Is there any future in big cities?

[Rabbi]

Almost every majorly populated city is an infested liberal.
0 culture, community, morality etc.
economically unsound I could not fathom living in one truly the worst of humanity piled together.

I agree with @OOGABOOGA rural areas etc are the way to go

Imagine raising ur kids there or just living there in general ffs no future that’s why retards are espcapijg from cali to Texas etc.

 

[JackSparrow]

No tbh ngl

 

[Gonthar]

No, the future belongs to third world countries and rural areas, at least there you'll be able to find a girlfriend/wife. I predict that in the future there will be mass migrations but in reverse, from rich countries to poor countries, because it will become almost impossible to find a partner in the developed world.

 

[Deleted member 7240]

Fuck no. Cities are havens of degeneracy. Stick to suburbs and rural country. Girls here are still plenty hot and more traditional (or at least attempt to be). What country are you in?

 

[Deleted member 1476]

better to be a big fish in a small pond

 

[Rabbi]

better to be a big fish in a small pond

This.
I used to mog more often in HS with gymceling etc.
at college with 20+ year olds and clear roiders its fucking demoralizing.

 

[Patrick Baitman]

>is there future in big cities

If you can't get laid in suburbs then you can't get laid anywhere else.

 

[Deleted member 6305]

Big cities are depressing

 

[Rabbi]

As a guy that’s been raised in a village in a rural area. I wanna get outta here asap
Nothing to do, only old people here
There’s also lots of farmers which make the whole area smell like feces for a while

Move into city or suburbs?
City is too much for me tbh

 

[Gonthar]

As a guy that’s been raised in a village in a rural area. I wanna get outta here asap
Nothing to do, only old people here
There’s also lots of farmers which make the whole area smell like feces for a while

Those country girls are the best, in the big city you're gonna be just another peasant. You should move only to make some money, and then return to the village, where your status will skyrocket.

 

[jackthenerd]

The issue is that it's only in the cities you can moneymaxx for real. Another positive is if you creep someone out because of your looks or personality, it doesn't really matter since you'll never see them again. Try doing that in a small, niche community. In a big city, while, sure, the competition is really high, you can just run numbers game hard, and it will never come back and bite you in the ass, the same it would in a low-volume, small environment/community.

 

[so_cold97]

Some cities have legit rural suburbs.
I'm not gonna be specific but where I moved for work, it's one of the biggest cities in the nation but there are a decent amount of people commuting from what is essentially still the country. Maybe the exurbs. But the metro area is still full of super dense suburbs and urban high rises.

 

[Rabbi]

Some cities have legit rural suburbs.
I'm not gonna be specific but where I moved for work, it's one of the biggest cities in the nation but there are a decent amount of people commuting from what is essentially still the country. Maybe the exurbs. But the metro area is still full of super dense suburbs and urban high rises.

That’s lucky case tbh.
Where I live it’s kinda like if you wanna work or study here (am a student) you have to live in dorms or get an apartment if your working.

The issue is that it's only in the cities you can moneymaxx for real. Another positive is if you creep someone out because of your looks or personality, it doesn't really matter since you'll never see them again. Try doing that in a small, niche community. In a big city, while, sure, the competition is really high, you can just run numbers game hard, and it will never come back and bite you in the ass, the same it would in a low-volume, small environment/community.

Tbh just wanna get my degree and dip out.
City is too depressing for me idk why, I’m not even a creep lol just don’t like the atmosphere.

 

[Deleted member 1476]

As a guy that’s been raised in a village in a rural area. I wanna get outta here asap
Nothing to do, only old people here
There’s also lots of farmers which make the whole area smell like feces for a while

same i live in a village and wish i was in city with a bachelor pad

 

[Gosick]

 

[jackthenerd]

Tbh just wanna get my degree and dip out.
City is too depressing for me idk why, I’m not even a creep lol just don’t like the atmosphere.

Most people don't consider themselves creeps, I don't either. I don't stalk people, I don't creep people out, I believe I'm capable of reading most social situations/interactions decently well. I know where the line is.

The problem is though, and I might just be speaking for myself here, but I also feel like it could be applied to a lot of this forum as a whole. If you're just even slightly less socially calibrated than normies, and you're slightly below average lookswise, then you'll creep people out just as a result of that alone.

Now imagine if you're even less socially calibrated than slightly below normies, or you're actually bad looking, instead of just slightly below average, then it's even worse.

Basically in high density, high anonymity areas, you can more easily get away with not being as socially calibrated. Maybe some bluepill/redpill right here, but you can also just get away with being a bit more risky in terms of meeting women / seduction /interpreting signals. You don't have to nail and interpret every signal correctly every time. You can basically run the numbers game more effectively.

 

[Rabbi]

Most people don't consider themselves creeps, I don't either. I don't stalk people, I don't creep people out, I believe I'm capable of reading most social situations/interactions decently well. I know where the line is.

