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It's quite a controversial take but I'm not saying that personality is everything, rather that acting like an LTN will put you in a more unfortunate spot than actually being an LTN. I've always considered looksmaxxing something that applies to every part of you, whether that be your looks, voice, status, or personality, as they can all be improved majorly if you have the desire to.
How attractive someone is always subjective depending on the person, obviously there is a scientific scale which cannot be denied but that is usually only for things like modeling and doesn't always come to mind when people judge someone based off of looks, there are plenty of examples where someone who would be classified as an "LTN" or "MTN" had no problems talking to women and getting in long and healthy relationships easily.
What actually repels any chance of that is what I like to call "acting ugly," unlike looks, this isn't subjective at all, and certain things will almost always disgust the average person when heard. I have seen multiple users on this site glorify things like but not limited to: rape, murder, hatred of women, and sexual assault.
Now as a fellow human being, I am in no place to judge anyone, that simply isn't my duty as I know nothing about them and it isn't my place to, since I am no more of a human than anyone else, while I may not agree with any of it, it's just not what I am meant to do. However, what I can do is say that for a lot of you, this is why you may have issues building relationships with women/people in general. It almost always goes up against their basic morality, and just like how I know nothing about any of you, you don't know much about them either, and unfortunately due to the state of the world, a vast majority of the people you talk to may have had unpleasant experiences with the things I mentioned earlier which are glorified by some people on this site, and so there is a strong chance that you may not only lose any chance of them liking you, but you will have also caused someone to hate you deeply, which may spread to other people which will end up jeopardizing your chances of successfully establishing a relationship where you are.
When a person meets you, or you meet another person, the first thing that is analyzed is the face, and even though beauty is in the eye of the beholder, some people unfortunately have a lower chance of being immediately liked due to how they are perceived by their looks by the other person, however this alone, most of the time isn't a strong reason to dislike someone, however if said person was to exhibit a loathsome personality, that would then give a strong reason for the other person to now dislike them, and their dislike would also be heavily fueled by their bias towards the person's looks. But if the person who wasn't immediately liked due to their looks showed a more delightful and pleasant personality, all dislike towards them would quickly be taken back most of the time, and they would have less of an issue building relationships between people, whether platonic or something more than that.
TL;DR - Looks aren't the only thing that distinguish how you'll be treated, sometimes exhibiting a dislikable personality is why a lot of people aren't able to form any type of bond. I am in no place to judge you for how you are but if you wish to form bonds with people and end up with someone, you'll have a much higher chance if you are likable and don't display hatred and loathing as well as admiration for dishonorable acts such as the ones stated above.
I hope you all have a good day, thank you for taking the time to read this if you did.
How attractive someone is always subjective depending on the person, obviously there is a scientific scale which cannot be denied but that is usually only for things like modeling and doesn't always come to mind when people judge someone based off of looks, there are plenty of examples where someone who would be classified as an "LTN" or "MTN" had no problems talking to women and getting in long and healthy relationships easily.
What actually repels any chance of that is what I like to call "acting ugly," unlike looks, this isn't subjective at all, and certain things will almost always disgust the average person when heard. I have seen multiple users on this site glorify things like but not limited to: rape, murder, hatred of women, and sexual assault.
Now as a fellow human being, I am in no place to judge anyone, that simply isn't my duty as I know nothing about them and it isn't my place to, since I am no more of a human than anyone else, while I may not agree with any of it, it's just not what I am meant to do. However, what I can do is say that for a lot of you, this is why you may have issues building relationships with women/people in general. It almost always goes up against their basic morality, and just like how I know nothing about any of you, you don't know much about them either, and unfortunately due to the state of the world, a vast majority of the people you talk to may have had unpleasant experiences with the things I mentioned earlier which are glorified by some people on this site, and so there is a strong chance that you may not only lose any chance of them liking you, but you will have also caused someone to hate you deeply, which may spread to other people which will end up jeopardizing your chances of successfully establishing a relationship where you are.
When a person meets you, or you meet another person, the first thing that is analyzed is the face, and even though beauty is in the eye of the beholder, some people unfortunately have a lower chance of being immediately liked due to how they are perceived by their looks by the other person, however this alone, most of the time isn't a strong reason to dislike someone, however if said person was to exhibit a loathsome personality, that would then give a strong reason for the other person to now dislike them, and their dislike would also be heavily fueled by their bias towards the person's looks. But if the person who wasn't immediately liked due to their looks showed a more delightful and pleasant personality, all dislike towards them would quickly be taken back most of the time, and they would have less of an issue building relationships between people, whether platonic or something more than that.
TL;DR - Looks aren't the only thing that distinguish how you'll be treated, sometimes exhibiting a dislikable personality is why a lot of people aren't able to form any type of bond. I am in no place to judge you for how you are but if you wish to form bonds with people and end up with someone, you'll have a much higher chance if you are likable and don't display hatred and loathing as well as admiration for dishonorable acts such as the ones stated above.
I hope you all have a good day, thank you for taking the time to read this if you did.