Is treating women like shit meta?

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The more dismissive I am towards women, the more I ignore them, the more I act like I don’t even want to speak to them or be near them the nicer they are to me, the better signals they give and the closer they try to get?

But the issue is…if I like her…and I act like this, the second I try to escalate the facade drops.

How does it even work?

It’s obvious that the more of a cunt I am the better I’ll do…but I feel like you need to balance it
 
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if you truly love someone you will not treat her like shit. if its a random foid you wont gaf if she dies as long as you fuck
 
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The more dismissive I am towards women, the more I ignore them, the more I act like I don’t even want to speak to them or be near them the nicer they are to me, the better signals they give and the closer they try to get?

But the issue is…if I like her…and I act like this, the second I try to escalate the facade drops.

How does it even work?

It’s obvious that the more of a cunt I am the better I’ll do…but I feel like you need to balance it
Schizoniggers.org
 
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The more dismissive I am towards women, the more I ignore them, the more I act like I don’t even want to speak to them or be near them the nicer they are to me, the better signals they give and the closer they try to get?

But the issue is…if I like her…and I act like this, the second I try to escalate the facade drops.

How does it even work?

It’s obvious that the more of a cunt I am the better I’ll do…but I feel like you need to balance it
Rapemox bro. Rapemax
 
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if you truly love someone you will not treat her like shit. if its a random foid you wont gaf if she dies as long as you fuck
BS

If you love a girl and pedestalise her she’ll get the ick
 
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depends some women wants to be loved aswell and some want to be treated like shi
 
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The more dismissive I am towards women, the more I ignore them, the more I act like I don’t even want to speak to them or be near them the nicer they are to me, the better signals they give and the closer they try to get?

But the issue is…if I like her…and I act like this, the second I try to escalate the facade drops.

How does it even work?

It’s obvious that the more of a cunt I am the better I’ll do…but I feel like you need to balance it
they just want attention they dont even have a drop of feeling for U they are just chasing the best genes available that the true
 
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imo, no.

I try to stand by the saying "treat others the way you want to be treated"

Just be yourself, eventually you will find someone that lets you be you.
 
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imo, no.

I try to stand by the saying "treat others the way you want to be treated"

Just be yourself, eventually you will find someone that lets you be you.
Women are hard wired to find assholes attractive
 
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BS if you're attractive and have good stats theyll give you signals and be closer to you no matter your behavior
 
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BS if you're attractive and have good stats theyll give you signals and be closer to you no matter your behavior
LMAO this is cope. Chads get cucked all the time.
 
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Women are hard wired to find assholes attractive
In that case my parents wouldn't be together.

They only find assholes attractive for short term relationships.

Unless your goal is that i suggest you to just be yourself.
 
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Only people with a lack of life experience will deny what you just said. It's basically a combination of showing dominance and the fact that women, despite what they say, never want to be the center of your life because it signals to them that you are an insecure boy.
But the issue is…if I like her…and I act like this, the second I try to escalate the facade drops.

How does it even work?
The trick is to make it so its no longer a facade. You must genuinely from the get go, go in with the mindset that she is not important to you and that you will only use her as entertainment. Its hard genuinely making yourself not care especially when u got them on a hook and they are pumping oxytocin like crazy towards you but if you manage to remain "cold" you will have an abundance of women and you will always be the one holding the reigns in a relationship.

I recommend reading @TheLastLaugh 's posts together with this:

 
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In that case my parents wouldn't be together.

They only find assholes attractive for short term relationships.

Unless your goal is that i suggest you to just be yourself.
Yeah obviously women’s strategy for long term dating is different to short term stuff
 
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We in the big 26 i can't give advice for dating just treat them like shit get ur rocks off and go to the next one
 
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Only people with a lack of life experience will deny what you just said. It's basically a combination of showing dominance and the fact that women, despite what they say, never want to be the center of your life because it signals to them that you are an insecure boy.

The trick is to make it so its no longer a facade. You must genuinely from the get go, go in with the mindset that she is not important to you and that you will only use her as entertainment. Its hard genuinely making yourself not care especially when u got them on a hook and they are pumping oxytocin like crazy towards you but if you manage to remain "cold" you will have an abundance of women and you will always be the one holding the reigns in a relationship.

I recommend reading @TheLastLaugh 's posts together with this:

Great advice.

I used to have to fake this sort of stuff, and saw limited success. It’s only when you truly enscapulste not caring about her that it works IMO.

I genuinely have stopped caring because I’ve increased volume so much in terms of the number of foids I engage with, and because I’m busy with my own purpose.

My main issue is balancing niceness and being bad though. You do need to be nice to an extent. Otherwise, how are you going to take her out?

Good thread btw, saw it a while back and im very familiar with it now.
 