The problem is though, and I might just be speaking for myself here, but I also feel like it could be applied to a lot of this forum as a whole. If you're just even slightly less socially calibrated than normies, and you're slightly below average lookswise, then you'll creep people out just as a result of that alone.

Now imagine if you're even less socially calibrated than slightly below normies, or you're actually bad looking, instead of just slightly below average, then it's even worse.

Basically in high density, high anonymity areas, you can more easily get away with not being as socially calibrated. Maybe some bluepill/redpill right here, but you can also just get away with being a bit more risky in terms of meeting women / seduction /interpreting signals. You don't have to nail and interpret every signal correctly every time. You can basically run the numbers game more effectively.

Makes sense tbh, people who don’t blend into social situations are seen as outcasts many times especially in smaller groups.
I feel like social situations in the city are more complex and fast paced imo but that could just be me.
City is best for grinding through stuff like work progress or even social situations but that’s just too exhausting for me personally lol.

 

[Peachy]

Inel in the city is still inel in the rural area

 

[Rabbi]

Inel in the city is still inel in the rural area

Hypergamy is worse in city imo

 

[Peachy]

Hypergamy is worse in city imo

Yes but if u fuck up in a small community, you fuck up for life whereas in the city you see new people every day.

 

[Rabbi]

Yes but if u fuck up in a small community, you fuck up for life whereas in the city you see new people every day.

But it’s the same thing for foids, they meet new Chads everyday so LTR’s are literally impossible without her cheating on you.

 

[Peachy]

But it’s the same thing for foids, they meet new Chads everyday so LTR’s are literally impossible without her cheating on you.

Fuck women bro. Just pay an escort and fuck her if u wanna fuck a woman. What’s the point of spending time with women outside the bedroom anyway?

 

[Rabbi]

Fuck women bro. Just pay an escort and fuck her if u wanna fuck a woman. What’s the point of spending time with women outside the bedroom anyway?

I guess I’m still bluepilled lol, but I would like to start a family one day feels bad man.

 

[Vitruvian]

big cities are so fucking dogshit. you cannot make a single stranger your friend unless you are a libtart faggot.

 

[Rabbi]

big cities are so fucking dogshit. you cannot make a single stranger your friend unless you are a libtart faggot.

It’s just a cesspool of virtue signalling degenerates tbh.

 

[OOGABOOGA]

No tbh ngl

Highiq

 

[Peachy]

I guess I’m still bluepilled lol, but I would like to start a family one day feels bad man.

If you have the patience to put up with a woman’s crap for many years go ahead. Personally, I get bored of people 1 week after meeting them.

 

[anti caking agents]

Cities accumulate warmth due to the amount of concrete inherent in their construction.

What you should be asking yourself is - what cities will survive the realities of climate change? The answer is tnot many. Any city around the equator will not be habitable.

Depending on how the jetstream turns out which no one really has accurate models on right now - however if it doesnt change substainally then long term there is only futures to be found in northern laying cities.

 

[Deleted member 5061]

Big cities are hardcore degeneracy cesspools and full of narcy ppl and snobs wherever you go. Forget sincere affection, caring, humbleness and many other things.

Everyone uses everyone for their personal benefits and wouldnt give a shit about that person AFTER extracting whatever they want out of that person.

Big cities are literally aids tbh.

 

[Rabbi]

Big cities are hardcore degeneracy cesspools and full of narcy ppl and snobs wherever you go. Forget sincere affection, caring, humbleness and many other things.

Everyone uses everyone for their personal benefits and wouldnt give a shit about that person AFTER extracting whatever they want out of that person.

Big cities are literally aids tbh.

Its like the worst of humanity concentrated into one area.

 

[Deleted member 5061]

Its like the worst of humanity concentrated into one area.

I mean I lived in a countryside and moved to a city, due to work etc. It does have its disadvantages and so on but ppl are way more humane, hospitable and overal friendly even towards random ppl they dont know. Its like a community where you want to get along well with others. It resembles a "tribe" where ppl care about each other more than big cities.

Big cities are like internet, if you have alot of anonymitiy, the place will be aids for the most part.

 

[Rabbi]

I mean I lived in a countryside and moved to a city, due to work etc. It does have its disadvantages and so on but ppl are way more humane, hospitable and overal friendly even towards random ppl they dont know.

Wait people are more friendly in the city or the country side?

 

[Deleted member 5061]

Wait people are more friendly in the city or the country side?

Country side ofc. In the city everyone is full of themselves, acting like snobs and shit. Esp. in big cities with alot of bourgeois living in them.

 

[turkproducer]

i feel like everywhere will be shit to live soon.

 

[Rabbi]

Country side ofc. In the city everyone is full of themselves, acting like snobs and shit. Esp. in big cities with alot of bourgeois living in them.

Makes sense.
Went on a roadtrip to the countryside not too long ago, the people were so much more chill and friendly