AscendBender
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I'm in uni atm and have had some slays in the past here but this year I haven't gotten one slay and I want to know if my situation is volcel or not.
I basically only end up in relations with girls who approach me first somehow, whether cold or in social settings. But I get cold approached very very rarely and I don't go anywhere or do anything with girls around for me to even meet any.
I have no public social media profile for people who could know me to find me, so I'm basically out in the cold.
I had this sort of fantasy that ascending would mean getting cold approached whenever a girl wants me, but it's probably cope.
I also feel like approaching girls is actually easy, but I just find it so cringe and jester and I hate boosting girls' egos, so I've just lived super isolated from females in general the past year or so.
The one girl I did approach this year ended up cutting things off with me quite quickly, eventually and getting with some fucking MTN maybe lower.
I don't know if it's me or if it's how much girls are attracted to me, but I'm just wondering if I've gone too ND and if any of you have experienced this before.
I can tell some stories if you guys like about IOI's and when I have been approached too.
But to sum it up, is there a point where looks outperform being ND with no social life, or is NT law even if you mog?
I basically only end up in relations with girls who approach me first somehow, whether cold or in social settings. But I get cold approached very very rarely and I don't go anywhere or do anything with girls around for me to even meet any.
I have no public social media profile for people who could know me to find me, so I'm basically out in the cold.
I had this sort of fantasy that ascending would mean getting cold approached whenever a girl wants me, but it's probably cope.
I also feel like approaching girls is actually easy, but I just find it so cringe and jester and I hate boosting girls' egos, so I've just lived super isolated from females in general the past year or so.
The one girl I did approach this year ended up cutting things off with me quite quickly, eventually and getting with some fucking MTN maybe lower.
I don't know if it's me or if it's how much girls are attracted to me, but I'm just wondering if I've gone too ND and if any of you have experienced this before.
I can tell some stories if you guys like about IOI's and when I have been approached too.
But to sum it up, is there a point where looks outperform being ND with no social life, or is NT law even if you mog?