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No it doesnt work, some dudes treat women like shit because they can, and the women know they can so theyd rather put up with it

Its just a consequence of a great smv, its not a cause
 
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No it doesnt work, some dudes treat women like shit because they can, and the women know they can so theyd rather put up with it

Its just a consequence of a great smv, its not a cause
Partially true

Yet we can see bums, crackheads and criminals who have low SMV get away with this

What matters most is HER perception of your value as opposed to the objective criteria

That’s why a LTN thug will do better than a HTN neuroticcel
 
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My main issue is balancing niceness and being bad though. You do need to be nice to an extent. Otherwise, how are you going to take her out?
True, learning how to balance what is essentially two opposite natures, hot and cold, is quite difficult. Also as an interesting off topic thing you can notice that traditionally the hot/cold or nice/rude tactic was historically and even today is most often employed by women, this comes to them instinctually due to their natural hormonal swings. Women like these have been called coquettes and one of the greatest historically was Josephine, the wife of Napoleon, who married him and cucked him and yet held him on a leash and enough sexual frustration to conquer Europe.
I think the best strategy is to learn how to appear nice while insinuating more, like learning how to control your tone to seem harmless and "innocent" while flirting or making suggestive comments. Also ofc looks matter and its harder for a muscular guy at 190+ cm and dark coloring to seem "harmless" than it is for a pb with light coloring.
 
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True, learning how to balance what is essentially two opposite natures, hot and cold, is quite difficult. Also as an interesting off topic thing you can notice that traditionally the hot/cold or nice/rude tactic was historically and even today is most often employed by women, this comes to them instinctually due to their natural hormonal swings. Women like these have been called coquettes and one of the greatest historically was Josephine, the wife of Napoleon, who married him and cucked him and yet held him on a leash and enough sexual frustration to conquer Europe.
I think the best strategy is to learn how to appear nice while insinuating more, like learning how to control your tone to seem harmless and "innocent" while flirting or making suggestive comments. Also ofc looks matter and it’s harder for a muscular guy at 190+ cm and dark coloring to seem "harmless" than it is for a pb with light coloring.
Yeah. Thing is, my appearance is kinda darkish as it is. I have darker, deep set eyes and thick, tilted eyebrows on top of being tall and muscular so it’s not really congruent for me to act nice. Always failed doing that.
 
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Yeah. Thing is, my appearance is kinda darkish as it is. I have darker, deep set eyes and thick, tilted eyebrows on top of being tall and muscular so it’s not really congruent for me to act nice. Always failed doing that.
Tbh then you should just accept your role. Its easier and more rewarding long term to go with the flow of your instinct and physiognomy rather than to try to be something you are not. There will always be a high demand for low trust archetypes, the only downside to them is that its harder for LTRs but even then its only hard until you find the right "victim" who will put up with you. From personal observation its also more darker coloring girls HQNP types (not deathnics necessarilly :lul:) that are attracted to low trust guys.
 
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if you truly love someone you will not treat her like shit. if its a random foid you wont gaf if she dies as long as you fuck
Sensitive young men rise up
 
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Tbh then you should just accept your role. Its easier and more rewarding long term to go with the flow of your instinct and physiognomy rather than to try to be something you are not. There will always be a high demand for low trust archetypes, the only downside to them is that its harder for LTRs but even then its only hard until you find the right "victim" who will put up with you. From personal observation its also more darker coloring girls HQNP types (not deathnics necessarilly :lul:) that are attracted to low trust guys.
Are you saying darker women prefer low trust men more than lighter gals?
 
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Are you saying darker women prefer low trust men more than lighter gals?
At least from my observation. Birds of a feather tend to fly together for LTRs, you rarely see a Jason Momoa or Roman Reigns type married to a margot robbie or kate upton.
 
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At least from my observation. Birds of a feather tend to fly together for LTRs, you rarely see a Jason Momoa or Roman Reigns type married to a margot robbie or kate upton.
Interesting. That sucks since I prefer my opposite. Don’t think there’s much I can do though
 
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Interesting. That sucks since I prefer my opposite. Don’t think there’s much I can do though
Dont dismay, there are always exceptions and you might get lucky
 
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The more dismissive I am towards women, the more I ignore them, the more I act like I don’t even want to speak to them or be near them the nicer they are to me, the better signals they give and the closer they try to get?

But the issue is…if I like her…and I act like this, the second I try to escalate the facade drops.

How does it even work?

It’s obvious that the more of a cunt I am the better I’ll do…but I feel like you need to balance it
No, this isn’t the meta. Don’t treat others like shit.
 
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The more dismissive I am towards women, the more I ignore them, the more I act like I don’t even want to speak to them or be near them the nicer they are to me, the better signals they give and the closer they try to get?

But the issue is…if I like her…and I act like this, the second I try to escalate the facade drops.

How does it even work?

It’s obvious that the more of a cunt I am the better I’ll do…but I feel like you need to balance it
method i just made, build a big tough wall but then once you guys ge to know eachother better sometimes drop that wall and become super caring but only do it rarely, this will maybe cause her to see something better inside you and keep her seaching for that caring boy deep down
 
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Dont dismay, there are always exceptions and you might get lucky
I suppose. I know for a fact that opposites attract but whether that works long term…
 
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