary, enjoy it while you can and build experiences to remember. Enjoy your heartbreak if you have too, none says it's all meant to be rose coloured. If you happen to feel strongly for a person and you lack the knowledge not to fall for limerence (missing them) or any other variation once you break up you're gonna have an awful time. It's a process. You take the good things, what you need to improve or watch out red flags when seeing someone next time.

I don't recommend none to go out there to the world with the mindset something bad will happen. Just be careful. If you get bored, if you/they cheat, that means they're not the right person. Some people find their LTR and stay till they die. So it's not bound to be a bad outcome all the time.

 

[wollet2]

When you eat an icecream you are not worried about how it's gonna end. Everything we have in this world is temporary, enjoy it while you can and build experiences to remember. Enjoy your heartbreak if you have too, none says it's all meant to be rose coloured. If you happen to feel strongly for a person and you lack the knowledge not to fall for limerence (missing them) or any other variation once you break up you're gonna have an awful time. It's a process. You take the good things, what you need to improve or watch out red flags when seeing someone next time.

I don't recommend none to go out there to the world with the mindset something bad will happen. Just be careful. If you get bored, if you/they cheat, that means they're not the right person. Some people find their LTR and stay till they die. So it's not bound to be a bad outcome all the time.

eating an icecream is a let down